The generation born in the 1970s in rural areas, in their 40s and 50s, with seniors and juniors, will face some difficulties. There is no point in escaping. We must face them bravely and prepare early!

First of all, regarding the pension issue for parents, although they can receive pensions, the amount is limited. In our case, it seems that people under 80 years old receive 80 yuan. According to today’s living standards, this is not enough at all. If it is physical No, it makes things worse, but I am making money outside, so how should I choose between being filial and making money? This is one of the hard questions.

Secondly, my own problem is that if you are in your forties or fifties, you are very old as a migrant worker. No matter how old you are, it will be difficult to find a job. What will you do to make a living after you can’t find a job? How to support myself in 20 years when I am old? It is really difficult to rely on my children. This is the second problem.

Thirdly, the problem of children is big. When you reach the age of marriage, in rural areas, it is okay to have a daughter. If you give birth to a son, you have to find a daughter-in-law. In our rural areas, gifts and money It's rising all the way. If you don't have hundreds of thousands, it won't work. If you don't have money, you have to borrow. The responsibility for repaying the money falls on you. How will you rely on to repay the money in the future? The younger ones may be in school, and we are working hard to educate them in order to have a good future, but what the future holds is unknown.

Finally, there is the issue of how to get along with the children. After all, there is an age gap. Their children must have received more education than themselves. They have different views and a generation gap. How to solve it has to be a difficult problem. .

What's the use of complaining! Every age has its difficulties, and we can only face them bravely!

I am born in the 1970s in the countryside.

I don’t dare to think about my future life. I can only take one step at a time. Why do I say this? Let me talk about my current situation.

First, there are elderly people at home who cannot take care of themselves.

Second, there is a child in the family who is going to college, and he is still a boy. After graduating from college, he still has to marry a wife and buy a house.

Third, many people in our rural areas have paid their own pension insurance, but I have not paid it. The money I can earn from farming and selling grain for a year can only maintain the current life, and the elderly at home have to go to work in the factory. We can't live without people, so we just spend the money from selling food all year round to support our children in school, and the elderly are in poor health, so we maintain this year after year.

Now I am 50 years old. I will no longer be able to farm in a few years, and I have no pension insurance.

Currently, providing for myself in retirement is the most difficult issue before me.

Time flies by, and in a blink of an eye, I have reached the age of Ben Wu. At this age, those born in the 1970s in rural areas have a heavy burden on them. The pressure and problems they face are already in front of them. You can't even think about them. They are already in front of you.

These pressure problems are also what those of us born in the 1970s in rural areas must face!

Let me tell you now.

The first problem is: parents’ pension.

This is also a problem that our generation born in the 1970s must face now. As we all know, the parents born in the 1970s are almost in their 70s now. Because when I was young, I worked hard for the sake of my children and this family, and I became sick due to overwork. I have some problems, but those who are in better health can take care of themselves, and the children can be more relaxed, and they can also work outside to earn money.

And those elderly people who have suffered from serious illness and have undergone some operations require long-term care. Only one person can stay at home to take care of the elderly, and one person goes out to work to earn money. Compared to two people working together to earn money, the income is much less.

With less income and patients to take care of, life is not easy and the pressure is understandable.

This problem is also the primary problem we are facing now.

The second most difficult problem: the problem of children starting a family and starting a career.

In rural areas, it is difficult to find a wife now. The woman’s family not only needs to be nice people and have good family conditions, but also needs to have a house in the city and a car at home.

I remember hearing a saying: first buy a house, then buy a car, and you must have a boss dad.

Although this sounds unpleasant, it is the reality and the real problem before us.

If someone introduces the child to a partner, the woman’s family will first ask whether they can buy a house in the city, what their family conditions are like, and whether the boy has a job and what he does. If these conditions are met and the woman's family agrees, this is the first step. There will be more problems later, such as money for house decoration, money for betrothal gifts, wedding banquets, and a series of subsequent problems that you will have to face.

To do all this well, one word is indispensable: money

Although money is not everything, when you do things, no money is absolutely impossible.

This is also a problem that those born in the 1970s in rural areas will have to face in the future!

Thinking about the generation born in the 1970s in rural areas, it is really not easy. They have elderly people to support and children to start a family. The pressure is not ordinary.

You have to work hard, do the dirty work without hesitation, and risk your own body to earn money in order to marry your son a wife and start a family. When the old man has something wrong, he can afford to pay for medical treatment.

The generation born in the 1970s in rural areas almost started from scratch and worked hard. They worked step by step and relied on their own efforts to get where they are today.

We have experienced so many storms and waves, but what are the difficulties we face today?

As long as the people you are closest to live well and live happily, it is worth the hardship for those of us born in the 1970s!

Those born in the 1970s in rural areas, let us work together to protect this family from wind and rain and be the best backer for this family! come on!

I am a working people and I am very happy to answer this question. As a person born in the 1970s in rural areas, if you carefully calculate, you are now a person running for the 5th grade. When people reach middle age, they are old at the top and young at the bottom. There are many things to worry about and many problems to face. Parental support issues

For those born in the 1970s who are in their 40s, their parents are now almost 70 years old. Although elderly people in their 70s in rural areas can still manage to take care of themselves, they will inevitably encounter many difficulties as they grow older.

Most of the children born in the 1970s work or work outside the home and rarely have time to go home, let alone take care of their parents at home and fulfill their filial piety. As an only child, as her parents grow older, the issue of their parents’ pension must be faced immediately. Moreover, the age difference between the parents of both parties is definitely not too big. The issue of caring for four elderly people will be a headache just thinking about it. Children's Issues

Many of the children born in the 1970s are now adults, either still studying or working, and they all face the problem of starting a family. As a rural parent, I work outside the home and rarely spend time with my children. Now that my children have grown up, I hope to provide them with as much help as possible.

When the children get married, many men have to prepare a new house and car. These are not cheap things. Many people have worked for decades and may spend all their savings for the sake of their children. This is also a problem that the post-70s generation will soon face and solve. The issue of self-development

When you reach middle age, if you are a working farmer, your physical strength may become more and more overwhelming, and your work may become more and more difficult. Year-round physical labor may bring great hidden dangers to your body. If your body collapses, what will your family do? As parents get older, they may need to take care of themselves. If they return to the countryside to take care of their parents, how can they solve the income problem?

The post-70s generation in rural areas now have to face the problems of providing for the elderly, raising children and starting families, as well as some problems of their own. These are the problems that many people born in the 1970s have already faced or will soon face. In short, as a farmer, all the problems are income problems. If farmers can have a stable income and provide a decent life for their families, all these problems can be solved.

Hello questioner, thank you for your concern for rural farmers born in the 1970s. There are many problems faced by those born in the 1970s. I am a farmer born in the 1960s in my 50s and have personal experience. Here I would like to send a message to young friends from rural farmers: Young people do not work hard, old people are sad

Each stage has different energy, 2O to 30 years old, people who grow up after OO are in the youth stage, looking for Target stage, very energetic, but not mature enough in thinking. You have to continue to work hard to learn all aspects of dealing with people and mastering work and labor knowledge. Progressive stage.

Entering the 30s age group, born between 80 and 90 For people who have entered early middle age, their energy has begun to stabilize and all kinds of knowledge have basically matured. It is the time to work hard. If you do not seize the opportunity and work hard at this time, you will leave troubles in the future because you have to face the problem of children's education and pay off debts. Share responsibilities for parents, after all, find a wife, build a house for your own family, where does the money come from? Farmers rely on growing grains and working to earn money. There are very few families who do not owe foreign debts. At this time, the parents are only over 50 and have no money. Accidents are okay, a family working together is as strong as gold

Currently, people born in the 1970s are between 40 and 50 years old. At this time, their parents are already elderly, and their own physical strength cannot be compared to those in their 40s. Although I was so flexible before, I am no longer as energetic as I was before I was 40 years old. The burden on my body is actually heavier. I have to consider starting a family and starting a business for my children, my son’s marriage issues, and building or buying a new house. I have accumulated funds before the age of 40 and can solve problems. It's good. If you don't have accumulated funds to solve it, it will be as stressful as any time. Children, daughters-in-law, and sons-in-law are okay. You can worry less. If you meet a younger generation who is not sensible and spends money randomly, there is no need to go there. On the right path, if there are tears, you can only swallow them in your belly, and you have to work hard and swallow your anger. What else can you do for the sake of the whole family and future generations? How can you just let it go? I don’t accept this advice, I’m a parent in vain, I live a life of hardship, no matter how difficult it is, I have to try my best to carry it, so as not to make people laugh at me for being useless. People born in the 60s and 70s in rural areas are the most difficult people in the country to live in.

Some people often mention rural elderly care, as if the elderly don’t know how much money they can use to live. Rural elderly people born before 50 have suffered hardships, live frugally, and love to work. They don’t use much money a year. The cost of food is less than 10 yuan a day. Even if it is 10 yuan a day, it is only 3600 yuan a year. The government provides a subsidy of 1000 yuan, which is only more than 2000 yuan. If you are in good health, you can also help with work and farming. It can reduce household expenses, take care of the children, help the children wash clothes and do some housework, doesn't it count as money? All in all, how many of your children will you eat? Unfilial descendants will dislike the elderly, but filial descendants will love the elderly

In fact, the biggest difficulty is to bury the elderly, but if the cost is more than 60,000, or the elderly are sick and need care, these are issues worth considering

Message, a farmer from a rural family must be diligent and frugal, stop gambling, stop being wild, stop living a luxurious life, work hard, and there is still hope for family unity. A pig, (color), affects the unity of the family and breaks it apart. No matter how great the ability is, it will not help if the family thrives. Extravagant life ruins the family. I used to be a gambler and lost hundreds of thousands. If I use it for retirement, I will definitely live a relaxed and happy life when I grow old. I have personally experienced that gambling is not a good thing, and I have quit now

They and their children are all only children. Not to mention the next generation, they have four elderly people. Now the children below them will soon be employed, and the elderly above them will soon need care. Their heads are so big!

The biggest problems that the generation born in the 1970s in rural areas will face are employment difficulties and pension issues.

I was born in the 1970s and am now a middle-aged man in his forties. The generation born in the 1970s in rural areas is the most difficult generation. They were born in the era of people's communes and collectives. They helped their parents work after school when the land was distributed to households. They finally graduated from school and caught up with the reform. The state did not guarantee distribution.

The oldest among those born in the 1970s is fifty years old, and the youngest is 40 years old. People in this age group have parents to support and children who do not yet have the ability to live independently. People of this age are not only tired physically, but also mentally. As we grow older, our physical strength and energy begin to decline, and we are already unable to do physical work in rural areas. The age of migrant workers is a big reason. Many positions require young and comprehensive employees. Those born in the 1970s are studying With weak abilities, there are few positions for which they are qualified, so finding a job is a big problem.

Then there is the issue of elderly care. Nowadays, it is impossible to raise children to provide for old age. It would be good if children do not have to worry about old age. Don’t expect children to take care of themselves in old age, so we must rely on ourselves to provide for old age. Most of the people born in the 1970s in rural areas do not have pensions, so they have to work hard to earn money and make plans for your retirement.

As we reach our forties, I hope those of us born in the 1970s will adjust our mentality, take good care of our bodies, and live a life filled with both hardships and joys. Friends born in the 1970s are welcome to come and interact with us.

Nowadays, the generation born in the 1970s in rural areas is in an embarrassing period of life. Because there are seniors above and juniors below, I am the backbone of the entire family. But they are now reaching their fifties. Most of them have low educational levels and rely on manual labor to earn money to support their families.

As the generation born in the 1970s in rural areas, what problems will they face? 1. Various large expenses required for children’s marriage.

Nowadays, those born in the 1970s are nearly fifty years old themselves, and most of their children are of marriageable age. Nowadays, to get married in rural areas, you need to buy a house, a car, and a large sum of money as a bride price. For the generation born in the 1970s, this is like a mountain weighing on them. Faced with today's high wedding expenses, how much financial resources can those born in the 1970s have to complete a decent wedding for their children?

The ratio of men to women in today's society is imbalanced. As long as the children can find a partner, no matter how many conditions the woman puts forward, she must do her best to meet their requirements. But I don’t have much savings. Even if I borrow some money from relatives and friends to barely hold my child’s wedding, I will still end up with a lot of debt. For those born in the 1970s, there is no doubt that they have to work to earn money to fill this hole. 2. The issue of elderly care for two families.

Nowadays, people born in the 1970s are nearly fifty, and their parents are almost in their 70s to 80s. The issue of elderly care for four elderly people is also a huge financial burden. Most of the elderly at this age have lost the ability to work. If they are in good health and can take care of themselves in daily life, they can alleviate some of the burden on their children. But for some elderly people who cannot take care of themselves, they cannot live without people at all times. Their food, clothing, housing and transportation all need to be taken care of by their children.

Money is not everything, but nothing is impossible without money. As children born in the 1970s, even if they want to be filial to their parents, they do not have the financial means. If you don't go out to work to earn money, what other source of income can support the family? The current generation born in the 1970s is really at a very awkward age. Even if they try their best now, it is difficult to balance the relationship between work and family. These are real problems that people born in the 1970s have to face. 3. The pension and medical issues that you are about to face.

Those born in the 1970s now take care of the daily living expenses of their entire family. All the wages earned from manual labor are used to support the family and take care of family affairs, leaving little savings at all. As they get older and have no pension insurance, how will they solve their pension problems in the future? Because I have been doing heavy manual labor all year round, I also worry about all kinds of family affairs. Their physical condition will deteriorate day by day, and their future working life may become increasingly difficult.

As the saying goes: the most expensive bed in the world is a hospital bed. Adding to their headaches are medical issues. The double pressure from life will make some middle-aged people exhausted physically and mentally, exhausted, and even suffer from some chronic diseases. Some rural people do not dare to go to the hospital casually even if they have a serious illness. Because I usually work hard to earn some money, and when I go to the hospital to see a doctor, the money is like running water. Although there is now a new rural cooperative medical system and hospitals can reimburse part of it, when some serious diseases require surgery, it will make it difficult for an ordinary rural family. Based on the above situations, the real problems that the generation born in the 1970s in rural areas must face are the pension issues of their parents and the marriage expenses of their children, as well as the pension and medical issues that they must consider. These are all major problems facing the generation born in the 1970s.

In addition to the above, what other situations can you think of?

The generation born in the 1970s in rural areas should be around 50 years old by now. As the saying goes in the past, "people live more than 50 years of their lives." As a typical rural person, what problems do you face? Mei Hua comes to share her views with you.

The first problem is the high cost of raising children. For people around 50 years old, if their children are good at studying, they should still be in college, and some are studying for graduate school or Ph.D. Everyone knows that the cost of going to college is indeed very high nowadays, including tuition fees, living expenses, and daily expenses. As a rural person who works hard, almost all of his annual income is invested in his children. It is really difficult for him. bear. Some people with average studies may have reached the age of employment now, and then they need to find a partner and talk about marriage. But today's young people have relatively high requirements for marriage. At least they must have a building in the city. Have a four-wheel car and be debt-free. This is also a big problem and a very serious challenge for farmers who work hard. For the sake of his children's growth and future, he has to bear the burden of providing education for his children no matter how hard or tiring it is. In order for their children to have a happy marriage, parents will definitely sell everything to satisfy their children's requirements. So this is also a difficult problem facing farmers.