Don't put your loved ones in your family's daily life. There is such a person who always likes to cause inconvenience to his relatives, as if he has not caused any inconvenience to his relatives, so he can't show his sense of existence. They either live in the past immediately, eat and drink mercilessly, and don't treat themselves as others at all.
Either send the baby to a relative's house and play by yourself, and feel that everything is taken for granted. He regards this practice as a normal "visiting relatives" and often gloats, feeling that he has only enhanced the ties between the two families. But in the eyes of others, this kind of behavior is really no different from hooligans. It's really disgusting to talk about it when it's cheap. It's okay to walk around among relatives, but don't really take other people's homes for yourself, let alone try to take advantage of others. In doing so, you can only completely consume the true feelings in the end.
Relatives should be more aware of the problem of money, and money is more likely to hurt feelings. Between relatives, it is best to have a rare exchange of money, which is really inevitable. Also keep the accounts clear, and don't make confused accounts. Many people refuse to tell their relatives too clearly for the sake of so-called face. In partnership, two accounts are not distinguished; Lend money to a girl, and the other party is not allowed to make an iou.
After a long time, both of them can't remember clearly, and the data are different, which forms a contradiction. If you think that the other party owes money and doesn't pay it back, and the other party says that you wronged him, neither side wants to suffer a big loss, but they can't produce direct evidence, so they can only argue repeatedly, and the truth will become louder and louder. When money is involved between relatives, it is necessary to keep the accounts clearly and write them down in black and white, which can avoid many unnecessary losses. People must have a sense of boundary when they coexist. Forcing yourself into each other's lives too much will only be a disaster. Even close relatives.