1. Women marry men

The man's engagement fee is now generally 50 thousand. If the family conditions are good, it can be increased.

At least 39000. Because 4 doesn't sound good, I jumped directly to 50 thousand.

There is also a makeup fee when you get married, about 20 thousand.

So I want to marry Changshu MM, an ordinary family, and prepare to give her 70,000 yuan. If the family is poor, more than 50 thousand will do.

A woman's dowry

Something like that, that is, how much is your dowry for the bride, air conditioning, washing machine, TV and so on. Except that the bed was prepared by the man, all the others were married by the woman.

If the family conditions are good, the woman's parents will post more money and marry her daughter with a four-wheeled/four-car.

So in a sense, if you marry Changshu MM, the woman will not make a profit or the parents will post some money instead.

Both sides are only children and live on both sides.

No bride price, etc. Each tube was separated and gave birth to two children, one on each side. Both sides agree!

3. Both parties are only children, and the woman's family conditions are good, which is called "inverted portal".

Rich people, like grandchildren, take their surnames.

There are many such cases. The betrothal fee of the man's bride will be very high ... It depends on the family, it's hard to say.

B. whether it has anything to do with the house depends on what the other party says.

If a woman gets married:

Some people think that their daughters have good conditions, especially marrying a man, and they can choose (because Suzhou people are somewhat exclusive). They want their daughter to get married well and have a beautiful marriage, and they all say: the man buys a house in the city and so on. But I'm not sure. It's hard to say.

But if two families merge into one family, one child will have two children, one with the same surname.

You can propose that both parents contribute to buying a house.

About the engagement fee:

A. If you are not married, you pay the engagement fee and you refuse her. You will suffer.

That woman can't return your engagement money because you don't want her. The money was given to her as compensation.

B. If she breaks up, she will refund the engagement fee. Generally speaking, she will give it back to you voluntarily.

Besides, if she marries you, you have to buy her this dress, three gold (Jay, necklace, earrings).

Will probably prepare 1 10,000 to 20,000 yuan.

If, if both parties live together and have two children, this expense can be saved.

But, on the whole, marrying our daughter is our loss. We want the man to pay 80 thousand and the woman to pay 80 thousand, because it is very popular to marry four wheels now Many parents will consider four wheels as a dowry for the sake of scenery, especially to marry in Suzhou, Shanghai, Kunshan and Zhangjiagang.

If the woman's condition is worse, your dowry will also be used up. Never heard of making a profit. If you marry Changshu local mm.

That's about it. It's been around for hundreds of years.