Because the taste itself is very subtle, for example, Sichuanese are naturally fond of spicy food, while Shanghainese have a weak taste. If this problem is put on a person, it may be a simple matter of taste, but once it is put on a family, especially a newly married family, it may be a way to enhance feelings, a fuse of contradictions, a war between husband and wife, or a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, depending on the measures chosen by the people in it.
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Zhou Yan, a southerner, is a small jasper in Jiangsu. I met Gu Tao while traveling. Gu Tao fell in love with Zhou Yan at first sight and pursued Zhou Yan. Zhou Yan had doubts at first. After all, two people's homes are thousands of miles apart, but Gu Tao's kindness to Zhou Yan can't stay up. It happened that Zhou Yan was sent to Gutao's city to explore the market during that time, and the relationship between them naturally developed.
Gu Tao is really good to Zhou Yan. When Zhou Yangang arrived in this city, he was worried that Zhou Yan would not get used to it. He took him to eat all the southern snacks in this city, big and small, and learned to cook well. He even made the food in Zhou Yan's hometown very homey. Zhou Yan thought that Gu Tao was the right candidate, and they soon reached the stage of talking about marriage.
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Gu Tao prepared the wedding room early, and Zhou Yan was glad that his girlfriends were worried about the difference in diet and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. On weekdays, he closes the door and goes to his parents' home. At first, Zhou Yan could stand the problem of eating, but after a long time, Zhou Yan couldn't stand it any longer. Because Zhou Yan found that her mother-in-law has a strange feature, that is, she cooks a lot of very spicy dishes every day, but her parents-in-law know that she doesn't like spicy food. Although Gu Tao can eat spicy food, he doesn't like spicy food, and he has hemorrhoids.
At first, Zhou Yan thought he would go to his in-laws' home from time to time, so he wouldn't have a conflict with his in-laws because of this trivial matter, but the thought of preserving the leftovers of the old man would definitely make him reluctant to throw them away, and he would definitely eat them for several days in a row. This is not good for the health of the elderly. When I came to my in-laws' house again, Zhou Yan couldn't help but express her thoughts. "Grandma, your cooking is very rich, but I can't eat spicy food."
Mother-in-law put the spicy food in Gu Tao's bowl and said, "Then you have to get used to it. Our Tao Tao has always been a tepid child. Now that she is with you, the food is tasteless. When she is in love, she has been accommodating you. Now that you are married, I hope you can accommodate him. "
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Zhou Yan said, "Mom, you know what? A light diet is good for your health. He has hemorrhoids. It used to be hard to eat spicy food. He eats light dishes with me for his own health! "
My mother-in-law took an incredible look at Gu. Gu Tao nodded and said, and then her mother-in-law asked, "You don't like spicy food now. Why didn't you tell me? I made a table full of spicy food, and you didn't know it. Why are you so stupid? "
Gu Tao said, "Mom, you love spicy food. I only come back to see you occasionally. As long as you like, Yan Yan and I will make do. You are happy! "
Mother-in-law didn't say anything, but the next week, Gu Tao and Zhou Yan went to their parents-in-law's house, and their cooking was not only small, but also basically not spicy. The family didn't say anything, but they got along well. Most importantly, my mother-in-law is getting better and better to Zhou Yan, and even occasionally cooks some dishes from her hometown in Zhou Na. Although it tastes bad, after all, my mother-in-law has a heart. Zhou Na eats these dishes every time, and occasionally she cooks in the kitchen with her mother-in-law. Two people get along like mother and daughter.
Conclusion:
When a woman marries a man, she not only lives with this man, but also integrates into this family. The taste of eating seems trivial. If this trivial matter is not handled properly, it will inevitably lead to more problems. If handled properly, the relationship between them will become closer and closer. My mother-in-law must have complained to her daughter-in-law at first, thinking that her son obviously likes spicy food. She must eat light food to accommodate her daughter-in-law. When her son and daughter-in-law came to the door, she chose to make spicy food. Subconsciously, I feel sorry for my son and don't give my daughter-in-law a run.
Zhou Yan did not indulge the old people blindly, but directly expressed his views. The most important thing is to tell her mother-in-law that the reason why she eats lightly is not to indulge herself, but for the sake of her husband's health. Rational in-laws naturally understand that it is most important for young couples to live a good life. In any case, a family can have different ideas and opinions, but there is no absolute right or wrong. The most important thing is to be able to think from each other's point of view, so that life can be better.