Mr. Zhang's emotional self-report
I was born in a rural family. I have a brother and a sister. I am the youngest and the third in my family. My mother was an elderly woman when she gave birth to me, so my parents came late. Eldest brother is the eldest son of the family. I went out to work as soon as I graduated from junior high school, and met my eldest sister-in-law, who is a foreigner. She doesn't like the harsh conditions and shabby house in my house.
When the eldest brother and the eldest sister-in-law are getting married, the eldest sister-in-law's family wants a bride price of 6.5438+10,000 yuan. At that time, for my family, 6.5438+10,000 yuan was not a small sum. Parents want to ask eldest brother and sister-in-law if they can reduce the bride price. Unexpectedly, before the eldest sister-in-law entered the room, the eldest brother followed her instructions. Sister-in-law said that the bride price could not be reduced, and eldest brother agreed. Parents have to borrow money from relatives. After eldest brother got married, he moved out with his eldest sister-in-law. As the saying goes, "marry a daughter-in-law and forget your mother." Only on holidays will Big Brother go home to visit his parents.
My second sister got married when I was in college. My parents are worried about my second sister and don't want her to get married. However, the second sister finally got married because of love, and the married daughter poured water. My second sister has the obligation to be filial to her parents. My second sister will send money back to my parents for their birthdays. Because of the long journey, the second sister will only go home during the New Year.
Once, I couldn't sleep in the middle of the night and heard my mother crying. Father said to her, what's the use of crying? Consider raising a son for nothing, and don't expect him to support the elderly in the future. Later, I learned that my mother wanted to help my eldest brother take care of the children, but my sister-in-law disliked her and said that she would rather spend money on a nanny than live with her. I love my parents dearly, thinking that I must be filial to the two old people after marriage.
I met my wife on a blind date. My wife is gentle and virtuous, and we like each other, so we got married smoothly. My parents and my parents-in-law each gave half of their money to buy a house in the city. Not long after marriage, my wife found out that she was pregnant. My wife said to me, "Husband, let my mother-in-law live with us and usually help with the children." I've always wanted to take my parents over and live with us since I got married, but I've always wanted to.
Conclusion: It is not easy for parents to raise us. So when we grow up, we must repay our parents. Some men are typical of "marrying their daughter-in-law and forgetting their mother", just like the eldest brother in the article. This behavior can't be studied. We are all a family, even if we don't live together, but as children, we should do our duty. Only in this way can the family and everything prosper, the children live well, the parents rest assured and the parents live well.