Everyone has their own values, even husband and wife. Other aspects of our family can be highly unified every time, but there are often great differences in children's education.

Let's talk about the differences between my wife and me in son education:

First, about enrolling in various classes. This is probably the biggest difference between my wife and me, because my son has been in the fifth grade since he was a child. Before he went to school, I didn't sign up for any interest classes. Even after school, I didn't take any classes except his favorite eloquence class and painting class. My opinion is that children should be allowed to play in various ways after school, which is unacceptable to my wife. She thinks that extra-long classes should be reported to other children, otherwise children will feel inferior if they don't understand anything in the future.

In this regard, I always adhere to the view that a child's interest depends on himself. He will certainly have something he likes when he grows up, and it is not too late to cultivate it. Now the so-called interest classes are not children's interests, but parents' interests.

Second, release the child's nature. I am a careless and rude person. I am bold in my child's personality development, so I don't need to be so meticulous. For example, I can let my children make a scene at home, and even play football and wear skateboards. But my wife is a financial officer, and she is meticulous and rigorous. Might as well tell her children to behave themselves. My son doesn't like wearing shoes at home His socks are dirty in the room, on the sofa and on the bed. My wife often criticizes children for wearing shoes, but I disagree. I think children should be free at home, and there is nothing wrong with barefoot. So it is controversial.

Third, you don't have to eat it deliberately. Wives are always careful to make scientific recipes. I don't think so. I don't think boys are so particular, as long as they are willing to eat, and there is no need to deliberately make such and such recipes. Besides, I often compare myself when I was a child. My wife is always angry every time, but in reality my son is really strong and not picky about food.

Fourth, I advocate letting children be wild. When my son was young, I often took him back to his hometown. When he is dirty at the end of the day, his wife will be very angry and think that being too dirty is easy to get sick, but I am not. After the children return to the countryside, I support rolling in the soil, wearing shoes and kicking water, drilling haystacks and having water fights with friends.