In this case, many people can't go home several times a year. Even if you return to China, you usually leave your hometown after three or five days. As we rural people say, it's faster to pay a New Year call than to go up the mountain to cut firewood. Walk around and say a few commonplaces, put down the gift and leave. Even relatives can't make tea. The gap between the rich and the poor of relatives is too big. Rich relatives look down on relatives without money, and relatives without money will not curry favor with rich relatives. The gap between the rich and the poor in rural areas is too big now. Don't say that others look down on you. If they are poor, even their relatives and sisters look down on them, and some even look down on their parents sometimes.
Formed the relationship between you and me. Some relatives still have older people to go to, some don't go at all, some don't even go to build houses, marry daughters and other banquets, and the blood relationship between relatives is broken. Relatives now basically have a WeChat group, which will add seven aunts and eight aunts. Usually, they often chat when they are free, but now video calling is very convenient, and many people video chat with their relatives when they are free.
In this case, the number of visits to relatives naturally decreases. In fact, the whole country is now facing such confusion, that is, we are more and more unfamiliar with family ties and more and more familiar with strangers. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are neglected in the downtown area. Now there are more and more rich people, but there are more and more poor people. In this case, many people don't like visiting relatives. As a rural group that values the family most, they are increasingly indifferent to the family.