My wife is from Zhanjiang, Guangdong, and I am from Hubei. His parents' conditions are average, and my mother is the host, because her mother opposed our being together from the beginning. I am too far away from the crops and I am not well paid. We have been working in Shenzhen, and his parents work in Dongguan. My wife gave birth to a baby in July this year. I thought his parents were close, so I called to tell the good news at the first time and invited my parents-in-law to come and play with me. By the way, I want to see my daughter and nephew. I once asked to come back from childbirth on the phone. My dad and I have already made an appointment, so let's wait for the delivery. It's almost a month. I'll ask my wife how your parents are. Make a phone call and ask. The result is very funny, just saying that the weather is too inconvenient to bask in the sun and I don't want to come, and there is nothing to say in the future. I thought they were in Dongguan and we were in Shenzhen. It's not too far, 200 at most. And his father resigned at the end of the month and returned to his hometown. Isn't it just sunbathing? I always take it to heart. My wife also asked me not to let my dad know, and asked me to tell my dad that they can't go home because they have something urgent and come back next time. Actually, there's nothing urgent. After a while, her mother called and said that her father had rhinitis and went to the hospital for surgery. Without my knowledge, she transferred it to her father 1000 without saying anything, and transferred it to 2000 the next day. Later, after reading her transfer records, I realized that I was not reluctant to spend the money, but felt that it was not worth spending. First, you didn't discuss it with me beforehand. Second, even if rhinitis surgery can't cost 3000 yuan in the hospital, it's not a serious illness. Plus my own medical insurance can be reimbursed. Instead, my own son didn't give a penny, but my wife said it was right for them to give money. I know it is. Did your daughter visit her once when she was pregnant in October? She hasn't come to see her since she gave birth in the hospital. I have a problem with your parents. My wife said that if they did something wrong, it would be my parents. I'm still waiting to meet such parents for the first time. Later, at the end of the year, we decided not to go back to our hometown and spend the New Year in the same place. When his parents found out, they asked us to go to her house on the second day of the Lunar New Year, hoping to hug her seven-month-old nephew. On the second day of the lunar new year, their relatives came, so I thought about taking my newborn child back to my house. I set out the first night and went to their county town the next morning and bought some gifts and a big goose. When I got home, I said I had cooked the meal and waited for us. When I saw it, I saw it. None of the leftovers are fresh. They're not used to the local flavor, and it's fucking cold. When their family finished eating, I ate. I really lost my appetite and drank two bowls of porridge. Thinking that I wouldn't go home so soon, I should treat myself well in the afternoon, so I simply washed my face and took a rest (because I didn't rest when driving at night). In the afternoon, we woke up to play with the children, and my brother-in-law came back from outside. I nodded to him with a smile, but he pretended not to see it and walked away. I borrowed my car last year and crashed into someone else's car in less than half an hour, which made me very unhappy. It's time for dinner. As a result, it was the morning food again, and it was reheated without any food. I was angry, but I didn't vent it. It's all in my heart and I'm not sleepy at night. My wife also said that their relatives can't come tomorrow, and they will come and play together the day after tomorrow. Until the next morning, they got up and ate the same food. Isn't it obvious that they don't welcome me My wife said there were no important guests, so I will not go shopping today. Isn't the goose I bought (18kg) a vegetable? Why not do it?

The most difficult person in this family is your wife. The person who deserves your love most is your wife.

Have such a wife, eat leftovers, not wronged.

Why do you say that?

It can be seen from your whole story that your wife and your marriage are extremely opposed by their family. It can be seen from their attitude towards you that even if you have a child, his parents and brothers will not recognize you.

If you are not recognized, you will not recognize her marriage and her family. I don't want to receive you. I'll give you leftovers This is hitting your wife in the face and making her regret it.

Your parents-in-law and brother-in-law are poor and unreasonable. But very few. There is a sensible and independent woman in his family, and you married her. You should be very happy.

If a woman loves a man so much that he won't marry and doesn't listen to her family, she can't marry you.

You should love and sympathize with such a woman. Give her face and prove to her family that he was right to choose you. His family doesn't like you, but they are as blind as a bat. This is what you should do as a man.

In this case, if you want to make yourself comfortable, just take two bites on the table and deal with it. Take your wife and children to find an excuse, go out and tell your wife that you can't eat those leftovers and let him accompany you to the restaurant. After eating, I went home happily, without any expression.

Be more generous, you and your wife go to the market to buy food and buy it to cook a big meal for your parents-in-law and brother-in-law. I'm embarrassed to go.

Go home once every few years, work hard for yourself, support your wife's face and make your parents-in-law happy. Such a man is a real man, with atmosphere and wisdom, and will not live up to this woman's betrayal of you.

Be considerate of your wife, she is a reasonable woman. He also wants to take you home, get along well with your parents and let them accept you slowly. Those are her parents. She can't leave them alone.

Her home is between her parents and you, and both of them suffer indignities. They are her next of kin. It is rare to go back once. You must put on a facade for him. Stay away from her.

Put yourself in your wife's shoes. She is the hardest. However, it's not easy for her. Isn't it all because she loves you and chose you?

She gives money to her parents to take you home. Everything she does is to make your family recognize you. Do you think looking at the leftovers on the table will make her feel better? There is a sharp problem between her and her parents. She just kept her mouth shut in front of you.

Don't live up to your grievances, even if you are bitter. You are willing to marry a woman who loves you. She lost the favor of her family because she loved you. You can't let her suffer any more.

A woman who is willing to give up her relatives and marry you thinks that you are her own king and worthy of your love.

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