First, if a slap in the face fails, if there is a problem in your marriage, it is definitely not anyone’s problem. You both are responsible.

Second, love and marriage require mutual trust, mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual care.

Have you two achieved this for each other?

Thirdly, breakup and divorce are about to happen at every turn, who are you trying to scare?

Your husband who suffers from rickets will bend the knee and compromise with you, who else will?

Fourth, between husband and wife, if there is anything to talk about, talk about it calmly, say one thing if there is one thing, say two things if there is another thing, and seek truth from facts. If there's something that you can't explain clearly at the moment, just let it go for a while and seek common ground while reserving differences.

Fifth, people have instincts and personalities. Don’t always try to change others. This is not easy.

I wish you happiness!