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I have a second child, can I keep my husband who wants a divorce?
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At the age of 43, Zhao Jing decided to have a second child.

This year, her husband, Wang Xinbo, has just been promoted in the unit and is a veritable leader. Her daughter, Wang Xichen, is a senior 3 student in the best middle school in the county, with excellent grades. It is not a problem to be admitted to a key university according to the results of the mock exam.

Zhao Jing himself is a primary school math teacher. Because of her rigorous and responsible attitude, she has won unanimous praise from students and parents in her teaching career for many years.

A capable husband makes a sensible daughter. In every way, Zhao Jing's family is a model family in this city. However, with her daughter's college entrance examination approaching, Zhao Jing began to feel anxious. I'm not worried that my daughter won't pass the exam, but that their family will be separated.

The cause was a month ago.

Due to urbanization, many places have expanded their new urban areas, and so have their counties. In order to bring popularity to the new town, the county government moved its office to the new town.

Zhao Jing and his wife bought a big three-bedroom apartment in the new district for the convenience of going to work and being closer to their daughter's school, and formally moved in a month ago.

When Wang Xinbo took office, Zhao Jing was busy with everything at home. It is precisely because of this that Zhao saw Wang Xinbo's diary while sorting out the sundries.

When he was young, Wang Xinbo was a famous genius in this town. He writes reports to leaders at work and reads and writes poems at home after work.

At that time, he didn't drink much and didn't like to socialize. What he likes best is to write down his reading experience and inspiration for writing poems in his diary. Every time he finishes writing a poem, he puts it away and saves a thick stack.

Because of this temperament, at the time of blind date, Zhao Jing took a fancy to him at a glance. After marriage, Wang Xinbo changed from a diary to a weekly diary and a monthly diary, and never wrote anything again.

If it weren't for moving, Zhao Jing almost forgot that her husband used to be a literary youth. At that time, she looked at a box full of books and hesitated whether to throw them away or keep them.

She flipped through the top one, trying to find out what her husband used to look like. I was a little disappointed when I opened it. It's full of running accounts, which looks like a husband's work memo. Just as she was about to close her notebook, she found a tiny line on the title page: Ru Lan, I will be free after the college entrance examination in the morning.

What does this sentence mean? At first, Zhao Jing didn't understand, but when she did, she felt a chill behind her. After the daughter's college entrance examination, the husband is going to divorce himself.

At that moment, she only felt dizzy and no longer in the mood to sort out any sundries. She lay on the sofa with her eyes closed, and her past life flashed before her eyes like a movie clip.

In fact, it didn't take long for the blind date, and the two found each other's personalities incompatible.

Wang Xinbo is open-minded. He not only loves literature, but also loves all new things and has a strong desire to explore.

He went to a key university in Beijing. When I started my own business in college, I not only achieved economic independence early, but also made a girlfriend in a big city.

If his parents hadn't tricked his only son back with their lives for fear that he would go far away, he might have settled in Beijing now.

On the other hand, Zhao Jing has been a good girl since childhood. She listened to her family's opinions, studied as a teacher in this city and married Wang Xinbo. Such two people would not get together if their fathers were not comrades-in-arms with excellent relations.

With the help of their parents, they got married not long after they were together.

They also had a brief sweetness after marriage. At that time, Wang Xinbo was still the youngest member of the unit, and his talent was not appreciated by the leaders. He doesn't have to work overtime often, and he spends a lot of time with Zhao Jing every day.

Zhao Jing remembers that the happiest thing at that time was to cook dinner with Wang Xinbo. Wang Xinbo is very clever. She can cook a good dish by buying a cookbook, but she is all thumbs and can only help him.

After dinner, they will go for a walk in the nearby park. There was no square dance at that time, and the park was very quiet. Sometimes Wang Xinbo tells her about her work during the day, and sometimes she tells about the books she has read recently. She told him how much trouble she was caused by those naughty students at school.

However, the sweet days passed quickly, and everything that could be said was said over and over again. Wang Xinbo mentioned a deeper topic, but Zhao Jing couldn't catch up.

Gradually, in Wang Xinbo's eyes, Zhao Jing became a dull and boring woman, and he no longer forced himself to fall in love with such people.

Wang Xinbo's ex-girlfriend came to this city on business after realizing that her husband didn't love her for half a year, and had a meal with the couple as an old classmate.

Zhao Jing didn't know the relationship between them, but she saw the clue from their conversation.

They talked very enthusiastically, not only recalling the past, but also talking about each other's present lives, many of which Wang Xinbo had never told Zhao Jing.

Looking at her husband's cheerful appearance, Zhao Jing was very sad, because the light in his eyes never shone for himself.

Zhao Jing is not a quarrelsome person. After that meal, she kept her anger against her husband to herself. However, Wang Xinbo didn't find the change of his wife at all, only felt that she had become unreasonable.

Zhao Jing had no idea how the cold war would end if she hadn't found out she was pregnant.

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Because of Biography of Three Generations of the Wangs, the Wangs are full of expectations for the little life in Zhao Jing's belly, especially Wang Xinbo, who not only manages all the affairs at home, but also obeys Zhao Jing in every way. Zhao Jing first experienced the feeling of being held by her husband.

After her daughter was born, although her mother-in-law was dissatisfied, Wang Xinbo was very happy and volunteered to be a daughter slave.

From changing diapers and feeding milk powder when he was a child to picking up and dropping off his daughter when she grew up, he did it himself. Sometimes Zhao Jing can't stand it and thinks that her husband likes her daughter too much.

But because of this, Zhao Jing is no longer worried about having nothing to say with her husband. The growth of their daughters has created an eternal topic for them.

A few years ago, when my daughter was in the first grade of primary school, someone told Zhao Jing that Wang Xinbo was very close to a woman and reminded her to keep an eye on her husband.

During that time, Wang Xinbo did come home late every day. According to him, the superior came to check and the unit had to work overtime.

However, Zhao Jing didn't believe it. At that time, she and Wang Xinbo had already slept in separate beds, and their husband and wife had little life. She doesn't believe that a normal man will have no needs. Maybe he is just not interested in her.

So one rainy night, she followed her husband. She saw Wang Xinbo walk into the unit alone. Two hours later, she came out with a young woman. They talked and laughed and left at a crossroads.

They didn't do anything deviant, but Zhao Jing saw that kind of light in Wang Xinbo's eyes, just like the way he looked at his ex-girlfriend.

She then asked about the identity of the woman. Her name is Ru Lan, and she is a colleague of Wang Xinbo. Soon after she joined the work, they got along day and night.

She questioned Wang Xinbo with the information she collected, but he readily admitted it. He said their marriage was a mistake, and now he wants to correct it. As long as his daughter belongs to him, he can have nothing.

She didn't expect her husband to be so frank that he didn't even apologize. She also thought that it was just a mistake in his eyes to give birth to his children and take care of the elderly in recent years. She was angry and decided not to take advantage of him too much.

One weekend, Wang Xinbo took his daughter to the zoo. In the most lively tiger garden, my daughter stood on the tiger viewing platform and looked at the king of beasts below. Suddenly she said loudly to Wang Xinbo, "Dad, if you dare to divorce my mother, I will jump from here."

The people next to him looked at the father and daughter in amazement, and Wang Xinbo was shocked. Especially in the face of his daughter's innocent face, his heart is cold. Is this still your daughter? No, she's Zhao Jing's puppet now.

Wang Xinbo is right. Zhao Jing taught all this to her daughter. She knew that her husband's weakness was his daughter, so when he was not around, she told her daughter that he wanted to find a stepmother.

My daughter has been spoiled since childhood. When she knew that her father's love would be taken away from her, she naturally quit, so under the guidance of Zhao Jing, she staged a scene in the zoo.

In order not to let her daughter really do stupid things, Wang Xinbo compromised. He became a good husband and father in the eyes of others, but this matter has been deeply rooted in his heart like a thorn.

Now my daughter will take the college entrance examination in half a year. After the college entrance examination, Wang Xinbo no longer has to worry about the influence of family changes on her daughter. She has no power to control her husband. Is it just watching her husband abandon this home and look for the so-called "freedom"?

Zhao Jing unwilling. But at that moment, she didn't know how to save the family. She can only silently put away her husband's diary and pretend not to have read it.

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"Elder sister, come to the hospital. My dad just fainted at home! " Early in the morning, Zhao Jing got a call from his younger brother Zhao Lei. She was so anxious that she asked for leave from school and hurried to the hospital.

"What's the matter?" When she arrived at the hospital, Zhao Jing saw her father lying in the hospital bed with an intravenous drip on his hand.

"The doctor said that my father had a premonition of stroke and had prescribed medicine, but he had to be hospitalized for a few days." Zhao Lei replied.

A few years ago, my father has been taking care of my mother after her cerebral hemorrhage. Now my mom is just turning around, and my dad is devastated. When people reached middle age, Zhao felt this pressure.

"By the way, where is the brother-in-law? Didn't he come with you? " Zhao Lei asked.

"He's on a business trip and won't be back until next week." Speaking of this, Zhao Jing felt wronged. Wang Xinbo has been on a business trip for a week and hasn't called her yet, but her daughter can get a call from him every night to urge her to study.

"Then when my brother-in-law comes back, you ask him to find an expert in this field to consult my dad. He has such a wide network of contacts that he must know many such people. " Zhao Lei said.

"I see. I'll tell him when he comes back." Although she is angry, Zhao Jing knows that when Wang Xinbo is needed in her life, she never drops the chain, which is his advantage.

"I still have something to do. I want you to ask my brother-in-law for me." Lei Zhao took Zhao Jing to the ward and whispered to her.

"What's the matter with you?" Zhao Jing eyebrows a wrinkly, this younger brother has never been a carefree person, from school to work to get married, nothing can be done by himself. If it weren't for her and Wang Xinbo's efforts, I'm afraid he would have accomplished nothing now.

"I started an advertising company in partnership with my friend and wanted my brother-in-law to contact me for some business." Zhao Lei is all smiles.

"Start a company?" Zhao Jing was taken aback and asked, "Why don't you learn to start a company and take classes honestly?"

"As for the broken job you found me, it was only more than five thousand a month. I don't have enough to eat and drink. To this end, my wife wants to divorce me! "

"You have the cheek to say that you have a job. How many good things did I find for you? You are either too tired or too far away from home to change jobs for you. How angry am I with your brother-in-law? You don't know, why are you tired now? " Zhao Jing gets angry at the thought of his brother's disappointing performance.

"Sister, please help me again." Zhao Lei took Zhao Jing's arm and cried, "With so many government agencies and units, there must be places where advertising companies are needed. As long as my brother-in-law is willing to talk, let me take over the small job of making billboards and distributing leaflets, and our company can do it. "

"You see my dad like this, where come of money, always let you a person to bear, I look at also love is not. If I become famous and make a fortune this time, you won't have to work for us. "

"That's what you said. If I divorce your brother-in-law, I think you'd better not feel sorry for me! " Zhao Jing sneer at a way.

"Look at what you said. My brother-in-law is so kind to you that he has just been promoted. How can he divorce you? " Zhao Lei said.

"What do you know?" Zhao Jing expressed her helplessness.

Zhao Lei saw that her sister's face was wrong and said seriously, "Sister, you can't be serious. Wang Xinbo divorced you as soon as he got promoted. This is called ingratitude. I am the first brother-in-law to spare him! "

"What are you yelling about!" Zhao Jing hurriedly said, "I'm just saying, are you serious. See what you can do, you can't rely on him for everything and you can't spare him. "

But after all, there is a younger brother. She really feels much better. If my daughter is Wang Xinbo's weakness, this younger brother is her weakness. In the end, she agreed to his request under his brother's soft grinding and hard foam.

After Wang Xinbo came back, Zhao Jing told him these two things. Not surprisingly, he readily agreed.

Sometimes Zhao Jing feels that after so many years, husband and wife are more like relatives than lovers. She and her family are attached to him, and once she leaves him, it will be difficult for her to return to her present life.

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"Rulan, I will be free after the college entrance examination in the morning." Wang Xinbo's words will always appear in her mind from time to time, making her fidgety, obviously not in the state at work, and making mistakes in teaching students.

"Miss Zhao, have you had anything at home recently?" One day, Zhang Xianliang of the same teaching and research group asked her.

"No, why do you ask?" Zhao Jing heart sank.

"I see you are always in a daze these days, as if you have something on your mind." Zhang Xianliang said, with inquiring eyes.

"Oh, it's not just for the morning grades. The child has been a little lax in his studies recently. " Zhao Jing improvised a cover.

"Well, your performance in the morning is so good, you don't have to make a fuss. Unlike my family, I have been thinking about playing games all day since my freshman year. I said that the third grade is too hard, and now I want to relax. " Zhang Xianliang has a son, two years younger than Zhao Jing's daughter, who is in the first grade of the city's key high school.

"Boy, it's normal to have a big heart." Zhao said to him.

Suddenly, as if thinking of something, she asked Zhang Xianliang, "I heard that your daughter-in-law is pregnant. How is she recovering now? "

"Oh, don't mention it. She is recovering well, but it makes me tired every day. I don't know what's going on. She is weirder now than when she was pregnant with her boss. At ten o'clock last night, she said she wanted to eat lychee, which led me to walk around the city in the middle of the night. "

"Would you like to. I don't think your class teacher will bring it this semester. " Zhao Jing said. Since Zhang Xianliang's daughter-in-law gave birth to a second child, Zhang Xianliang pushed away her original status as a head teacher.

"I'm really busy." Zhang Xianliang said helplessly, and then he changed his tone: "But busy is busy. When I get home every day, I hear my youngest son calling his father, and I feel that it is worthwhile to be busy again. "

"It is said that men love their daughters. Don't your two sons feel stressed now? " Zhao Jing looked at Zhang Xianliang and said.

"I was worried before I was born. I have always felt how good both children are, but I haven't felt this way since I was born, as if I were back to being a father for the first time. I don't want anything else now, I just want to earn more money in the future and create a good living condition for my two children. "

Zhang Xianliang's words gave Zhao Jing some enlightenment. When the country just opened the second child, under the persuasion of her mother-in-law, Wang Xinbo also mentioned that she wanted a second child, especially her son.

But at that time, Zhao Jing refused on the grounds of age, and Wang Xinbo never mentioned it again.

Now she feels that if she can successfully give birth to her son, she can not only stabilize her position in her husband's family, but also save Wang Xinbo's heart.

On the contrary, if this second child is not born now, it may be born to another woman in the future.

After making up her mind, she first went to the hospital for a physical examination. She asked her mother-in-law to go with her. My mother-in-law was very happy to hear that her daughter-in-law was going to have a second child. She quickly told Wang Xinbo, who was at work, to reduce social intercourse and go home on time.

Wang Xinbo was surprised after receiving the phone call. That night after work, he didn't go out for dinner with his friends as usual, but had a long talk with Zhao Jing at home. That night, they said the most things since they got married.

Wang Xinbo said that he was worried that giving birth to a second child would affect his daughter's college entrance examination at this time, but Zhao Jing thought that it would be beneficial for her to live on campus, on the one hand, and on the other hand, she would not easily find out that she was pregnant.

Wang Xinbo also said that Zhao Jing was old and worried about her health. Zhao Jing retorted that many people around her had children of the same age, and she had never heard of an accident.

Wang Xinbo wanted to say something else, but everything he said was just an excuse for Zhao Jing to escape from her. On the other hand, she is more convinced that if there is another child, Wang Xinbo will never leave her.

She secretly went to her mother-in-law's house without telling Wang Xinbo, crying that Wang Xinbo didn't want a son.

She said that the Wangs had been handed down for three generations. If she didn't give him a son, the Wangs would be finished, and her mother-in-law would never have grandchildren again.

She knelt down and said sorry to her mother-in-law because she couldn't convince her husband.

Mother-in-law was infected by her, just like forcing Wang Xinbo to return to the county seat with death and let him have another child.

Wang Xinbo is a very filial man, and this time he gave in. He set up a boarding school for his daughter in the name of letting her concentrate on her studies, and also ended her separation for several years. They slept together again.

Because the results of pre-pregnancy physical examination were not satisfactory, Zhao Jing paid great attention to pregnancy preparation this time. Not only do you go to bed early and get up early every day, but you also let Wang Xinbo quit smoking and drinking and reduce social activities.

Soon after, Zhao Jing became pregnant. The whole family is very happy, except Wang Xinbo.

However, Zhao Jing thinks that she has controlled her husband again and has no time to pay attention to his emotions. At present, her main task is to prepare for pregnancy and wait for delivery.

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Time and tide wait for no man. Zhao Jing, who gave birth to her first child naturally, didn't expect the second child to be so hard.

She remembers that when she was pregnant with the boss, except for the first three months of discomfort and vomiting, the rest of the time seemed to be nothing. She should eat and drink. The delivery also went smoothly, and the daughter came out shortly after entering the delivery room.

It's been more than five months this time, and I still often have morning sickness. When something comes into my mouth, it will change its taste.

Her mother-in-law cooks soup for her all day, but she has no appetite at all.

In order to protect the fetus, she runs to the hospital every three days, sometimes accompanied by her mother-in-law and sometimes accompanied by a nanny.

Compared with her mother-in-law, Zhao Jing was not satisfied with Wang Xinbo's performance. Although I took the initiative to hire a nanny for her, I turned a blind eye to her. And not long after she was pregnant, he slept in separate rooms with her on the grounds that his snoring would affect the rest of pregnant women.

Later, he almost wanted to make the office his home. Not only does he always come home late, but he also ignores Zhao Jing when he gets home. He either bowed his head and played with his mobile phone, or went straight to the bedroom to close the door and sleep.

Zhao Jing knew he was angry, but she pretended not to care. She thought everything would be fine after the baby was born.

One night, Wang Xinbo came home drunk. Instead of going directly to his room as usual, he kicked Zhao Jing's door and pulled her up. (Novel title: "The Life and Death Gate of the Second Child of the Elderly Maternal", by Jiang 2000. From: read some stories and read more every day.