Haha, first of all, the man went to the woman's house to recruit people, set a wedding date, and then agreed on some things at the wedding, such as how much the woman's children will pay and who will pay. In some places, women inform relatives that they need to bring snacks, so they still have money to buy snacks. On the wedding day, in the morning, the man needs to send someone to the woman's house to deliver a big basket of meat, knives, pine branches (also called lianlizhi), two onions and two lotus roots. There seems to be a baked cake. The woman will leave half of the things, and the rest will be brought back to the man by the sender. By the way, let the man bring some snacks back to his house. After the wedding, the woman can only eat snacks directly at the man's house, and then she can have dinner at home. ) Then the man can go to the woman's house to pick someone up. The rest is to rob people. It's hard, haha