So the little camel specially found Mr. Camel in our group to help answer this question. Please welcome camel jun ~ ~
(The following is a very reliable answer from Camel Jun)
Camel Jun: Thank you for inviting me. This question certainly depends on the situation.
Make way for boys who have girlfriends, and be careful to go home and kneel on the washboard (off-site voice: you have experience); If you are on the verge of breaking up with the female ticket, it is somewhat immoral to do so, which is the representative of love rat's behavior.
Take a walk with my friends. Maybe it depends on the number of your peers. If many friends have sisters and grandfathers, and catch up with girls, they are cheerful, so it is ok to make friends. It will be more lively for everyone to get together, and of course, we should ask our friends for advice.
All the above is easy to say. The most important thing is yourself, yes, that's the kind of young people you meet. Whether it is a soft blood type or a gentle gentleman type, in fact, Camel Jun personally thinks that boys are still looking forward to such an encounter, especially girls' personalities are still very cheerful (off-site voice: really don't look at their faces). Camel Jun is actually looking forward to this experience. (Off-site voice: wow, wow)
It is easy for people who meet in this kind of trip to spark, especially in thought. (Off-site voice: It's up to emmm if there is any romantic love story behind ~ ~)
In a word, Luotuojun personally thinks that I really want to meet him, and I will promise as long as conditions permit. (Off-site voice: Mm-hmm, very straightforward ~)
Thank you very much for your hard code word support ~ ~ ~
Let's say a few words ~
First of all, the camel thinks that the problem started very simply. It may be because of a few words of chatting with nothing to say, or because a boy helped a girl, which may make two strangers traveling in a foreign land start to communicate.
Camels get help when they play outside. For those who help themselves, the camel takes the initiative to talk to the other person and finds that the other person is also a human being. So naturally I visited the whole scenic spot together and left my contact information.
Camel once asked a little friend why he always went out to play alone. He said that because he went out to play alone, he traveled halfway together, and the destination was the same, but the next stop was different. Don't force each other.
Maybe this is another charm of meeting someone on the journey. I'm lucky to meet like-minded people ~
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As an experienced person, I can't help but come in and answer questions when I see them.
First of all, my answer is yes, then traveling with strangers is both curious and uncomfortable!
Share two experiences of traveling with my sister:
1. I met a young woman who claimed to be a policeman in Dali and stayed together for two days.
This is the first time to play with strangers. Actually, I am very helpful. I was going to ride my bike to Erhai Lake and met her at a gas station. I was going to leave, but she asked me if I wanted to come, because I was afraid of getting lost alone.
Then I agreed, and we walked and talked together. She said Dali was on a business trip and came out for two days, introducing herself as 22 years old, and then I believed her. We visited Erhai Lake, took photos, had dinner (AA), visited the ancient city of Dali, and then returned to various inns.
The next day, we made an appointment to go to Xizhou together, then ride a bike together for one day and take a taxi to the railway station together at night. On the way, I asked her if she could see her ID card, but she refused decisively. Then I got on a different train and said goodbye.
Because of the contact information, I later learned that she is actually a person in her late thirties, and her child is five years old. I don't know the specific reason why she went to go to dali alone.
The same beautiful woman spent a week from Chongqing to Lushan and Xiamen via Wuhan. .....
The girl met on an expedition. She just graduated and didn't find a job. She said she wanted to go to Lushan Mountain and asked me if I would accompany her. After much deliberation, I finally agreed. Eating and living together for a week, traveling everywhere, although it feels good. But the problem is that I always feel uncomfortable, because I have to take care of her and go wherever I want.
Later, when I arrived in Xiamen, I went my separate ways. Although we all shared a room (standard room) on the way, don't worry, I am a very honest person, and Lushan Mountain is tired enough, so I really don't have the strength to climb on her.
Therefore, several conclusions can be considered as a warning:
1, there will be no pie in the sky. There are many requests to travel with you, and its own purpose may not be simple. Carefully picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelon. If you are infected with HIV because of casual sex, you are in big trouble.
2. When you are away from home, you must take good care of your information. What you think is true is not necessarily true. Remember not to expose yourself in front of others.
Although the world is a mess, there are still good people, such as me!
Because I travel a lot, and I travel with a group, so I will talk about my recent experience, because I prefer to travel independently, but I have many friends around me, so it is not easy to find a colleague, especially one who can accompany you from beginning to end. I don't know if anyone feels the same way.
In 20 16, I traveled to southeast Asia in poverty. At first, I agreed with three colleagues to quit my job and travel to Southeast Asia. As a result, everyone resigned and I was the only one traveling.
My plan is to take the four-nation ring road of Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand and Laos. As long as you can meet people with the same itinerary, or those with the same itinerary on a certain road, you can travel together. So I posted a post on the Internet asking my teammates to pick someone up or be picked up. I put my backpack on the South Locomotive and arrived in Nanning. I met my teammates at Nanning Railway Station. When I asked if the itinerary was consistent, it seemed that I could go with them. In the sleeping car, the first stop of a couple opposite me is Hanoi, and we can accompany each other. I got to know a few more people during the border inspection. Finally, eight people took a taxi from Jialin Railway Station in Vietnam to 36th Street in Hanoi. Although they parted ways soon, it was great to help each other in a foreign country.
Soon, only two women and one man were left to travel in four Southeast Asian countries. One of the characteristics of Vietnam is to rent a motorcycle to see the scenery, but if only one person can ride a motorcycle and can only take one person, he will have to find a fellow traveler while playing.
Soon, I found a small team, two men and two women. We played together for a while and had a cup of coffee. During the conversation, we felt that our habits and personalities were different, and then we parted.
But we learned from them: everyone divides their work, one person is in charge of finance, and everyone pays part of the money. One person is responsible for bookkeeping and payment, one person is responsible for making travel plans, and one person is responsible for finding hotels and food.
When I arrived in Da Nang, Vietnam, I found another group of seven people. We all rode on the streets of Hoi An in Da Nang, Vietnam, and had a good time.
At the next stop, Nha Trang, the two teams had a little disagreement again, so they separated again. Later, one of us wanted to join us, so the four of us visited Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand together.
After arriving in Bangkok, Thailand, I was divided into two teams, one to Phuket and the other to Chiang Mai.
When I arrive in Laos, I will be left alone. I also met an uncle and a girl in Laos and walked through one or two places together.
Generally speaking, it is relatively easy to find a companion for a short trip. Try to find the same itinerary for long-distance travel. If you can't find the same itinerary, accompany them in sections, and everyone will laugh, eat, drink and be merry together. Companionship is better than traveling alone. It is difficult for a person to take pictures without anyone to talk to, and there is no one to help him when he is in danger or difficulty. Most of the donkey friends you meet on the road are very kind, but you can't rule out the bad guys. Be careful.
Male Gobi, Guizhou Qianhu Miao Village, met a girl, then played in a bar, slept together, and then told you that she was a Miao girl, and there was a ceremony to sleep with you. She asked you to offer 100 Jin of wine and meat rice, dressed in a national costume, put it on the 100 table, and called a few grandfathers, and no one could get away with it. I said I heard it. Can you believe it? True story, not me, not me!
Although there are no girls in the scenic spot asking for companionship, they still have the experience of traveling with strangers. Last June 5438+ 10, I suddenly wanted to go to Spain to watch the national derby. Because I am not familiar with this language, I want to have multiple partners. The most important thing is that I don't want to join the group and then post on websites and apps. We all have the same hobby because when we posted, we indicated that we mainly watched football, and then we set up a WeChat group visa information resource to enjoy. We met six people from China in June+February, 5438, one in Madrid, one in Barcelona, one in Rome, and finally 1 1. There are newlyweds, restaurant owners, programmers, civil servants, designers, international students and other people from all walks of life in the team. Everyone is very talented ... living in a very big apartment abroad, everyone has a room. Cooking and chatting together until midnight at night, the cost is also very suitable. Madrid-Barcelona-Rome-Florence-Venice-Milan, we had a good time all the way. After returning home, we met several people who went skiing in Harbin during the Spring Festival ... Now we have become good friends!
A trip to the mushroom circle on a snowy night in Dali,
The scenery of Dali in May is infinite, and tourists are weaving along the ear coast at the foot of Cangshan Mountain. However, Yunnan tourism has entered a comprehensive rectification period just like entering the ice and snow period. All the hotels and restaurants on the east coast are closed. I rented a motorcycle in Caicun alone and started my ear-sea trip. At the lake, I met two beautiful women from Guangzhou and a couple from Hebei. Everyone went out together and rode motorcycles in the wind of Dali. Xiang Xizhou,
The ancient buildings in the Western Zhou Dynasty are famous all over the world, and there are Baba in Sifang Street. Roses abound in this area. Each of us bought several bottles of dried roses. In the evening, we went back to Dali ancient city and ate and drank with AA system. The night in Dali ancient city is very charming. We strangers from all over the country listened to songs and drank in the soldiers' bar, summed up our trip to Dali and formed a complete romantic night trip.
Haha, this is a very interesting question. Who doesn't want the company of beautiful women?
As the saying goes, how can you walk by the river often without wetting your shoes? It is normal for people who often walk outside to walk with girls. During these years of travel, I still played with girls several times. Tell me a few things that remain in your memory.
One: In Lugu Lake, once in Lugu Lake, I suddenly wanted to ride a battery car around the lake, so I went to rent a car. I met two girls who were renting. After renting it, they said, "Uncle, can we play with you?" We are strangers here, afraid of getting lost ",so the three of us hit the road. The whole Lugu Lake is 65 kilometers around, and the capacity of the battery car is 70 kilometers. You must not go wrong, otherwise you can't come back.
As a result, we went on the road together. At first, they were in the same car. Later, we got to know a girl, who was brought by me and was safer. So we played together for a day, and the biggest gain of their day was that I took a lot of photos for them. At noon, I invited them to Lugu Lake for a fish feast. When eating, we charge the battery car. I was delayed for two hours and didn't want to "save" us because I went the wrong way. If you don't charge the battery halfway, you can't go back.
Secondly, on the bus to Shangri-La, because of an argument with the driver, a girl on the side helped me speak. Later, I chatted and found that they were actually passing by, and they all went hiking in Yubeng. As a result, I walked all the way to Deqin and Feilai Temple, and finally walked 12 km in the rain avalanche, but this woman chose to ride a horse at the last minute to help me hold the heavy package.
When I came back the next day and took another road, there was no horse to ride, so she distributed my luggage to the friends I met along the way, and they helped me carry it. Finally, I invite everyone to Shangri-La for dinner. It's been five years, and now these people are still in contact.
Third, someone called me from Datuk in Vietnam. It turned out to be two boys and several girls. They found that the photos I took in a WeChat group were good, and they just met them and dragged me in. As a result, they played Mina together and took many photos of them. Finally, we broke up in Ho Chi Minh City, and everyone was a little disappointed.
Fourth: this time the companion is not very happy. When I went to Zhijin Cave in Guizhou, I met a woman in the car. There was no one in the off-season at that time. Next, we are the only two guides in Zhijindong, which makes me familiar. After the visit, she asked me where my next destination was, and I said I wanted to go to Huangguoshu. She asked if she could go to Tianlong Tunpu with her so that they could share the taxi fare. I promised to go to Tianlong Tunpu with her for an afternoon. The next day we went to Huangguoshu Waterfall together, where we were very different. I walk slowly because of taking pictures, but she is in good physical strength, so wait for me soon. She doesn't like taking pictures, but she likes asking me for photos all the way.
Another difference is that they feel very different in personality. In addition to sharing the meal expenses strictly according to AA system, she enjoyed everything she bought and spoke strongly. But this is a man who came back from studying in America. She said that she was a top student since she was a child and despised anyone. It's getting uncomfortable. It's best to go to Libo again and break up. There is no contact with each other. Mainly because the other person's personality is too strong, * * * only has direction, and there is no fun.
In fact, not only girls, but also many boys travel together. If there is such a question, let me answer the fun of playing with boys.
2065438+September 2006. I travel to Nanchang. When I was playing in Tengwangge, a mother and daughter invited me to take pictures. I took pictures of them enthusiastically, and then took pictures of an aunt. When I wanted to leave, a beautiful woman said, can you take a picture for me? I'd be happy to take some pictures of her. She asked me if you came to play alone, and I said yes. She said that I came to play alone. Let's go shopping together. Just this one. We spent the whole afternoon shopping together. I invited her to dinner tonight. She said she wanted aa, so she gave me the money. I don't want it. Wherever I travel, I like to take pictures of others and help them. It feels good to be helpful. Have fun.
In May this year, I took annual leave to travel to Yunnan. Because I booked the plane ticket online there, I added the micro-tour guide group of the website. I met a female tourist from Shenzhen in the group and made an appointment to go to Shilin to play together. The next day, I made an appointment with the beautiful internship guide of Shilin Tourism (she had a rest this day) to go to Dianchi Lake and Xishan.
I met a Tianjin girl on the cable car in Cangshan, Dali, and we went to the Three Towers together. Just arrived in Lijiang, I met four Hunan female college students and an active sergeant. After that, six of us chartered a car to visit Hugu Lake, signed a tour to Shangri-La, and visited the ancient town of Lijiang together. We had a good time and became good friends with the Naxi boy driver who chartered the car.
Although I travel alone, I never feel lonely. A casual walk made many friends.
Yes
15 graduated from senior three, invincible in youth, and traveled to Beijing alone. On the third day in Beijing, I decided to go to the Great Wall. When I got out of the subway, I was almost cheated by a black car and dragged to the Wild Great Wall. Fortunately, I was reminded by a kind-hearted Beijing uncle with a child that I was not cheated, and because I knew English, I "rescued" four little British sisters who were almost cheated to travel to Beijing. On the bus to Badaling Great Wall, I met another young lady who came out to play after graduating from college, so they decided to climb the Great Wall together. Because I can speak English, English girls will join us, so this will be a trip for six girls.
At the foot of the Great Wall, I also met a little brother, a Korean tourist. My little brother speaks English very well, but he joined our team because no one around him cares about him.
Traveling from one person to seven people, chatting and sharing with them in the middle is a rare travel experience. Maybe you will never meet such a good opportunity to travel with a well-meaning stranger again. I still often chat with my little sisters on fb.
After I came back from Beijing, I went to Shenzhen alone. On the fourth day in Shenzhen, I went to Happy Valley. There were few people because it rained the day before. When I arrived in the morning, many amusement facilities were not open, so I watched a lot of performances indoors and took the carousel and the indoor train again and again. After the sunny day, the amusement facilities gradually opened in the afternoon. When I was waiting in line, I met three fellow villagers in Hunan. A couple came to play with their children who graduated from the sixth grade. Couples don't play, children play alone, and children come with me. So I went to the amusement park alone and became two people. The newborn calf is not afraid of tigers. The little boy is brave. He is not afraid of all high-altitude events and has a good time. Thanks to him, I am afraid of heights. In order not to disappoint him, I also played all the public projects. I can feel my heart beating when the pendulum is thrown to the highest height. But seeing the scenery of Shenzhen from high altitude is really a different feeling.
If you have the opportunity to travel with strangers, remember to cherish it.
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