"proposal": when engaged, the man's parents and matchmaker go to the woman's house to propose marriage, which probably means "my son wants to marry your daughter"
"Look at people": Then the woman organizes her relatives (mostly women) to "inspect" the man's house, which is called "look at people". There will be a banquet at the man's house, and everyone who goes to the man's house will have a red envelope.
"Set a date": the parents of the man go to the woman's house to agree on the bride price, and both parents choose the wedding date.
"Bridal gift": Everyone agreed on how much to give.
Marriage: Rural Edition: The man gave a banquet the night before, and ate three more seats at noon on the wedding day. This woman held a banquet at noon on her wedding day. The tobacco, wine, sugar and pork hosted by the woman are provided by the man. The city version shall be agreed by both parties.
"Return to the door": On the morning after the wedding, the woman's brothers will take the bride and groom back to their parents' home, the man will give a banquet in the morning, the man will prepare a bride price for the woman's next of kin, and the woman will give a banquet at noon.
On the fourth day of the first new year after marriage, the woman "answers the door" again, and the steps are the same as "answers the door".