1. What do people pay attention to when sending off?
Seeing the bride off is a marriage custom. When the daughter got married, the family invited two men to accompany her to her husband's house, commonly known as seeing her off. Generally, it is the uncle, uncle or cousin of the married person. After giving him away, he can't enter the house until someone picks him up. When eating, two tables are usually shared, and the man sends someone to accompany the banquet. Generally, people who send their relatives away drink less and eat less. After eating, they told their wives to leave. After seeing off the bride, the man's guests continued the wedding reception.
1. Send relatives to their places and arrangements
The farewell party will walk behind the bride's sedan chair and dress generously and appropriately. Nowadays, with the progress of society, married people usually have to prepare several cars for singles who are seeing them off. When the groom's house is near, the farewell stops, because the farewell has to wait for the man to send someone to pick it up. Such a noble person naturally can't walk to the man's house by himself. And men usually wait around early. As soon as the farewell party arrived, someone set off firecrackers to tell the man's family that the farewell party had arrived.
2. Send relatives away from the man's house
The man didn't take the farewell party to his home, but to a community home not far from his home. Because after the bride gets off the sedan chair or gets off the bus, the younger siblings of the man will laugh, and the farewell party is not interested in watching others laugh at the bride.
Pay attention to the door of the farewell party
Guests attending the wedding should stand on the left side of the gate and hold out their hands to make a gesture of coming in. If someone happens to be on the right side of the door at this time, the farewell party will never enter, because it is called "black dog drilling crotch"
Step 4 invite relatives to dinner
The farewell guests are welcomed to sit down at the square table, and the accompanying guests will keep spreading cigarettes and saying compliments, for fear that something inappropriate will ruin the happy event. Of course, this kind of escort is also exquisite. They are all prominent figures in the man's family, with outstanding clothes and extraordinary conversation. This also represents the dignity of the man's family.
5. The banquet rules for sending relatives
When all the dishes are served, the accompanying guests should take the lead in raising chopsticks and saying "please", but don't move until the folder to see relatives off is caught. The farewell party only moves one chopstick head at a time and can't finish eating it. Of course, we should drink at the farewell party, but we can't toast. You should take a sip. The words at the dinner party are also very measured. You can't say more, eat more or eat less. If the farewell party is always unsmiling and aloof, the air will be dull, but if the farewell party is too casual, it will also make the man's family laugh.
Second, what's the point of getting married and giving it away?
1. Li bian rou
When you see the bride off, be sure to bring the meat from your mother. Usually, the day before the wedding, the man will give the woman a bag of noodles and a piece of seven ribs, wrap the meat in red paper, and then take two bottles of red wine and a celery. Noodles come from the mother, and meat comes from the mother, which means that the bride has to leave her mother and set up another door. When sending the bride, the woman will cut the meat and bring back the pork with three ribs to the man.
At the same time, find an empty bottle with mung beans and an onion in it. Bringing the meat back from the mother means that although the daughter is married, half of the daughter is still at the mother's house and cannot be separated. It's called "ribs never leave the body" Mung beans can give birth to bean sprouts, which means telling my in-laws that my daughter can give birth. This is called "after taking root." The farewell party will walk behind the bride's sedan chair and dress generously and appropriately.
Nowadays, with the progress of society, married people usually have to prepare several cars for singles who are seeing them off. When the groom's house is near, the farewell stops, because the farewell has to wait for the man to send someone to pick it up. Such a noble person naturally can't walk to the man's house by himself. And men usually wait around early. As soon as the farewell party arrived, someone set off firecrackers to tell the man's family that the farewell party had arrived.
2. The people who see the bride off should be all living people, avoiding widows and pregnant women.
However, in many places, women are forbidden to go forward at weddings. On the one hand, it is disrespect for women. On the other hand, because women are soft-hearted and emotionally fragile, they will feel sad when they see marriage, and they will cry and lose their voice, which is the misfortune of marriage. Therefore, there are some taboos when seeing off. In fact, the people who send the bride are very particular, and they are usually men. The person who sent the bride is an important role, representing the authority and dignity of the bride's family.
Third, what is the woman's farewell?
1. Xuebaozhai: It is forbidden to see the bride and groom off, and it is customary to dust the bride and groom. Three generations of uncles blessed the bride and groom.
2. Hakka Bridge: There is a custom of wedding guests "dismounting money".
3. deck: widows and people who have not given birth for several years after marriage are strictly forbidden to enter the bridal chamber and are not allowed to give birth to women after marriage.
4. Pillow dam: Send the wedding guests out and sing when they enter the door to increase happiness. Everyone sings and drinks at the wedding reception.
5. Zhongling Mountain: Give money to dismount and see off your relatives. The wedding guests passed the crossroads, set the table for offering sacrifices to the gods, and the woman sang a welcome song to welcome her home.
6. Li Zhishan: Men and women without children are not allowed to enter the bridal chamber, people with serious diseases are not allowed to enter, and couples with children under the full moon are not allowed to enter.
7. Rengong Mountain: Worship the ancestors when seeing the bride off, and worship the man when going to the man's house.
8. Yanggashan: Generally, people who send the bride and the wedding guests stay at the wedding banquet for three days and three nights. The wedding reception lasts for three days, and then the man sends the woman away. On the wedding night, people usually dance in a circle of fire.