With the opening-up of the second and third child policies, many families need to consider the problem of excessive age gap between their children. Sometimes the age difference between the eldest and the second may be ten years old, almost two generations. It is an unavoidable problem to form a communication generation gap between parents and children.
In the variety show My Little Tail 2, four brothers and sisters went to Xiangxi Mushroom to experience life. What kind of trouble will a two-or three-year-old sister bring to an adult brother?
The program group invited Iola as the host, Anita Yuen and David Wang as observers, and made sharp comments from time to time.
This variety show does not take the form of star parents taking their children to eat, drink and have fun, but chooses four pairs of ordinary brothers and sisters, which brings a refreshing feeling to the audience and is more likely to produce a sense of substitution.
My brothers are in a hurry in front of their inexperienced sisters, just like inexperienced young parents.
Although they are adults, they are not mature enough to deal with some unexpected situations.
Several girls have become cute and clingy tails. When their wishes are not satisfied, they often cry to express their dissatisfaction. At this time, my brother usually chooses to compromise and temporarily meet my sister's requirements.
Observers say this way is not good, and we can't give in to the principle, otherwise it will form a bad habit for my sister.
When I first arrived at the mushroom house, the program group assigned tasks to several brother and sister, and the elder brother had to cook for his sister.
My sister is in charge of picking vegetables. Picking vegetables is undoubtedly a relatively new activity for children in the city. Several children are very excited, but Simi is quite resistant to this.
Simi clamored for ham sausage, and Deng Zemin chose to compromise, saying that he would finish the task after eating.
After winning the reward of sausage, my sister turned around and left the task of picking vegetables behind.
Deng Zemin did not indulge his sister, but patiently reasoned with her, saying that everyone had to work when eating, and she could not be lazy alone. This behavior is wrong.
But my sister simply ignored Deng Zeming's nagging and finally made my brother furious. My brother said, "Even a two-year-old child is better than you", which made Simi cry.
Finally, my sister took the initiative to apologize to my brother. She pretended that nothing had happened and went outside to look for her brother.
I can see that Simi is still very smart and knows how to make his brother happy.
On the issue of principle, we should not give in. Deng Zeming has done a good job in this regard. She let her sister know that coquetry can't be broken and let her get rid of bad habits.
When eating, Simi began to cry again. She insisted on not eating porridge, just eating vegetables and watching TV while eating.
Deng Zeming tried his best to lie to his sister that there was sugar in porridge, and threatened her not to watch TV unless she drank porridge.
All these methods failed in my sister's tears.
Deceiving children is essential, which will make them lose their basic trust in you.
Many two-child families have problems caused by these brothers and sisters getting along. My brother or sister has been an only child for more than ten years, and it will be a little uncomfortable to suddenly have a brother and sister. Moreover, in terms of psychological maturity, brothers and sisters are also immature children, who will suddenly assume the responsibility of taking care of their brothers and sisters and will be at a loss.
Most of the problems reflected by these children are the result of parents' arrogance. At first, they didn't do well at all, so it was difficult to change.