First of all, both of them should make up their minds to live with each other. Without this premise, it is useless to talk about anything. As the saying goes, the quarrel is over and the days have to pass. With this will, even if we encounter any difficulties in the future, we will not deviate from the basic principle of "being alive".

Secondly, discuss some life skills. Living, according to the man, is trying to earn money to support the family, so as not to let his wife be wronged, at least, not to let her starve and not to let her freeze (if she insists on keeping up with the delicacies and not wearing a mink coat, then I advise you to live with others quickly). And care about your wife and so on. According to the woman, the husband teaches the children and keeps the house rules. At least, let your husband have saliva to drink after work, and let your husband be crushed when his back hurts.

Also, in the longer term, take care of the next generation and care for the next generation.

Living is not just like this, let alone being able to say so. The point is still the idea of two people (please refer to the first one). If not, it may lead to extramarital affairs, or divorce for family reasons and so on.