In love, some girls are always busy and meticulously taking care of their boyfriends, maintaining the relationship with great care, but they often fail to do so.

Not only did they not receive equal love and care, but they were criticized for being too clingy. Some girls seemed carefree and could do nothing, but they seemed to naturally enjoy the love and care of their boyfriends. Envious.

Silly girls always think that love is a reciprocal transaction. The more you give, the more you get. They often blindly take the initiative in love, always wanting to give everything they can to the other party; but they don't know that in feelings, you lose as soon as you take the initiative.

Amei and Susu are two equally gentle and lovely girls, but in different circumstances.

Ai Mei and her boyfriend have been in love for four years and have reached the age of marriage. However, Ai Mei is becoming more and more distressed and entangled. It is not because her love for her boyfriend has faded. On the contrary, she She always fell in love with her boyfriend more and more day by day, but on the contrary, her boyfriend became more and more lukewarm towards her, which gradually made her a little disappointed.

Amei has always been the one who takes the most initiative and gives the most in this relationship. She not only takes good care of her boyfriend's life, but also takes care of his emotions. Her boyfriend often works overtime. No matter how late he comes back, Ah Mei will always wait for him to come back and prepare a midnight snack for him.

Amei clearly remembers the birthdays of her boyfriend’s family and goes to celebrate their birthdays every year with cakes and gifts. On rare days off, she knows that her boyfriend just wants to stay at home and play games. Don't you want to pester her to go shopping with you?

In love, one party always pays silently. Over time, the other party will get used to it and feel that everything is natural.

All the family and friends around them think that Ah Mei is a gentle, virtuous, considerate and good candidate for a wife, but her boyfriend is the only one who is not cold and indifferent to them. He often forgets Ah Mei’s birthday, and even sometimes I didn't even express my love for Valentine's Day at that time, and when I was in a bad mood, I would think that Amei was too nagging.

The reason why Ah Mei is troubled by all this is because she doesn’t know that love is never reciprocal and is often counterproductive. The more you give, the easier it is not to be cherished.

Smart women know how to use some "careful tricks" and "little tricks" when getting along with men.

Susu is that woman who is always envied by others for her good fortune. She seems clumsy, knows nothing, and has a lot of tempers, but there is someone who is willing to run for her. A good husband who never complains about being tired dotes on her and takes care of her.

In fact, people only see Susu enjoying pampering and living a happy life, but they don't know what and how Susu paid in this relationship.

Susu is a smart woman. She knows deeply that marriage, like love, requires careful management. Most men are rational animals who can only think with their brains. When dealing with them, you must use a method that suits them.

After getting married, her husband once expressed the hope that Susu could quit her job, stay at home, and run around alone; but Susu expressed that she hoped to have her own interests and career, and did not want marriage. Become everything in your life.

Facts have proved that by working in a position that she loves, Susu not only has not lost the youthful and cuteness she had before marriage, but has become more independent and confident, making her husband even happier.

A smart woman will not give up her career for marriage, and at the same time, she will use reasonable methods to persuade her husband to accept and agree with her ideas. Routines and tricks are not deception or insincerity, but a way of communication between husband and wife that makes both parties happy, which is conducive to the preservation of love and the harmony of marriage.

When she has free time at work, Susu will take her husband to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and then go home to cook together.

If the husband is reluctant, Susu will say in a coquettish tone, "I haven't eaten the steamed fish you made for a long time, I think I want to eat it."

Not only did it allow her husband to accept the request to cook together, it also satisfied her husband's sense of accomplishment; every time at this time, the husband always rolled up his sleeves and said, "I will show you my skills today."

Actually, when she first got married, her husband didn’t know how to cook, so Susu searched for the recipe and told him expectantly that he would be able to make it delicious.

Slowly, my husband became really good at cooking and became good at cooking.

Just as a child who cries gets candy, a woman who knows how to act coquettishly gets good luck.

Men all have a desire to conquer, and deep down they always want to be worshiped and admired by the woman they love.

So as long as a woman shows weakness and acts coquettishly when a couple is getting along, a man will not have the heart to refuse.

Zhu Deyong once said, "Husbands and wives must maintain 20% deception in order to maintain a 100% marriage." ?

It is true that the love and marriage situations of Ah Mei and Su Su also tell us that whether in love or marriage, blindly giving hard and foolishly will not get the favor you want. Nor can love last long and be happy.

Many times, it takes appropriate, slightly naughty "routines" and "careful tricks" to win a man's heart and achieve a perfect marriage.