The five dishes in May 7th are generally whole chicken, whole fish, meat, meatballs, elbows, five fruits and five snacks. Generally in Shandong, the daughter is responsible for the donation at the age of five or seven. The white banquet for the guests was prepared by my son. The dishes in the white banquet are similar to the real ones, but the quantity is less. People should not make any noise when eating. The meal time is relatively short, so I will leave after eating, and there is not much greeting. May 7th is an ancient funeral custom of Han nationality, which is popular all over the country. Note on May 7th: 1. Generally, there are two kinds of items to be placed on the table during the sacrifice on May 7, one is incense sticks and the other is offerings. 2. Generally, the items provided are incense sticks, paper money, fruits, snacks, wine, etc. 3, and the number of tributes is also exquisite, usually three or multiples of three, not even. May 7th is a sacrificial term, which means 35 days after death. 5, the old funeral, every seven days after death, there are third, fifth, seventh and so on. According to tradition, the memorial ceremony after death is very particular. 7. When he died, there was a memorial service every seven days from the day he died, and the first two were broken. 8. After that, there will be a hundred days, anniversaries, three years, ten years ... and the distance will gradually lengthen and the sadness will gradually fade away.