In Foshan, Guangdong, a man took his children to a steamed bun shop early, which contained all kinds of steamed buns, steamed buns and flower rolls. I saw that he ignored the people next to him, picked up a flower roll for his own use and asked the children around him if they wanted to eat it. It's obviously the first time for the clerk to see this situation. It is still in the stage of epidemic prevention and control, and food hygiene cannot be sloppy. Even if you touch it before buying it, it's not clean. After all, pasta such as steamed bread is eaten directly in the mouth, which is no better than fruit with skin. So she began to remind men not to touch it casually, which would make other customers look uncomfortable. As a result, the man seemed to have been stabbed and hurt his self-esteem, so he threw the flower roll back. But ask the salesgirl if you know whether it is clean or not.
Then she asked for two steamed buns, and the salesgirl just chose to make peace with such people. After wrapping the steamed bread, she threw away the flower rolls touched by the other party. Seems to feel it? Discrimination? The man suddenly broke out and didn't want to get his own breakfast. He was about to have a conflict with the salesgirl, but the other side was unmoved. Finally, the man left after asking for trouble.
This matter has caused a lot of discussion. It was just a simple common sense of life, but why can anyone do it? Out of line? Behavior? It can be said that there is something wrong with being a man, but their appearance is still traceable after all, which is exactly what the sentence says: people can't generalize.
First, there are always people with low quality, which is simply the most basic social ethics and common sense of life. For example, don't swear at will, throw rubbish everywhere, queue up and don't cut in line, etc. In the news, men will touch a steamed stuffed bun casually, which proves that its quality is worrying. You should know that this is none of your business. Why do you reach out? Even if you want to hold it for the children to see clearly, have you asked the clerk nearby? If it's just a mistake, you should pay for it, otherwise how can others eat your food? And men not only don't admit their mistakes, but also try to argue with others. The typical mistake is not admitted, but also the pot is thrown.
I don't know how his leader can reuse him in the company with such a loose attitude; With such a low quality, how can others get along with him among friends? After becoming a negative role model, how can he explain to his children the difference between himself and what the teacher teaches?
Second, there are always frivolous and unruly people, generally seen in children who are not deeply involved in the world. They are stubborn and reckless, which often leads to great disasters. Mainly because of too little experience, immaturity, ignorance of interests, no formation of values, no judgment on many behaviors, resulting in insufficient constraints on themselves. This is why we feel that many children and even little ones are unconscious. But personality will be influenced by environment and age, so people will become stable in the process of growing up slowly. But there are exceptions There are quite a few people in the world who have great personality defects all their lives and have not changed in the end.
Third, there are always people who lack education. The quality problem comes down to education, and what kind of education you receive basically determines what kind of person you will eventually become. Class leap requires money, status, ability and knowledge, and the original stock of these things is education investment. Only when parents manage family education well can children become people with independent personality. Only when teachers give consideration to ideological and moral construction can students not go astray. The man in the news either didn't learn well at school, or maybe his parents taught him, so he made such tasteless behavior.
So everyone's dissatisfaction with men is, in the final analysis, whether the other party is a man or not. As the saying goes, things can be changed when they are wrong, but it is difficult to turn back when they are wrong.