I nodded and smiled and didn't speak. I also like having a second child, and I understand the benefits of having a second child. For me, the first child is a "necessity" and I must do my best. The second child is a "luxury". I really can't cope mentally, because it is very laborious to raise children, eat, drink and sleep, and cultivate good character, good habits and good quality. I don't want to cause trouble to the elderly on both sides. The relationship between husband and wife also needs to be managed, and the development of self-spirit and career should also be taken into account. Economically speaking, the quality of life of the second child will inevitably decline. Simply put, if the second child gives birth to a daughter, grandparents will be very disappointed. If I have a son, I am afraid that my daughter will be left out in the cold. The child is accompanied by a second child, but mom and dad must spend less time with her. I still want to give my child more care and guidance in life and spirit, be her role model, and cultivate her to learn to be alone and make some intimate friends. If one day my career leaps and bounds and I suddenly become rich, maybe my mind will change. Who knows, I definitely don't want a second child at the moment.