Most women struggle for a happy marriage all their lives, find a good husband and then be a happy wife. But if the EQ is too low, an old routine, love rat, can fool you around with no effort.
Are you shot in the following four types of girls who recruit black physique?
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Pleasant personality traits
If you ask me, what kind of girl does love rat like best? It must be a girl who is used to pleasing each other. This kind of girl is not only easy to cheat, but also has too many profitable places for him after being cheated.
Because you not only regard him as a noble male god, but also obey him, and all your good things will be held to him with both hands.
Jessica Hester Hsuan, the HR sister, used to be a typical flatterer. When she just graduated from college, she met a boy online, and after being together, she was incredibly kind to him.
I don't study recipes hard during work hours, thinking about how to make good food for my boyfriend when I get home from work; In order to save money to buy brand-name watches for my boyfriend, the previous makeup and skin care products have become Dabao SOD honey; Her boyfriend said that her breasts were a little small, so she took out a loan to have breast augmentation surgery. ......
But, you know what? In the evening, when Xuan was washing clothes for her boyfriend, she was lying on the sofa brushing software and wondering how to buy her a hat. Jessica Hester Hsuan's love affair ended not because the other party cheated, but because of love rat's ruthless abandonment after cheating.
Unprincipled efforts and bottomless concessions will not only get the rewards and treasures they deserve, but will only make the other side greedy and then bully you unscrupulously. As a song goes, those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are optimistic are fearless.
Love rat just grabbed your soft spot, searched you harder and harder until you were exhausted, and then kicked you away mercilessly.
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A girl who just fell in love.
The time after a girl just fell in love is the most vulnerable time in her heart. If a boy asks you questions, comforts you and takes care of you at this time, he is easily moved by his behavior.
However, this is also the time when girls have the weakest awareness of prevention, and you are basically too lazy to think about what kind of person he is.
Love rat just grasped the psychological characteristics of a girl after she was lovelorn, approached you actively, showed you kindness, and slowly guided you to invest in him.
When you can't live without him at all, you will find that you have been trapped by him, and then you will fall into a vicious circle of unilateral giving. Because you are too afraid of repeating the same mistakes, afraid of being lovelorn and injured again, you will compromise with him.
Therefore, after you have just fallen in love, if a boy approaches you enthusiastically and actively, you must polish your eyes and learn to use four-dimensional judgment to distinguish whether he really likes you or sets you up.
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A girl who lacks love experience.
Love rat is best at laying hands on him, and it is Xiaobai who has no love experience. Such girls are generally single and have never been in love once or twice. Even boys seldom come into contact with each other. How can they have a critical eye to identify love rat?
I have a college roommate. Every time he is lovelorn or dumped, he is used to flirting with girls who have no love experience to cure himself. Moreover, a few.
Once, he hooked up with a girl in our class, and they flirted on the phone every night. The girl brings him breakfast and knits a scarf every day. They are all next to each other in the class. At that time, the whole class thought they were in love.
But after two weeks, I suddenly stopped teasing people. Do you think his conscience has been discovered? Yes, because he got back together with his girlfriend. So he often said, since you have a girlfriend, don't be ambiguous everywhere, which is not good.
So every time he breaks up, he only has sex with different girls. Once we make up, we immediately distance ourselves from those idiots and act like "I am a serious person".
Later, the girl in our class suffered from severe depression because of my roommate. I can't help crying in class and don't want to talk to others. Until graduation, I remember that she liked to be alone, with a dull expression and a heavy face.
After so many years, I wonder, can my "decent" roommate remember the girl who was hurt by him and finally became depressed?
I was warm and sweet to you. I ignored your love when you took the bait. Because of your lack of love experience, others will cheat you with your fingers and have no sense of accomplishment. He only comes to you when he needs you, so you should know that he just takes you as a spare tire and doesn't like you at all.
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Make friends/relatives with people with higher social status or better qualifications.
Climbing high is not a close-up of this era, but a common problem of human beings. In ancient times, women wanted to marry dignitaries. In modern society, women want to marry Gao Fushuai ... This is only for a better life in the future, and there is nothing wrong with it in essence.
Many people clearly know that their value is not very high, but they fantasize about a rich second generation appearing in front of her all day, and then take her to the palace of marriage and the peak of life.
The story of Cinderella and the prince only exists in fairy tales. In real life, after the prince and Cinderella were together, Cinderella was abandoned because the prince liked the new and hated the old.
After all, the biggest premise of feelings is value equivalence.
A girl with a junior high school education is with a doctor. Who can guarantee that she won't dislike you? You are just a working girl. Gao Fushuai, who drives a Ferrari, said that she likes you and wants to live with you forever. do you believe that？
Blindly pursuing the high value of others is climbing high. A girl with a strong aloof attitude, if people just hook their fingers and surrender immediately, can they not be short-selected?
People's life is so long, who won't fall in love with a few scum? But you can't jump in the same pit twice, let alone many times. Therefore, we must learn a lesson and recognize our own problems in order to stop losses in time and avoid emotional consumption again.