When newlyweds get married, they pay homage to their grandparents' milk and parents first, and then to their mother's uncle. When they eat the banquet, my mother's uncle is also the chairman, and if there is anything at home, I will also ask my uncle to come and help preside over it. This shows that the relationship with my uncle's family is unusual.
As we all know, when children are young, the crown of the brain has not healed and there is no bone covering on the head, so the head is still soft and fragile. So take care of the child and protect his head.
Therefore, there is a saying in the countryside that children's heads should not be touched casually. Some people are frivolous and will hurt children. But not like my uncle. My uncle can touch my nephew's head to show his love and blessing.
My uncle's cow also refers to my uncle and nephew. We all know that it was very important to farm cattle in the past. Farming cattle bear a lot for farmers, and it is difficult to cultivate farmland without them, so farming cattle are the treasure of farmers' families.
Most people don't want to outsource their cattle to others. If others don't know how to cherish it, it will hurt the cow. However, if my nephew comes to borrow scalpers, my uncle will be happy to lend them to my nephew, so my nephew doesn't have to be careful, and his uncle can also use scalpers with confidence.
Therefore, there is a saying in the countryside that "nephews and uncles are close relatives, and the broken bones are connected with relatives". It can be seen that the relationship between nephews and uncles is different from that of ordinary relatives, and it is just as well to treat nephews and uncles as their own children.