You want to change because you are willing to change, not for anyone, for fear that that person will let you down and you will change back to the original appearance. You can't always live in memories, silly boy. Everyone has a past, and everyone has moments of heartache. You are not the only one who has been hurt in the world. A woman should not be hanged by a tree. I wish I could cry. Crying is a symbol of healing. Your story is over, and he has a new beginning. If you always live in memories, you will never catch up with him. The past has passed, and there is no point in pursuing right or wrong. Look at the sky, still so blue and pure, and you will find that his departure will not take away your blue, but may bring you real happiness. Look at the people around you, such a good boy, there will always be someone around you silently guarding you, waiting for you, don't let the past love blind your eyes, love is a person's business, you can choose to continue to love him, but you have to be honest with yourself. There is no contradiction between loving him and continuing a happy life. If you can tolerate him looking for another woman, why can't you tolerate him not loving you anymore? The grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover. In any case, it is always unforgivable for a person to make excuses. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself. A person can't leave because he doesn't want to go far; A man stands up because he doesn't want to keep an appointment. All excuses are nonsense, used to cover up his unwillingness to sacrifice. And you can't forget and give up just because you don't want to. Life is only a few decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. Maybe a person can only smile when he is really helpless. Can you believe it? When you give him up completely and start another relationship, he will come back to you, and one day he will not be used to life without you. After all, five years of love will not leave nothing behind, and he will be surrounded by your shadow in the future. On holidays, when he is sick, when he is eating, maybe sometimes he will look at his mobile phone and wait for your news, but he finds that it is always quiet. As long as you let go completely, all these things are possible. At this time, just smile. He is not the one you love, just a passer-by.