If you get married, the gift money ranges from 20 thousand to 80 thousand. It is usually given to the woman's family, but it is usually kept by the woman!
The price of 200,000 you said is a bit outrageous, 65,438+10,000 high! Engagement is generally not very particular, ring+gift (about 5000 in kind)
If the relationship is good, get a marriage certificate first, and give the rest of the bride price as much as possible.
Our general gift money is not high, mainly clothes 10000 yuan, three gold 20-30 thousand yuan.
Actually, it depends on the wealth of her family. Maybe your girlfriend's family is not very rich, and she wants to buy a BMW or something with your engagement gift as a dowry. The scenery is beautiful. She has a face. This possibility is relatively large. Wish you success! Suqian people are still polite.