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Appreciation of Xu Guanghui's Prose "Love Without Borders"
There is a village on the earth, which is located in the northern land of China. Its name is Sunjiazhai. Sunjiazhai also has a name called Xiaocun. Xiaocun is a small village in North China Plain. There are farmers who have lived here for generations and their houses. There are crops and trees around the house. There are cats and dogs dozing in the sun in the street, and the wind blowing from the fields. It is such a small village that can't be more ordinary, but now it has become a unique magnetic field of love in the world. This magnetic field of love is a happy place full of magical power. Anyone who came to this land got the password to get happiness and became a happy person who lived in the secular world but was not fettered by the secular world.

A dutiful son's way home at the beginning of love.

Fu Hongwei, 1980, a native of Sunjiazhai, Xingtai, Hebei Province, is the son of an out-and-out farmer. He has been smart and studious since childhood. He is the monitor of their class. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to a medical university in Shijiazhuang. After graduating from college, Fu Hongwei worked as a sales agent in a pharmaceutical company. Used to be the general agent of a drug in North China, with an annual salary of one million. Fu Hongwei, who is at the peak of his life and has unlimited scenery, why did he give up his superior life of having a house and a car in the provincial capital and return to the countryside? This became a mystery in the local area. The most incredible thing is that Fu Hongwei not only lives in the village, but also sets up a cauldron in the village from his own pocket to cook and deliver meals to the lonely old people in the village. Three meals a day, rain or shine, never stop. Not only that, he knelt down to wash the feet of the old people in the village. What is he doing? People are confused.

Some people laugh at Fu Hongwei as a fool, while others suspect that he has ulterior motives. Even Fu Hongwei's father and wife felt that there was something wrong with Fu Hongwei and he had no worries about food and clothing. But what are you doing, serving the old people in the village?

In the first few days after returning to Sunjiazhai, Fu Hongwei wanted to express his love. The first problem he faced was to explain his motives to people and try to persuade them to accept his love.

Fu Hongwei said that the origin of the matter came from a traditional cultural forum. One day in 2009, Fu Hongwei attended a forum on China traditional culture in Shijiazhuang. This forum, especially touching and grand, sowed the seeds of love in Fu Hongwei's heart. This budding love seed gave Fu Hongwei the idea of promoting and spreading China traditional culture. After two periods of volunteering to promote traditional culture in Shijiazhuang, Fu Hongwei began to think about the value and significance of life for the first time.

For countless nights, Fu Hongwei stood in front of the French window of his living room, looking at the colorful neon lights and the endless crowd in the street, and gently asked himself: Why are people alive? How to live to get real happiness and happiness?

Is it happiness to have a car, a house and children? Don't! People can't live for the sake of living, but should make living more dignified and meaningful. During his days as a volunteer, Fu Hongwei realized the happiness he had never had before. He slowly discovered that living with dignity and meaning means doing what he likes and making life happy! How much happiness lies not in what a person gets, but in what he pays.

As a volunteer of traditional culture, Fu Hongwei really understood the profound connotation of "helping others". You are happy to help others. A person will never understand the mystery of this sentence without personal experience.

In the winter of 20 10, Fu Hongwei, who was far away in Shijiazhuang, suddenly received the news that his father was ill. It was already late at night when he got the call. The next day, Fu Hongwei returned home and rushed to the hospital anxiously, but he did not see his father. My father is lying in the intensive care unit with insufficient blood supply to the myocardium. Fu Hongwei wanted to go in and have a look, but the doctor wouldn't let him in or see it. Sitting on a bench in the hospital corridor, Fu Hongwei felt that the sky was falling.

Fu Hongwei prayed over and over again in his heart, hoping that his father would wake up soon. In front of his father's bed, Fu Hongwei secretly vowed: "Dad, you have to come back to life! As long as you can survive, I'm not going anywhere as a son. I will stay at home with you every day. "

"Parents are here, don't travel far."

Deeply moved, Fu Hongwei really spent a long time with the old people in the village after his father turned the corner. During his time with his father, his eyes naturally focused on other old people in the village. Fu Hongwei found that there are still many empty nesters in the village who stay at home like their fathers. They are all hungry and live a lonely life. Fu Hongwei was deeply shocked by the living conditions of the empty nesters in the village. Fu Hongwei thinks that his parents are parents, and others' parents are also parents. What a wonderful thing it would be if all the parents in the village could spend their old age peacefully.

At the age of 36, Fu Hongwei made an amazing decision: in a year or so, he either changed careers or stopped his business in Shijiazhuang and returned to the village alone to be a dutiful son for the elderly in the village.

After making up his mind, Fu Hongwei bought a big pot and began to cook for the old people in the village. He started by taking care of a lonely old man living alone in the yard, eating three meals a day and delivering meals to the old man.

Day after day, year after year. From the initial rejection to the acceptance by a few people, and finally to the complete understanding and support, Fu Hongwei touched more than 0/00 old people in the village with a pure heart, making himself not the son of his own son and becoming a better son than many old people in the village.

The smell of love spreads everywhere.

Now that the national policy is good, the people's living standards have improved. Few people really can't afford it, but there are few smiles on the old man's face. Why is this?

Fu Hongwei slowly learned that many elderly people can only see their children once a year when their children go out to work, which is extremely lonely. In order to spend more time with the elderly, Fu Hongwei will sit down and chat with them after each meal, or wash their feet and clean their rooms. Fu Hongwei was leaving, and the old people took Fu Hongwei's hand and refused to disperse. It's more than ten meters' journey from the gate of Beizhai to the gate, and they have to walk for more than half an hour.

In this world, how sad it would be if everyone came and went alone. Come with hope and go with disappointment, then why should we have children? When we have children, don't we just want our relatives to be warm to each other?

While comforting the old man, Fu Hongwei secretly made up his mind that he must find ways to enrich his life and cheer him up from the bottom of his heart.

Taking care of the elderly for a long time, Fu Hongwei feels a little overwhelmed. Every day, even from morning till night, only a few old people can be delivered meals. How can we let the old people in the village eat delicious and hot meals? Fu Hongwei discussed with several volunteers who actively supported him to hold a dumpling feast for the old people. But where is the dumpling feast? Fu Hongwei thought of asking the village Committee for help. The village Committee strongly supported him and provided several houses and yards of the village Committee to Fu Hongwei. Just start, Fu Hongwei took out his savings and bought a bigger pot, thousands of sets of chopsticks and tables, chairs and benches. On the 15th of every month, Fu Hongwei invites the elderly over 65 years old to the village committee and gives them jiaozi to eat. At first, people in the village ate it. Later, old people in other villages heard about it and came to eat it. The story of Sunjiazhai giving jiaozi to the elderly for free on the 15th day of the first month, like a spring breeze, spread all over the motherland. Old people dozens of miles away, even hundreds of miles away, regard the fifteenth day of the first day as their own festival. On this day, they put on new clothes, rode bicycles and tricycles, or came down to Sunjiazhai with the help of their wives or children to attend the dumpling feast in Sunjiazhai. Among them are white-haired old people and centenarians with kind faces. At most, more than 2000 old people came to the dumpling feast. This feast of more than 2,000 people in jiaozi used 550 kilograms of plain flour and 65,438 kilograms of fennel seedlings. Looking forward to the fifteenth day of the first month, the dumpling feast in Sunjiazhai gave life and hope to the old people.

Once, an old man got up and ran to Sunjiazhai without looking at his watch. When he arrived, he saw that there was no movement in the yard, so he knocked on the volunteer's door and found that it was only three or four in the morning, and then he slept in the volunteer's room.

There have been more parties over the years, and the old people have more and more friends. Every time when eating, the old people sit together, you hold my hand, I hold your back, chatting and chatting, so lively.

On the 15th day of the first month, the thick jiaozi fragrance permeates the whole Sunjiazhai. Jiaozi is eaten in the mouth and sweet in the hearts of old people. He can talk about the past, talk about the new things of his children and grandchildren, and get a gift after dinner. Rice, millet, white flour, peanut oil, mosquito net, electric fan, electric heater, milk powder, towel, washing powder. In recent years, most of the daily necessities of the old people were given by Fu Hongwei. In addition, every month, on 15, Fu Hongwei and volunteers will collectively celebrate the birthday of the old people.

Free lunch, free haircut, free physical examination, free bathing, free distribution of things, when busy farming, Fu Hongwei also organized volunteers to cook for the whole village. In order to let the old people eat safe organic agricultural products, he contracted the land in the village, organized volunteers to develop an organic agricultural ecological park and planted wheat, cotton, millet and vegetables; Digging ponds and planting lotus roots add a different kind of scenery to Sunjiazhai.

The Sunjiazhai Filial Piety Center founded by Fu Hongwei has fundamentally changed the living conditions of the old people and given them a new concept and understanding of life. Every time we get together, we encourage each other to live a good life, work hard, and eat a few more years of filial piety in Sunjiazhai.

In order to support more elderly people and make them live a more comfortable life, Fu Hongwei built a three-story building with his savings for many years, donations from volunteers and money from selling lotus roots.

No one is old, and no one is old. Fu Hongwei's special filial piety touched the people in Sunjiazhai and the villagers in Fiona Fang hundreds of miles away nearby. Old people come to eat and compete with children to be volunteers. After several warm times and several touching times, some of them began to be unwilling to be beneficiaries of traditional filial piety culture, but became practitioners of traditional filial piety culture. They banded together and went back to the village to hold their own dumpling feast. Fu Hongwei is very supportive of the practice of volunteers holding dumpling banquets in their own villages, not only providing them with experience, but also providing them with pots and pans, tables and chairs, and even initial start-up funds. In the past few years, in Weixian County, more than 20 filial villages held dumpling banquets to provide free lunches for the elderly.

"Kissing is great."

When filial piety becomes a habit of imitating each other, when love becomes a magical gravity and begins to spread everywhere, the long-awaited prosperous spring will really come.

The story of Sunjiazhai Thousand Dumplings Banquet, like a fresh wind, blows across the vast land of the motherland and people's tired and barren hearts. Through media reports, more and more people know about this paradise on earth, and more and more people come to Sunjiazhai with a pure heart and consciously accept the education of China's traditional filial piety culture. Anyang, Henan, Shiyan, Hubei, Anshun, Guizhou, Taiyuan, Shanxi, Xianyang, Shaanxi, Beijing and Shanghai, on the 15th of each month, people from all over the country come to visit and study in an endless stream.

In Fu Hongwei's view, the dumpling feast is just a carrier to promote China's filial piety culture. Meeting and chatting, expanding living space, improving the quality of life, and providing opportunities for the old people to warm each other in their hearts are the more important connotations it carries.

Fu Hongwei said: "It is my Chinese dream to turn the village into a nursing home without walls. In order to realize this ideal, I will spare no effort, work tirelessly, have no regrets, continue to work hard, and unswervingly go on, making filial piety a phenomenon and a habit. "

Love hut is a spiritual harbor for visitors from all directions.

A person's gratitude to others begins with gratitude to his parents; Being kind to others also begins with loving and respecting parents. After that, such feelings naturally extend, and there is love and respect for others, career, team, nation and country.

People say that Fu Hongwei is not only the great filial son of Sunjiazhai, but also the great filial son of all the people in China, because what he carries forward and practices is a filial piety spirit that everyone admires and needs. Fu Hongwei touched and influenced everyone around him with the broad Chinese filial piety culture of "loving the people, loving the people and loving things".

There is an old saying in China, which is called "the moon comes first by the advantage". If you are with excellent people, you will become excellent. In the spread of love, some hearts are influenced, some hearts are called, and more experiences are baptized and sublimated.

In Sunjiazhai, children who were separated from their parents and didn't care enough about their parents at first not only reflected on their own behavior, but also changed their attitude towards their parents, and joined the volunteer team without hesitation, becoming followers and disseminators of traditional filial piety culture. Young people who travel all the year round and rarely go home to visit the elderly have also begun to arm their minds with filial piety and show the infinite charm of "Chinese filial piety" with actions.

Speaking of volunteers in Sunjiazhai Filial Care Center, I have to mention two people, one is Cao and the other is Pan. Both Cao and Pan are Linxi people. When they were young, they were all local celebrities. Cao is in the clothing business and Pan is in the bearing business. Like Fu Hongwei, they worked hard in society by their own cleverness and diligence, and lived a down-to-earth life since childhood. They and Fu Hongwei are really like-minded "comrades in arms". Since they met Fu Hongwei and participated in the filial piety workshop organized by Fu Hongwei, they gave up their comfortable family life, took out their savings and began to volunteer with Fu Hongwei in Sunjiazhai. Over the past five years, they have forged a profound friendship with Fu Hongwei. Together, they cooked and delivered meals for the elderly, packed jiaozi for the elderly, developed organic agriculture together, and dug ponds together, depicting the Jiangnan scenery with lotus leaves and sweet fields on the northern land of China.

A group of young people, wearing red vests printed with the words "beauty of spirit, beauty of speech and beauty of behavior", shuttled through the streets and alleys of Sunjiazhai and the grand dumpling banquet. People see them with pagers pinned to their waists, smiling and walking in a hurry, either working in an agricultural ecological park, working in a stone mill flour mill, or walking on the way to deliver meals to the elderly. On the day of the dumpling feast, they got up early in the morning to work and were the last to eat. They are the legendary volunteers of Sunjiazhai. These volunteers are called Fu Hongwei, Pan Shu and Cao. They came from all directions and lived in Sunjiazhai to take care of the old people in the village.

This is not a performance. Most of them come to Sunjiazhai as volunteers and stay for four or five years. They don't have names. Their names are volunteers. They have no jobs. Their job is selfless dedication. If someone insists that this is a show, it is the most lasting and beautiful "show" in the world:

Get up at five o'clock in the morning, clean the courtyard, and read Disciples' Rules and Filial Piety. During the day, while cooking and delivering meals to the elderly in the village, they are engaged in production in the organic ecological park; Sit together in the evening to exchange the study experience of the day, reflect and check your personal behavior.

Fu Hongwei's selfless dedication, filial piety and care for the elderly promoted the traditional filial piety culture, but spread love. The greatest power in the world is not the ideal of seeds, but the power of love. Inspired by this great power, more and more people have joined the ranks of volunteers, including children who have difficulty communicating with their parents at home and parents who have difficulty communicating with their children. There are farmers who have lived in the yellow land all their lives, and urban upstarts who admire China's traditional culture and have no worries about food and clothing. When they came to Sunjiazhai, they formed a love magnetic field centered on Fu Hongwei.

Everyone has a big or small room in his heart, which is used to hold love. When love resides in the heart, this person has the ability to accept love from the world around him. Love is not to cherish, but to exchange. At the scene of love, when love is like a beautiful shell, it floats freely to the distance between soul streams, and the human soul can get the greatest relaxation and comfort. The most beautiful nature is not the top of the mountain, but a habitat with a flowing heart; The greatest happiness is not learning to collect love, but learning to release it.

The reason why Sunjiazhai can become the soul Eden that everyone yearns for is because there is a man named Fu Hongwei in this village. Fu Hongwei is not a painter, but he painted a picture that shocked the world on the land of China. Fu Hongwei is not a poet, but he wrote a poem that can be read through the ages on a small road in rural China. Fu Hongwei is not the son of ten thousand people in China, Qian Qian and Qian Qian, but the son of ten thousand people in China, Qian Qian and Qian Qian. Pursuing dedication and helping others is Fu Hongwei's philosophy of life, which is also the fundamental reason why he can achieve great things in the future.