In the eyes of teachers, I am an isolated student, in the eyes of parents, I am an isolated child, and in the eyes of classmates, I will always be the loner. Floating in the dirty air of this world every day, trying to breathe a little oxygen, just to maintain the continuation of life, let me continue to float like plankton.
In fact, I don't necessarily feel this way when I'm in a bad mood. Under normal circumstances, I also have this vague feeling. Although I also try to be positive and optimistic about life and everything, I still can't rule out the cycle of boring life. If I don't admit this, it's not a reflection of real life. Recognizing that life is for a better life does not form a tense state, that is to say, our pursuit of a better life does not deny our affirmation of the true vision and true feelings of real life.
So to a certain extent, my feelings become more and more strange and have more lonely meanings. So in this lonely space that has been soaked for a long time, I have the opportunity to taste loneliness alone.
Probably no one really likes loneliness, otherwise people will not become a group, and loneliness will become a state of expectation in a certain stage and space. When you are often with a group of people and feel no personal space, loneliness is undoubtedly a rare experience, which makes you feel more free.
When a person is wandering in the park and sees a couple, he will wonder if they are together because of loneliness. Of course, it doesn't matter. It's just that I won't envy, because I've never been crazy. Imagine a person shouting in the room, studying the menu to eat today, but loneliness is not the main meal of life, but I am enjoying it at this time.
Contrary to enjoying loneliness, some people are actually afraid of loneliness. As two-phase thinking, enjoying loneliness and fearing loneliness are naturally inconsistent in mood, but they are all aimed at eliminating loneliness and looking for a positive direction in life. The latter is actually not against life, and the persistent pursuit of a better life is to seek a better and better return. Enjoying loneliness is also a good attitude. The hustle and bustle of the city, the rush of people, and the reinforced concrete with chaotic sight have severely squeezed my space. The fast-paced life cycle makes me hungry, hoping to find my own sky and release my mind.
At a certain stage, the loneliness of a certain space will become the state I expect. In a specific time and space, sitting alone in the tunnel of time with an oil lamp, a novel and a plate of boiled peanuts is my yearning. This is a time and space where I can throw away my bondage and embrace freedom. I can be free in Wang Yang and debauchery. I am nostalgic, leaving the distant past in my heart: I imagine, letting the wild horses of thought gallop on the plains of my heart. I will take off my clothes and make my mind naked. Don't be afraid of anyone gossiping, and don't pay attention to anyone's "indoctrination" In this locked gap, let the ship of the heart drift at will, without hindrance. ...
At this stage, I will also dream of entering a moonlit world, boating alone, banishing myself from the embrace of water, moon and night, squeezing out the hurry and noise of the world, returning my heart to its true nature and letting the past in my heart flow freely. At that time, I existed in the most primitive state, singing, singing, jumping, imagining, I was practical, and everything was under my control.
I yearn for loneliness and hope to have such a quiet time. At midnight, everything falls asleep, the ears are clean, and the night is like water. A person, in the dim light, watching the smoke ring rise and recalling the past, will smile at his mouth. ...
Second, enjoy reading.
As the ancients said, Wan Li Road is better than reading thousands of books. But today, as long as conditions permit, "Wan Li Road" is nothing. Traveling to Europe and America for a week by plane is not limited to Wan Li. But it is not so easy to study thousands of books. Nowadays, TV and Internet are full of our life. How many people are willing to "kill" the precious time of gold in reading? For office workers who feel the pressure of work and life all the time, reading sometimes becomes a luxury.
I really appreciate Lin Yutang's views on reading: first of all, reading is an art, and reading or enjoying books has always been regarded as a cultivated life and an elegant thing. The purpose of reading is not to improve one's mind. If one studies to improve one's mind, then the pleasure of reading will be lost. Secondly, taste and hobbies are the key to reading all books. Reading is the same as eating. Everyone has different preferences and must be selective. Teachers cannot force students to read according to their own preferences, and parents cannot expect their children's hobbies to be the same as their own. If readers are not interested in what they read, all time will be wasted. We choose the books we want to read just to find pleasure in reading them, hoping that books can bring us into a world different from our daily life. A scholar, no matter how boring his life is, picks up a book he likes and makes a pot of green tea, and immediately enters a different world.
I also yearn for the lofty and clean of the ancients. Tao Yuanming, an idyllic poet in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, said, "If you are good at learning, you will be an official, without seeking more answers; On the surface, the reading realm of "knowing everything and saying everything" is somewhat negative, but it is precisely this reading mentality that is healthy and can fully enjoy the fun and fun of reading. We live in a pluralistic society, and we can't change many social rules, but we can change the texture of life and throw ourselves into life with a positive attitude. Reading and nourishing the heart can change our attitude towards the world, teach us how to deal with the world, and more importantly, confirm and nourish ourselves. Many years later, maybe we don't have rich wealth, maybe we don't have a proud career, at least we can be a scholar to purify and redeem the exhausted childlike innocence and light desires in material desires. Let's have a good date with the book, put aside the noise and impetuousness and enjoy the peace of mind.
Books are the source of knowledge and the medicine for the soul. A book contains rich knowledge and profound truth. When you are sad, it helps you heal the wounds of your heart; When you are happy, it makes your smile brighter; When you are helpless, it will tell you what is right ... books give me knowledge and wisdom.
The book is my partner, who has accompanied me through several years of ups and downs. In my opinion, drinking a cup of tea and reading a book full of philosophy is very romantic. I like to taste the charm of words, just like tea. Although not as sweet as fruit juice, it has its own unique tea fragrance. Every word, every paragraph shows its own rhyme, which deeply attracts me and makes me forget myself.
Books and I seem to have an indissoluble bond. My bookshelf is full of famous books and publications. When I have nothing to do, I will pick up a book and turn over a few pages, and I will be attracted by the contents of the book. I will read every book many times. For me, I can never get tired of reading. Books are a treasure house of knowledge, and the knowledge in this treasure house is inexhaustible. As the old saying goes, "There is a golden house in the book, but only Yan Ruyu in the book".
Book, I love you, thank you for giving me knowledge, thank you for giving me a colorful life!
Third, enjoy being busy.
Life is a busy stage, and everyone has nowhere to escape, so why don't we enjoy being busy?
Busy days, time is always misty like smoke, and the hurried steps can no longer be fixed in the same memory, so we have to watch every minute, drifting away in the ticking. Say goodbye to yesterday and continue to win a brand-new tomorrow.
When you are busy, you will miss many beautiful scenery, and you will only bow your head or be busy with your work. How can you have time to care about other feelings? Devote yourself wholeheartedly, and don't want to give up when you are tired. Comfort yourself with your inner persistence: Do well! Although no one applauds for myself, I know in my heart that life is a stage, and we should show our smiles and win everyone's applause. Perhaps, many times, it is not satisfactory, but at least I have a clear conscience and no regrets.
Busy life, most of the time belongs to others, and the only gift left for myself is "feeling", feeling the wonderful bits and pieces of life: moving, surprised, crying, full of passion, high morale or self-deception! Always believe that no matter which one, it is a gift of life.
Sometimes, I will unconsciously forget the blue sky when I am busy; Sometimes, I feel tired when I am busy; Sometimes, when I am busy, I can't help recalling yesterday.
Fourth, enjoy the process.
After reading The Old Man and the Sea, I began to like reading the works of Hemingway, a world-famous American writer, a long time ago. Among his works, The Old Man and the Sea is the one that shocked me the most.
The story of the old man and the sea is simple: the old man Santiago didn't catch a fish for 84 days in a row, but he never gave up. On the 85th day, he went out to sea again, and finally caught a marlin much bigger than his fishing boat. However, on his way back to the fishing port, he was constantly attacked by fierce sharks. The exhausted old man struggled with the shark again ... When he returned to the port, the huge marlin had only an empty skeleton left!
The ending of the story is very sad. That is an indomitable old man who never bowed his head in the face of failure and frustration. Great efforts have been made, but the joy of success has not been achieved. But I don't think the old man has any sadness.
When catching marlin and fighting sharks, the old man kept praying to God to bless himself, but that was only for spiritual comfort. He never gave up a little hope, never gave up an opportunity, never complained, and ran desperately to that unshakable goal. Even though his final outcome was a failure, in the process of this struggle, he got the fruits that countless others dreamed of-wisdom, experience, strength and courage. ...
It can be said that the old man finally failed, but in this process, the gains outweigh the losses.
Therefore, students who commit suicide because they can't get into college, businessmen who give up on themselves because they fail to start a business, urbanites who are discouraged and unwilling to lag behind because they can't find a job, you who commit suicide, you who give up on yourself, you who are discouraged and unwilling to lag behind are really worthless!
Why don't you think it over? In order to achieve an ideal or goal in your heart, you work hard and make continuous progress. How perky you are! In the process of your pursuit, how much time, sweat and energy you have paid, how many problems you have to solve and how much wisdom you have to use! So, have you ever failed? You won the process, which is more brilliant than success!
Man, don't be too obsessed with the result! The result is only a fleeting flower, and the process is the real fruit! Let's be like the old man in The Old Man and the Sea. Regardless of the outcome, let's fight for the process, fight for the process, and fight for the process!
Enjoying the process is the true meaning of life!