Is it bad to be a man? Why do you want to be each other's spare tire? Many people will think that although I confessed, although he refused me, but he is willing to be friends with me, then I may slowly impress him with my kindness to him. Wake up, brother, you are really wrong. Love never comes from charity. What is love at first sight? The other party should have such feelings for you!
Even this emotion doesn't exist, and you fantasize that the other person will accept you. Isn't this a pipe dream? So don't make any excuses for your failure. If the other party doesn't agree after confession, it's called blacklist, so don't contact again. It's like we apply for a job, and the other party has made it clear that you won't be used, so you still call the hr of the other party or send your resume. Isn't that unnecessary and troublesome?
In the adult world, if you don't have a clear commitment, you are rejecting you. You are stupid enough to think that you can turn yourself into a lover through your friends. We're not making a TV series. After the other party rejects you, you may feel depressed or have nowhere to vent for a while, but after a while, you will find better people around you.
Maybe the reason why the other person rejects you is to let you meet better people, so don't make friends with the other person after being rejected, it's that you're looking for trouble. Modern people treat feelings more like eating fast food. When I arrived at the restaurant, I ordered the food, and when the waiter brought it, I ate it. After eating, I left. It's that simple. I don't look at the menu and slowly study how each dish is cooked. If you refuse me, I will go to the next shop.
There is no time in the universe to make friends with you, cultivate feelings with you and make you change your mind. Sorry, I am who I am, and I am the only one in the world. If you refuse me, I will find someone else. Don't really think how good you are. You have the right to refuse me, and I have the right to hack you. What a simple and clear thing. What friends are you?