If you always remind yourself that I have only been with this person for decades, and one day when we are walking, someone leaves first, you will feel that time is not enough, and you will feel that many arguments about right and wrong don't matter.
It's like many people will worry about the disturbance of life, but when they go to the intensive care unit to feel life and death, they will be cured and realize that their current life is still happy and lucky.
Sure enough, happiness is a comparative level.
Only some people will compare their love with others. Husband will spoil others without other people's money, and his wife is not as beautiful, gentle and virtuous as others, resulting in jealousy and dissatisfaction.
And Csillam seems to be comparing the present with the final outcome. Compared with the end, one of us is destined to say goodbye to the other. If I go first, how much I love her if I stay alone. How sad and reluctant I am if she leaves first.
As Csillam himself said, "I only saw the pain of losing her."
In this way, how precious it is that we can still quarrel and fight together now. Is there any reason to waste such precious time to care about right and wrong and winning or losing?
Csillam is really a special person who comes from honesty and frankness. At the beginning of the program, when asked to write to introduce his wife, Csillam's letter was judged as "stupid straight man" if it wasn't Csillam. But Anita Yuen stood firm and defended her husband, saying, I feel fine.
On a romantic date, Anita Yuen commented that "the thought of barbecue is a great progress". There are many exciting and fun items in the program, and Csillam also said "crazy woman" directly.
So in fact, Csillam is not a warm man as many people commented, but he dotes on Anita Yuen. Anita Yuen also dotes on Chilan, appreciating this simple and honest, frank and even puzzling amorous feelings. They really cherish and love each other.
Csillam once said that it was widely circulated on the Internet: "I always thought that everyone would get old. How beautiful can a beautiful woman be? " ? That girl is eighteen years old, beautiful as a fairy, beautiful as a flower, youthful and beautiful. You can't imagine that she will become 48 years old, and whether it will always be a honeymoon period. "
Therefore, Csillam said, we should keep in mind the feeling of being with our wife at first in various ways, and take the photo of our 18-year-old acquaintance as the photo of our conversation.
It turns out that such immortal love also comes from painstaking management. No one is born to love freshness for ten thousand years. Csillam has seen through the cruelty of life and foresaw many things in the future from the beginning.
If a person is having a sweet time with his lover, and then he tells you: We will not be in the honeymoon period all the time, and many realities of life will break love, so I will start to prevent future twists and turns now. I am psychologically prepared, and I am determined to cherish her determination.
Do you think he is a little pessimistic and a little too sober? But this is the truth of life. Many loves are badly hurt by reality because people really place too many unrealistic expectations on love and romance.
Like Csillam, it is a rationality and a romance with a longer shelf life to love and cherish the shortness of life based on the cruelty and truth of life itself.