do I have to face the menu when cooking for the first time?

You can pour some oil at will, put down the ingredients, stir fry a few times, and then add some seasoning according to your own feeling. Soy sauce, vinegar, monosodium glutamate ... all poured into it. Take it out and taste it. It's not ripe. What should we do? Do it again.

the second time you cooked it, you learned from your experience, covered the pot and braised it for a while. Then you are confident, take it out and try it again. It's too fucking salty to eat.

the third time ................................

Maybe you can cook a dish that satisfies you at last, but at this time, you are already too hungry and miss the best time to eat.

or maybe you gave up once in the middle. Time waits for no one, although it's not delicious, I'll just have to fill my stomach.

It seems ridiculous, but it represents the love experience of most people.

from being ignorant to harvesting love, to being unable to grasp the breakup, to the next one, and then to break up due to some factors. This cycle, until the vicissitudes of life, or bow to the years.

do you have to have skills in falling in love? Not necessarily to some extent.

because you can take a chance, maybe you'll be lucky to cook for the first time, and you'll make a peerless delicacy when you hit it right. Then you send a circle of friends, who said that cooking must follow the rules, Lao Tzu is gifted and the kitchen god is reincarnated.

But that's a very small number after all. Most people are ordinary people after all. Ordinary people get up early and get greedy every day, dreaming of winning the lottery one day, but they can only praise others on their mobile phones.

Ordinary people are inexperienced in love, and they don't know how to maintain their feelings, so they can only miss one period after another.

Therefore, falling in love is bound to require certain skills.

The skills here are also external and internal. Externally, it's like reading what I wrote now. You think it's like this, but you just know the general idea. Only when you practice and discover that the lying trough is really like this can you truly internalize the skills. When you are proficient in your heart, skills can not be called skills, but just your own way of doing things.

Just like a recipe gives you a general idea and direction, as for your own taste, you should try and adjust it to meet it.

when you have cooked a dish hundreds of times and have your own unique style, will you still say that someone else taught you to cook it?

as for being too enthusiastic, will it really not be cherished? You have to see the warm attitude of the other party to you before you decide.

You like to cook fried rice with eggs, and you like to eat a lot of salt. After eating, the other person doesn't spit out the taste, but appreciates your cooking. I like that you cook fried rice with eggs for him every day, and you don't get tired of eating five meals a day. Do you think we are made for each other?