1, the demand is not satisfied.

Due to the doting of parents, some children cry and make a scene when they are slightly dissatisfied. If they are not satisfied, they will lose their temper. Parents must not accommodate and accommodate, otherwise it will encourage their children's temper.

Keep him alone in his room, isolate him for a short time, give him time to calm down and reconsider what to do next. Repeatedly, children will feel that it is meaningless to lose their temper and cry. They will not get the attention of their parents and what they want, and they will gradually stop losing their temper.

After the attack subsides, parents should remember to reason with their children and educate them in time. Telling children what they have just done is not good, and threatening parents to meet their own needs by losing their temper can't achieve their goals.

Let children know that parents still love themselves, but they don't love their splashing behavior.

4 On weekdays, we should consciously train children's ability to delay gratification, start from small things, and don't let children learn. As long as it is what I want, my parents will be satisfied immediately, forming a feeling of hardship. In this way, when children occasionally can't get what they want, it is easy to get angry.

⑤ After each attack subsides, we should seriously educate them to realize their mistakes. If you find out when the child can restrain himself from having an attack, you should praise and reward him in time.

2. It has not attracted enough attention.

Sometimes, when a child tells his parents an interesting story endlessly, parents often nod or hum inadvertently because they are busy with their own affairs, so that the child will be very angry.

Parents may wish to temporarily put aside their own affairs, listen to their children's words with focused eyes, understand their children's words with appreciation, and have a chat with their children with great interest, which will be a great support and encouragement for their children.

Parents must provide their children with opportunities to fully express their inner thoughts, be patient, never reprimand and accuse, and never get angry and beat and scold. Otherwise, the child's temper will only get worse.

3 divert the child's attention. The younger the child, the more unstable the mood, and the easier it is to divert attention. When unhappiness occurs, we should use the activity transfer method to let them vent their inner tension in game activities or sports activities. For example, consciously mention one thing that children are most interested in, tell them a favorite and interesting story, or take them to play their favorite swing game.

What should the baby do if he has a bad temper?

The baby has a bad temper, so parents need not worry too much. The following methods will definitely make your baby's temper better:

Method 1: Be patient with children.

Only parents can understand how much patience is needed to treat children. When you carefully prepared a big meal, he didn't eat a bite; When he falls asleep, you have a lot of things to do, and he refuses to sleep anyway; When you are particularly sleepy at night, this little thing will keep crying ... you have to try your best to suppress your anger and treat the baby calmly.

You have to do this, because on second thought, it's not his fault. But can you do it? Can I do it again and again?

Parents try their best to meet his reasonable demands patiently. Children are actually the shadows of their parents. How you treat him will also become a part of his character. You don't want your children to be impatient or even rude.

After all, people's patience is limited, so I need to let him experience some patience and waiting, even if his request is reasonable. For example, if I am doing something and he wants me to accompany him, I will tell him that I am busy and I will accompany him after I finish one thing.

Method 2: Keep your word.

You may think: the child is still young, and it doesn't matter if you cheat him occasionally. In fact, this is not good, unless you want to be cheated by him in the future.

I won't lie to children. I also deliberately want him to know: neither will dad, and dad keeps his word. This is very important, on the one hand, you can gain his trust; On the other hand, it can also establish the prestige of dad's words.

Take a small example: at first, I dressed my child and told him to put things down first. He always refuses in tears. Maybe he thought I'd take them away. After slowly communicating with him, I put on my clothes several times and immediately returned the things to him. Since then, he has kept them with him or given them to me on his own initiative.

Method 3: Be consistent.

Try to be consistent and avoid confusion in children's thinking and judgment. If you allow your child to do this today, and then tell him that he can't do it tomorrow for no reason, it will cause chaos.

You may forget your inconsistency, but children will never forget it. Over time, you will find it difficult to carry out your orders. Is the child willful? Actually, you are one of the reasons.

Method 4: Don't impose your wishes on your children.

Every child has his own joys and sorrows. Even parents have no right to ask them to do everything according to your wishes, even if you do it for his own good. For example, if you think it's time for him to go to bed, you must let him eat a bowl of rice, or you must let him put down his toys and do what you want him to do ... The imposed result will only be counterproductive.

Let children act according to their own wishes. Children are not only happy and optimistic, but also develop an independent character.