Mother-in-law should update the concept of new relationship with daughter-in-law and be a mother-in-law in a new era. Daughter-in-law is the son's companion, the harbor he loves, and the family that gave birth to your grandson. Your son is willing to spend his life with him, which shows that she has countless bright spots. You should put down the image of the supreme elder, learn to appreciate her, and realize that there is another person who needs your love besides your son. Face it as a good friend first. Too thick and too light expression is not your wisdom. You know, when a son marries her, it's not that she takes your son away, but that she takes the place of your hard work and cares for and warms him in the name of love, so that he can enjoy the boundless warmth of maternal love and the infinite beauty of love. For this, you should be grateful. If you entrust the baton of life to your son, you must learn to keep a proper distance from them. You have accomplished the task of bearing and nurturing, and you have worked hard for most of your life. You should also take care of your life. Entanglement with family members, even creating conflicts, and wanting to get your son back are not only harmful to your son, but also contempt for your daughter-in-law, even beneath your elders' status and ignoring your wisdom.
Daughter-in-law's birthday is an opportunity for her mother-in-law to express her love, a bridge ladder for the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and another scenery for loving her son. There are various forms, such as sending a warm hug, bringing each other closer, thanking her for her love and her sweat for her son; Send birthday cakes, take this opportunity to taste delicious food with your family and enjoy your family.