Giving up independent thinking is the core of all misfortune.

As long as I have a pair of sincere eyes to cry with me, it is worthwhile to suffer for my life.

Happiness is the fragrance of the soul and the harmony of the singing soul.

There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is: see the world clearly and then love it.

A person's pain, nothing more than from two aspects, one is no personality, one is too strong personality.

The whole life is a drama of faith. Without faith, life will be destroyed immediately. A strong soul will move forward on the land that drives time, just like a "stone" drifting on the lake, and people without faith will sink.

Most people die in their twenties and thirties, because after this age, they are just their own shadows and spend the rest of their lives imitating themselves.

The feeling of loneliness (Roman? Roland)

You must feel the same way.

When you have a lot on your mind and are eager to talk to someone, someone who can talk comes, but you have nothing to say. Of course, we talked, but he talked about him, and you tried to talk about yours, but later, you gave up.

As a result, your chat turned into two winding curves, extending so sadly and powerlessly.

You are perfunctory, smiling and pretending to be speculative. However, in your heart, you long for him to leave, and you long for yourself to calm down and chew your own loneliness.

"It's not as boring as being alone!" This is your conclusion.

"How foolish it is to hope that others will share my worries! Others may not know me, but most people care more about themselves. "

Then, you realize that some things can't be said, some things don't need to be said, and some things can't be said at all. Even if you tell others, you will regret it immediately.

So, if you are smart enough, the best way is to calm down and gnaw at your loneliness-or, on the other hand, let loneliness devour you.

Then, you can slowly feel how the afternoon sun shadow drags the bleak footsteps to the west, how the floating dust in the corner swims aimlessly, how the spider in front of the eaves weaves a net to imprison itself, how to climb your desk silently at dusk, and how the feeling of loneliness weighs more and more heavily on your heart until you have difficulty breathing and slow heart, like an overweight car, and gradually slow down and stop when going uphill. ...

So, you feel that you have risen to infinity, so big that you have filled the whole space. In this infinite you, only loneliness, loneliness and boundless loneliness have risen!

There is no call, no tears, no emotion, no hope, no desire, no movement, no silence, only a feeling of sinking, sinking towards the bottomless darkness.

As a result, the night was covered with the universe. In the dark, you don't know if you are still sinking. All you know is-

That heavy, boundless, dark and dead loneliness!

Roman? Roland: Don't lament that you were born at the wrong time.

Some people often feel "born at an inopportune time", thinking that the past era was a golden age, and only the present era is bad. This is all wet! Anyone who constitutes the "present" world must really live in the "present" world. We must contact, participate in the current tide of life, and be in the current cultural tide.

We should not live in the world of yesterday or tomorrow, but live in the world of today. We must know what the world is and what day it is today. To contact and reflect the present of real life and culture, many people spend their energy chasing the past and fantasizing about the future.

One can live in "reality" and make full use of "reality" without wasting one's mind and energy on regrets of past mistakes and failures and dreams of possible future. He is much more useful than those who only look forward without looking back, and his life is much more perfect.

If you are in the month of 1, don't lose the chance you may get in the month of 1 just because your fantasy is in the middle of February. Don't waste this month just because you have plans for next month and next year. Don't stare at the stars in the sky, but you can't see the beautiful scenery around you, and you can't step on the bouquet of roses at your feet!

Enjoy all your comforts and happiness now, and don't dream of enjoying the unpredictable garage next year. Enjoy all your clothes this year, and don't just dream about the gorgeous fox skin next year.

You should make up your mind to improve and dominate the hut where you live now and make it the happiest and sweetest place in the world. Before your dream pavilions and tall houses come true, please bend the rules and pour your efforts into your present hut, but this does not mean that you will never plan tomorrow and look forward to the future. I just said, don't be too focused on "tomorrow" and don't be too addicted to the dream of "future"; But lost the present "today", lost all its happiness, happiness and opportunities!

Please devote your whole life to the present "reality"! If you can only get 1% happiness from today, then you can get 90% happiness from tomorrow without planning. You'd better work hard first and try to get 100% happiness from today!

We should not always live in a world full of expectations and fantasies. Excessive fantasy will make today's life boring. Expectations and fantasies will make us dislike our present positions and jobs. It will destroy people's ability to enjoy the present.

Happiness is accumulated over time.

Some people can only see the value of tomorrow and can't see the value of today. They have no time to seize the opportunity to do good on that day. They refuse to do some small charity because they dream of donating a lot of money once they succeed!

People have a kind of psychology, that is, they want to get rid of the existing unpleasant status and position and seek happiness and happiness in the bleak future. Actually, this is a wrong view. Who can guarantee that once you leave your present position, you will be happy? Who can guarantee that those who don't laugh today will laugh tomorrow? If we have an instinct for pleasure, we won't lose our function in the future?

If fully understood, only "now" is real, and only "now" is the existence of reality; Recognize that there is no "yesterday" or "tomorrow" in the world, only "today" is reliable; Realize that we should not project our lives into the future or retreat to the past; Realizing that what we have is only a whole eternal "present", and the so-called years, months, days, hours, minutes and seconds are just a rigid and reluctant division of this whole eternal "present"-if we can fully realize this, I really don't know how much joy and efficiency our life will improve!

About Convex-concave Wisdom Society: "Convex-concave" is the only word in all Chinese vocabulary that consists of two words with the same structure but opposite semantics, and can be combined into one word by two phrases. ? "Concave-convex" represents some things that are at two poles but interact and complement each other, such as yin and yang, men and women, good or bad, recommended or not, up and down, supply and demand, etc. In addition, concavo-convex also embodies the unity of opposites in personality, which also means the imperfection of life and the world, and arouses the desire to explore and pursue.