What kind of life do you want?

Some people say that it is enough to live an ordinary life without seeking great wealth or fame in history.

But the ideal life of ordinary people is more difficult than winning the lottery.

First of all, you should have a complete family, a healthy family with the same three views, no annoying relatives, and a good family economy will not be contradictory because of money. Spend your youth safely, go to an ordinary university that is not too bad or too bad, find an ordinary and stable job, marry a person in the same situation, form an ordinary family, and then let the children live this just right life. This may be the most common life we think, but in reality, even if we match again, it is difficult to have such a life. It's too difficult to get everything right.

Among them, the family's influence may be the greatest, and its influence is also reflected in all aspects, which materially affects the living conditions and spiritually affects the psychological character. Today, you may not be made by your family, but you will not be without your family.

Second,

Some time ago, there was a tearful movie "A Sader Story than Sadness". The evaluation of this film is polarized. Some people say that it is the most primitive emotional impulse, while others say that the three views are full of various logical errors. These are not concerns. What is even more touching is that both men and women are abandoned by their families.

Some people think that their three views in the film are incorrect, but the explanation given is that they have lived together since childhood and no one has taught and helped them. Perhaps this is the three views of their family formed by each other. Lonely and helpless, two people live together, only each other in life, and they become a family. You can't do math, teachers can teach you, you can't cook, recipes can teach you, but love can only be taught by people around you. In our life, we will meet many people. Many people will make you grow up, but few people can stay with us. You shouldn't thank the person who hurt you and taught you to grow up. You should thank the person who grew up with you and gave you life. The love between the two protagonists is part of it, and more is the companionship of the family.

When it comes to how to love someone, I find that I really don't know how to love someone. Every time I like someone, the first thing I think of is trying to love and care, but it doesn't seem real, and gradually it doesn't bring happiness to both sides. What I once remembered was that unforgettable love, but with the passage of time, vigorous memories only became a part of the timeline. Later, I cherished every moment that accompanied me, the deepest one, and it was better to talk about happiness every day.

Third,

The TV series "Everything is OK" is mainly about being born in a family. The influence of family background is too great. Getting rid of the influence of family background is a bad news for many people. Even if Su Mingyu can be completely economically independent as in the play, it takes a lot of effort to get rid of the noble family, not to mention that most of us are not Su Mingyu but Fan at most.

The most profound experience is that when I am sad, failed, inferior, miserable, collapsed, depressed, cowardly, pessimistic and fragile, I will go crazy and think, if I have a normal family, will the result be completely different when I face these things again? I'll take care of the good, and I won't let the bad happen. Growing up in normal environment, I must be very popular. Brave and smart, energetic and sunny, full of hope and longing for the world, has become my favorite appearance. But the reality is an out-and-out pessimist, who prepares for the worst in everything and has no expectation for life.

This chain has been tied to the body since childhood. Some people say that life will be better tomorrow if you get rid of it. Children who haven't experienced this may say that they are melodramatic. These people who preach the truth are happy and have never been so hurt. It is not so much a shackle as a brand, which has been deeply engraved on the body and can only be shaken off through painful remodeling over and over again. When we don't do anything unnatural, we are born with original sin.

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Fourth,

Once I thought that the world was very big, the vast world would be my lifelong pursuit, and the complex society would be my unprecedented challenge. Only now have I discovered that a warm family is a dream that I can never realize.

I have always been afraid of living alone, but when I lost all my dependence, I naturally learned everything. I don't think it's so hard to be alone. I also want to ask why, but this is life. Gradually, it seems cold-blooded, but when a person eats, he always feels that something is missing. Although the greetings from three aunts and six grandmothers are annoying, I always feel that my sense of existence is relatively low without the concern of relatives and friends. Although the road to go home on holidays is crowded, it feels wonderful to go home. I gradually got everything I wanted, the best mobile phone, the best computer and the best sneakers, but that happiness gradually disappeared. Why don't we have dinner as a family?

The world is big and everyone's family is unique.