On weekends, my wife's company has something to work overtime. My son and I slept until nine o'clock and had breakfast outside after getting up.

When I passed the vegetable market, I didn't know how to come up with an idea: "Why don't I cook at noon?" .

When I was a child, I bought meat and vegetables according to my son's wishes. The son said happily, "I can finally eat the meal cooked by my father today."

Hearing this sentence from my son, I suddenly felt a little ashamed. After being married to my wife for so many years, I seldom cook, but my wife takes care of our diet.

With guilt, I cooked rice, then washed vegetables, then looked at the menu and cut all the necessary materials. Everything was ready except the east wind.

Everything seems to be going well, and I gloat, thinking, "Cooking is so simple."

When I was a child, my mother taught me that when there was no foam on the oil, I could cook. When I put the fry in the pot, my eyes were completely wet. Why?

Because, when the pot crackled, my stomach, the back of my hand, my arm and even my face hurt like a needle. I know this is spilled oil.

My eyes are moist not because of this pain, but because at this moment, I think of my wife who has cooked for me for more than ten years. She was hurt by the spilled oil every day, but I never understood her.

Looking at my paunchy face and thick neck, I was filled with shame.

Since there is shame, there must be ideas and changes. The following three points are coiled in my mind and are worth learning and mastering by men.

Keep a man, keep his stomach. Grab a man's heart, grab his stomach. It seems that a man's stomach is made for a woman, and cooking is a woman's talent. In traditional families, it is also the default housework for women.

It is precisely because of these concepts that men seldom cook. They think they are people who do great things and just leave these little things to women.

However, they may not have thought that cooking is not a simple thing. Men may sit in the office for hours, but women have to go through a series of procedures to cook.

Just like me, if I don't cook for a long time, I will get greasy when I cook. The kitchen looks as if it had been arched by a wild boar.

Few men can understand women's sufferings, and sometimes they will be furious with women when the food is not suitable, and casually throw out a sentence: "You can't even cook, what can you do?" What's the use of marrying you home? "

This sentence, the speaker is unintentional, but the listener has really suffered great mental damage. Men shouldn't hurt women like this. Although cooking is a woman's talent, no one stipulates that marrying a wife means cooking for herself all her life.

Modern women are no longer the time when men worked and women knitted. They have their own ideas and careers, and many women are no worse than men.

The most feared thing in marriage is male chauvinism. No matter what happens, everything is considered right, and women must live according to their own ideas.

This is not so much a man's hegemony as a woman's misery. When a woman meets such a man, she has no ego at all, just like a prisoner, living humbled in a man's cage.

Even so, there are still men who keep saying, "I love her, so I consider everything for her." If I do well, it's for her! " "

However, as everyone knows, this kindness is not what women want, but a moral kidnapping. Take cooking as an example. Women sometimes want to eat a cold noodle, while men feel that women deliberately don't cook for themselves. Because men don't like cold rice noodles.

If you love a woman, think of them. Don't always think from your own standpoint.

Many marriages break up because women's efforts are not responded in time, to be exact: their hearts are dead.

When I was young, my parents and teachers told us that hard work would always pay off. Thus, in our minds, giving and returning become an equation.

When we grow up, we will find a partner, get married and have children, and we will continue to give all our love, because we always believe that giving will always pay off. However, later we found it wrong!

In love, not all efforts will be rewarded. Some men are rude. Most men are stupid, if not rude.

Take cooking as an example. Women try to cook all kinds of delicious food like this. First, they watched their husbands satisfied with the sweet dried vegetables. Second, they are waiting for their husbands to cook a meal for themselves one day.

Even if the bad food can't be eaten, it is also a kind of happiness, a response and recognition from her husband. However, the opposite is true.

? The best marriage must be mutual progress and a small family that belongs to us. Any person's "defects" will reduce the happiness of the family. This defect is not physical, but psychological.

Housework is the responsibility of two people, and they understand each other. Men can't have male chauvinism. They think that housework is a woman's patent and cooking is a woman's duty. Of course, women should not think that cooking is what they should do. If they look down on themselves, how can they make men change their minds?

Woman, sprinkle a spell properly and let a man cook you a meal. Men, make love properly, and let women feel your love. Happy love is actually not difficult. The hard part is that you don't know how to cook the "marriage" dish.