1, exquisite on the dining table
No matter how nervous you are, your parents-in-law always ask you some questions. Don't ask anything, because you are too nervous. We can talk about something else. If you can't finish eating, you will look embarrassed. Don't bury yourself in eating. As the saying goes, "Don't talk when eating", it is our tradition in China to talk and laugh when eating, so that you can blend in well, otherwise the atmosphere will be awkward.
Just like my parents-in-law usually ask you if the food is appetizing, at this time, you should not just say this: delicious, appetizing! Pay attention to certain skills when speaking! Maybe I didn't eat much because I was nervous, but I have to look good. You can say: Aunt, your cooking is really good, just like my cooking at home, delicious! Very much to my taste. I really want to eat every day. Don't be blunt. This dish is salty and that soup is hot, which will leave a bad impression on parents-in-law.
There must always be some wine on the dining table. As young people and younger generations, we should also pay attention when toasting. Even if you don't drink, even if you drink, you should have basic manners. It may be difficult, but it is related to your life. Therefore, 1 glass of wine must please respect them. Don't wait for them to come to you. This is very impolite. You should know how to respect them.
2. Don't be too idle
Nowadays, the daily life after marriage is "the man is in charge of the outside and the woman is in charge of the inside", that is, the man works hard outside and is responsible for supporting the family, and the woman arranges the daily life at home, so the woman usually undertakes most of the things at home, and the man can eat when he comes back from work, or just lies on the sofa and doesn't want to deal with the housework with the woman. Everyone must pay attention to this problem. When visiting his parents-in-law, he should do what he can and not be too idle. Although they will say no, if your in-laws see you sitting all the time, they may think, after all, they have married their daughter and have not said anything now, so how difficult it will be for their "darling" to marry in the past, and they will be very distressed, so the man must pay attention to this.
As a man, be generous and take the initiative. For example, after dinner, you can tidy up the dishes and chopsticks around you. Although this is a small gesture, it is of great significance, because it will give the other parents a good impression and think that you are a very sensible and polite child, and your daughter will be at ease when she gets married!