I am a native of the north, at least I haven't heard of where I used to eat two meals. Three meals a day, even if your son-in-law's own habit is two meals, you should take care of the old man's habit of arranging three meals a day when he comes home. Your son-in-law is lazy and doesn't pay attention to respecting his in-laws. Don't take all of us northerners with you. We don't have this habit.
Yes, that's how rural people in the north live and work. No one in the city. People in rural areas in the north eat more at 0: 00 in the morning and more at 5: 00 in the afternoon. City people have to go to work or children have to go to school to have breakfast, and they also do it at noon and evening. Their life and work arrangements are different from those in the countryside. In the countryside, they eat more alive and less idle.
Generally, in the rural areas of northeast China, only two meals a day are eaten, but if the son-in-law has the heart, he should also respect the tradition of three meals a day in his father-in-law's hometown and be prepared.
Hello, I'm Chen Xiaohe, and I'll answer this question.
When I went to my daughter's house, my son-in-law didn't cook dinner, saying that northerners only ate two meals. Is that so?
First of all, answer the question: northerners usually eat three meals, which is the same all over the country.
As the saying goes, if you don't have enough to eat and wear, you can't count the poverty of generations. What can I do if I eat more and eat less?
Then why did the son-in-law say that happened?
First, local customs are different, and we should live with the seasons all year round. It's not surprising to eat two meals. In some small environments and folk customs, people eat two meals a day, but that doesn't mean the whole north or south;
Second, besides, every family also has different eating habits. For example, if there is too much oil and water in the year, you can eat two meals properly, at 10 am and 4 pm, which not only saves the fatigue of cooking, but also saves too much fish. Another example is the summer in the north, especially in July and August, when the weather is hot and people don't want to eat too hot at noon, so some families try to save trouble and eat two meals in the afternoon.
Third, some families believe in religion, such as Buddhism or practicing yoga, and pay attention to not eating after noon, or other religions have their own special dietary characteristics at certain times, such as Ramadan. Does your son-in-law have this factor?
4. You have a bad relationship with your son-in-law, and your son-in-law doesn't take care of you. It depends on yourself and your son-in-law. Just know what you are doing. You must always take good care of your daughter and don't make trouble at will. I believe that's not your intention.
If the son-in-law is lazy and makes excuses, do it yourself or let the daughter solve the problem. You don't have to embarrass your son-in-law. The son-in-law is at most half a son, looking for the whole daughter.
6. It doesn't matter how many meals people eat. The key is to suit their eating habits and health conditions. Most elderly people are suitable for eating less and eating more, so don't expect others to be the same as yourself, but you must have requirements for yourself.
Let's stop here and add a little congestion to you. I want to say to this son-in-law: In fact, it's not very good for a son-in-law to say so, because there is no such way to entertain guests, not to mention a mother-in-law, who can't do it herself, but can still be taken care of by her wife; If you don't want to do it yourself, you can buy it or let others do it for you; Why lie? Take the whole northerner with you. In addition, even if you have your own habits in it, guests are guests and relatives come to visit. This is not the way to entertain guests. Isn't it a pleasure to have friends from afar?
The words of one family are biased. Family harmony lies in tolerance and understanding. I hope more friends can exchange comments.
Never heard of it. Whether in the south or the north, the elderly like two meals, eat less and live long [yi tooth]
This whole thing is fooling ghosts!
It is understandable and credible to say that individual families eat two meals a day for some special reasons. But it is absurd to say that northerners, or a large part of people in some places in the north, only eat two meals a day.
I'm from Henan, and whether I'm busy or not, three meals a day is essential. My wife is from Hebei. I often go there. Of course, I know they also have three meals a day. Further north, I work in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia, and am a soldier in Liaoning. As far as I know, these places also have three meals a day. I have never heard that northerners only eat two meals.
Of course, two meals a day is not without it.
That was before the Song Dynasty.
Although the Song Dynasty was defeated in resisting foreign enemies, its national economy was very high, and its per capita income and living standard reached a new height. As a result, officials from top to bottom began to live a three-meal life.
So, if the son-in-law says he doesn't eat dinner at home, he only eats two meals a day, I believe it; But it is ridiculous to say that northerners only eat two meals.
Moreover, as a woman's parents, I believe that my daughter knows her parents' eating rules; And whether it is three meals a day or two meals a day, as an elder, can't you freely choose when to eat when you are hungry? Do we have to follow the so-called local customs?
If so, then such a daughter-in-law is an asshole.
I wonder, how can you blame your son-in-law for not cooking when you go to your daughter's house
You are a guest of your daughter's house. Your daughter and son-in-law should take good care of you and let you eat well. You can't go without food at night. Moreover, the son-in-law also made up a reason why northerners only eat two meals. I tell you clearly that it is necessary for northerners to have three meals a day.
If you live in your daughter's house, your daughter-in-law should treat you well for three meals a day and can't wronged you. According to the truth, if you go to your daughter's house, your daughter should cook for you. You shouldn't expect your son-in-law to cook for you. It is natural that your daughter cooks for you.
But your son-in-law can cook for you. It's a bit unreasonable for your daughter to come to dinner and dress every day. It makes sense for your son-in-law not to cook and go on strike.
If you live in your daughter's house for a long time and are young, you should make a good meal when your child comes home, so that your daughter and son-in-law can have a meal instead of playing at home every day, so that son-in-law can cook for you after a day's work and treat you well. This is a little too much.
The son-in-law doesn't cook, which means that the son-in-law hates you. In fact, my daughter hates you, too. Even if the son-in-law doesn't cook, the daughter will cook for you! In this case, you'd better go to your daughter's house less and don't disturb your daughter and son-in-law. Although what they do may not be right, you'd better be rational!
Anyway, your daughter won't cook for you. You'd better not expect your son-in-law to cook for you Your own daughter treated you like this. Can you still blame the son-in-law? Now some people live in their daughter's son-in-law's house every day, and the young couple have no private space at all. Isn't that a little too much? Nowadays, even parents should not live in the home of their sons and daughters-in-law, let alone their daughters and sons-in-law! Be rational!
It is true that people in some places in the north eat two meals. Your son-in-law is right.
For people who eat two meals, breakfast is usually around ten o'clock in the morning and dinner is between two and three in the afternoon. In the evening, they go home from work and add some supper.
Rural people call dinner steamed buns, which is a dialect. You can add meals at night, but it's very simple. Usually hot steamed bread, and then eat leftovers if there are leftovers. If there are no leftovers, have some peppers, or just eat steamed bread and drink some water, so the dialect is called "drinking steamed bread".
Don't worry, your son-in-law didn't lie to you.
But when you go to your daughter's house, why don't you think your son-in-law doesn't cook dinner, and why don't you think your daughter doesn't cook dinner?
I don't know if you are a mother-in-law or a father-in-law. Your question reminds me of a video I saw online.
An old father-in-law lives in his son-in-law's house. My daughter slept late in the morning and didn't get up in time to make breakfast. My granddaughter wanted to eat when she was hungry. The son-in-law went to make breakfast for the children, probably scrambled eggs with tomatoes. I don't know if my father-in-law thinks there are fewer tomatoes and children have fewer eggs. Because it's too long, I can't remember clearly. In short, it is because the old father-in-law is not satisfied with scrambled eggs with tomatoes, standing in the living room and scolding the son-in-law who is still cooking, cutting vegetables on the chopping board with a knife in his hand. I heard my father-in-law scold him in the living room, so I came out to argue with him.
The old father-in-law said that the son-in-law was going to cut him with a knife, so he called the police. After the police came to investigate, they thought it was a misunderstanding, criticized each other and left.
This old father-in-law is also a character. His daughter is lazy and can't cook very well. His son-in-law still despises cooking, and he even makes a hullabaloo about letting the police come to his house.
I don't know if you are an old father-in-law or a mother-in-law No matter who you are, don't learn from this old father-in-law in the end. You need to let your daughter cook after supper. Even if you eat two meals in the north, your son-in-law can't stop your daughter from cooking for you.
Provoking contradictions in the daughter's house is the rhythm of urging the son-in-law and daughter to divorce.
Our northern family also has three meals a day. Maybe some people have nothing to eat in the morning and evening after retirement, but it is not surprising that some people have two meals at noon, but most northerners still have three meals.