Although I'm in a busy and noisy place, I feel like Leng Yue in a cold pool, listening to lonely singing and whispering alone! How can you get a glimpse of the inner scenery of others when you can't get out of the cage of your own heart?
let yourself go first! I don't know what kind of injury and pain you have suffered, but you must always give your frozen heart a chance and a deadline to break out of its cocoon! You put your heart in the dungeon, and you don't want to come out and have a look at the water, the red flowers, the silence like a statue, and the negative emotions are bursting. Who dares to approach you? Aren't you afraid of freezing to death?
What's more, people's hearts are the most sensitive. If you don't want to accept others' approach, people will feel something vaguely, so you shut your heart and your way to others.
change your mind first. No time can't dilute the pain, no years can't bury the trace, and there is only your own torture and closure! All you have to do is let yourself go!
Living in the present is the most important topic in life. The past, happy, painful, sad and tragic experiences are long gone. Just dilute them into an experience, an ordinary experience like eating and drinking water. What's the difference if you think about it carefully? However, they are all fragments that happen on the coordinate axis of time and can never be replayed. Just like dreams, they are real but illusory.
putting it down is like putting down the stone in your pocket. The stone may still be there, in front of your eyes, but not in your heart. Do you feel a lot lighter? Then open your arms and look at the world. There are disputes that have never been broken, but there are also beautiful things that have never been lost. There are ugly things here, but there are also moving pure goodness.
The smiling faces of carefree children running on the grass, the lovers snuggling up to each other on the park benches, and the kind old people walking under the shade of trees, you will find that the outside world is sunny and the spring breeze is gentle except for the small and cold space.
Then, you should love life, discover the joy of life, and actively participate in every detail of life. You can carefully ponder a recipe and cook a big meal for me. You can burn a delicious oven, and it is beneficial to open books. You can enthusiastically help all those in need.
When you become a positive person, when you become a sunny and cheerful person, when you open your arms, then you pay your sincerity and trust to those who deserve it, and use your enthusiasm and change to influence people around you to promote communication and interaction between people.
You should be patient. Opening other people's hearts is as long as opening your own. Don't worry. Get to know him, understand him, approach him, touch him, comfort him, enlighten him, and take him to untie the knot, overcome the demons and welcome the sunrise and rosy clouds of the new day!
People close themselves off because of their obsession. Only by letting go, being optimistic and being pessimistic can they become calm and peaceful, look at everything around them from the perspective of experience and treat people and things around them with a new attitude, and find a breakthrough to integrate into this world!
Only by keeping an indifferent heart for a moment, not pursuing anything and not clinging to gains and losses can we avoid suffering because of persistence.