When I graduated, my father-in-law arranged for my daughter-in-law to be a teacher at school, formally, and then arranged for me to find a relationship with a larger enterprise with the same treatment as a public institution. Originally, my father could have arranged a local job, but on balance, it was better and the pay was similar. So I also thank my grandfather.
After working for a year, we got married. When we got married, our family originally lived on the second floor. My parents think living together is enough. We are not going to buy an apartment building, but my daughter-in-law doesn't want to. My family also plans to buy us a new house. Originally, my parents said to buy us a car as a dowry, about 150 thousand or 60 thousand. Parents think that their money is not enough, so they discuss whether they can buy a cheaper car and help decorate it. No, my father went out and borrowed some full money.
At first, the decoration was not suitable for living together, and my parents wanted us to live with them, so I lived on the second floor. After a long time, there are some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law My daughter-in-law is really lazy, and my mother has some opinions, but she has always had a good attitude. A big conflict broke out in about half a year, and we moved to a new home.
Since marriage, my daughter-in-law has often quarreled with me, mainly because she has a bad impression on me. If anything goes against her mind, she must correct it according to her. Even the interpersonal relationship of my unit. She quarreled with many people at work and asked her father-in-law to transfer her to different departments several times and let me handle it in her way. . . Most of the time, I just roll with the punches. Later, slowly, she began to hit people and dig people. As long as she thinks I'm not doing well, she scolds me. Even my parents and relatives often scratch my chest and arms with blood. Once I really scolded me too much, I called her back and hit her a few times, which provoked a hornet's nest. My parents-in-law came out to talk about me (they also know that my daughter-in-law often beats me).
Yesterday, my mother called and said that jiaozi, the donkey in the bag, wanted us to go back and eat. My daughter-in-law loves jiaozi. She went back early after work. When they were together, my mother said, "Women's underwear had better be washed by themselves. People say that men can press luck by washing their wives' underwear. " My daughter-in-law is unhappy When I went back, my daughter-in-law pulled a long face, ate a few jiaozi and took me away. I ride an electric car and she drives. Who knew she was killed on her way back? According to my dad's name, she pointed her finger at my mother and asked her why she was meddling. She made my mother cry at home and called my mother-in-law.
My daughter-in-law went to her mother-in-law's house, so did I. No matter how I persuaded her, I just bullied her. She scolded my mother in the eighteenth generation of her ancestors (in front of my mother-in-law). My mother-in-law and I both tried to persuade her, but no matter what, I said you were a mistress, so just keep a high profile and apologize to your mother. Sometimes old people talk badly, and you go in one ear and out the other. Not anyway. I have to let my mother know that she is not easy to bully.
I tried to persuade 1 for hours, but I failed to persuade anything. When we returned to our home, she continued to scold. I said we should have a good talk today and solve this problem. Don't hit people or anything (I know she likes to fight and hit people). If you hit someone today, I won't let you go. She said a few words, picked up my mobile phone and threw it at my head. I held it with my arm and didn't hit my head. I told you what you were doing, discussed it, and the reason why you kept hitting people. I said a few words and gave them to me directly. The two of them started fighting. She threw a lot of things at home and hit me. I also hit her arm several times and kicked her ass (she lay on the ground for a while). This is crazy, crying to call my father-in-law, saying that I kicked her all over the floor, and then she packed up and went home. My father-in-law called and said that I went to the unit to find our leader.
I hope everyone will calm down for a few days. My daughter-in-law called me this morning, and in their teacher's office (in front of many teachers), my mother and I were scolded 1 more hours. I'm coming back for a divorce. To be honest, I don't want to leave. After all, I have been in love for more than 8 years. There is nothing wrong with my daughter-in-law, except that she has a bad temper and is suspicious everywhere. Every time something happens, she makes a scene. I've been saying, let's talk about it in a few days, and calm down first.
Finally, call me on three conditions:
1. Never go to my house, including Chinese New Year holidays.
All the belongings in the family belong to her, and nothing is allowed to be given to my mother in the future.
3. Write down the guarantee and press the fingerprint.
Are you going to do this? . . Daughter-in-law, I really don't know what to do. Let me break up with my parents. Can I do this? I don't even talk about filial piety. Am I still human? Is it interesting for you to live with such people? It's really going to be wiped out.