I gave birth to a second child when the country just released the second child policy, and now the child is four years old. In fact, sometimes, like most people, I think raising children is a very troublesome thing, which costs money and effort, and sacrifices a lot of personal time ... but as children grow up, many of his performances also bring me more and more surprises.

Pension 2 is completely different from the boss. Without the initial nervousness and unfamiliarity of parents, after paying too much attention to him, the second child has confidence, calmness and relaxation that the boss does not have. For example, taking his second child to kindergarten for an interview or other occasions, he is particularly relaxed. Without the shyness of some children, he can answer the teacher's questions freely. Secondly, the second child's language response ability is particularly fast. Once I took him to the supermarket to buy things. On the way home, he insisted on holding a box of cakes and biscuits. Cookies are on top of the cake on your chest. When walking, the biscuits fell to the ground several times because they were too light. I said to him, "mom, take the cookies." How tired you are holding it yourself! It will break into pieces in the future! " "The second child immediately tilted his head and stared at me with big eyes and said," Mom, you have to bite the biscuit into your mouth later! " "This is the first time I have heard such an interesting point of view. As an adult, how long has it been since I had this leap-forward thinking? And he has a special heart. A few days ago, the kindergarten asked us to buy this book, read it at home and get it to the kindergarten on Monday. The fact is that most children already have this book and have read it many times in kindergarten. As my family is new here, I don't know what to do, so I ask the teacher if the children need to recite or read at home. The teacher told me that I could read directly. He heard it nearby and said to me, "Mom, I can." Then open the book by yourself and point to the special standard of reading. I want to know, "Who taught you?" He proudly said to me, "Nobody taught me. I saw that teachers and children did the same in kindergarten, so I remembered it! " "Ha ha, what a considerate little guy! The kindergarten teacher also said that my children looked at one side and said nothing, but they would ask everything.

There are many such examples. What I want to say is that raising children is very hard, but sometimes it is mutually successful. For example, his relaxed state, including seeing the different points of the problem, inspired and influenced me. Many times, we are not only raising children, but children also achieve themselves invisibly.