First, the first date should be short, and it is best to make an appointment with the girl you love for lunch for the first time. If the date ends perfectly, it means that you and he both want to get to know each other for the next step. Otherwise, it means goodbye. Remember that dating is a noble act, in order to gain experience. If breaking up proves that you are not attractive enough to him, then don't pester him at this time, but disappear for a while to change yourself and your life, and then appear in front of him with a brand-new look after a while to regain your attraction, so as to better move towards a new level, otherwise, it is absolutely impossible.

Second, we should keep a certain degree of curiosity. Keep curious, and you will open your heart to his world, and you will have many interesting gains in your heart. For example, if you probably don't understand what he is saying, then you should ask questions, or you should make relevant preparations in advance. This is the best way to deal with it. And be a listener and do this role well.

Third, don't lower your expectations. Confident. A big factor in dating success is self-confidence. In short, if you don't think you are attractive, how can people believe you are attractive? Therefore, we should get rid of negative or even inferiority thoughts, such as I am too ordinary, my income is so low, and my height is not high enough. But also moderate, girls like modest men, too arrogant or even conceited will only make him think that you don't respect him, or that you don't know how to fall in love.