Second, listen to children's opinions and find solutions with them. When you find that your child has negative emotions, you can guide him to say it. When he speaks, you should listen patiently, identify with his emotional feelings, and then work with him to find a solution. As children get older, they will gradually learn to solve problems by themselves. At this time, parents only need to listen carefully and identify with their feelings.
Third, let children identify with themselves and have emotional space. To make children like themselves, families must give them a sense of identity. Parents are role models for their children. Parents should first learn to manage their emotions, and don't let bad emotions bring to their families and children. They must create a safe, warm and peaceful psychological environment and encourage their children with appreciation. Let the children in it have a positive sense of self-identity, gain a sense of security, let them feel and express their emotions freely and openly, and let some normal emotional feelings not be suppressed and worsened.
? Fourth, let children learn to face life optimistically. As parents, to cultivate children to face life optimistically, we must first have an optimistic attitude towards life. Children's emotions are directly affected by their parents' behavior. Parents must be optimistic about their children. When educating children to learn to face life optimistically, in addition to communicating with children more and cultivating their self-confidence, there is also a very important aspect, that is, parents should first trust their children and give them encouragement and support.
Fifth, when children successfully control their emotions, they should be encouraged in time. Under your guidance, children will gradually learn to control their emotions. When you find that your child has made progress in emotional management than before, you should encourage him in time, so that his progress will be faster.
Sixth, teach children to vent their bad emotions properly. Parents should learn to accept the multi-faceted nature of children's emotional expression, and all aspects of emotional expression contain the possibility of emotional transformation. Negative emotions can be transformed into positive emotions, and only by facing up to all the characteristics of emotional expression can healthy emotional development be possible; Only children who can control their emotions can become obedient children.
Seventh, we must adhere to the principle. Some things should not be changed frequently after the rules are made, which is easy to cause confusion and mood swings for children.
Eighth, know how to show weakness, learn to communicate, and let children be demonstrators of emotional management. Many times, children are stronger than you think. He even knows how to control his aura and emotions more than you think. Just how to cooperate as a parent? My suggestion is to treat children as adults, learn to show weakness, learn to read children's eyes, and read children's actions. Even if you are angry at that time, try to suppress your own flame, let the children express it first and listen to what the children say. You will find that children are actually more sensible than you think.