My girlfriend had six boyfriends before me, 1 month to two years. She has been to nightclubs, smoked cigarettes, and of course only occasionally, and drank wine. Before you met me, you had tattoos on your collarbone and hands. But she is very smart, and these things have not had much impact on her study, so her university is not bad and her foreign language is great.
When I met her, she was like a goddess, tall and white, with a good figure and a cold attitude. It took her a year to catch up. With her, I tolerate her, her unruly, her temper and her past.
Later, she told me that she always wanted to resist the standards of the world and the shackles of others, so she wanted tattoos, drinking and being cold. Every boyfriend before wanted to educate and restrain her, just like her demanding parents.
After meeting me, I gradually found that everything she wanted to resist did not exist and became meaningless in front of me. She suddenly realized that she was actually a good girl at heart, with a gentle and virtuous nature.
Gradually she stopped drinking, dressed mildly and smoked, because she didn't like them at all. She began to study recipes and temper herself. Recently, she was found secretly checking how to get rid of tattoos. When I asked her, she faltered and said that she was afraid that when she saw my parents in the future, they would not like it, so she must get rid of it.
No one is a saint, everyone has a growing struggle and a past. If you like someone, you must understand that she is a living person, understand her and tolerate her. My girlfriend smokes, drinks and gets tattoos, but I believe she is a good girl, and it turns out that I am not wrong. Don't judge someone you don't know, try to get into her heart.