The son said: Mom, I really want to eat! But you can't cook these dishes, she said.
I smiled awkwardly.
That's right!
She said I really can't cook any of these dishes!
"But mom also cooks well!" Not to be outdone, I asked my son expectantly, "What's your favorite food?"
The son thought about it and didn't respond. He went on watching TV.
I continued to show off my proof and said, "Don't you like my mother's shredded pork in Beijing sauce?"
The son nodded: Good!
I'm disappointed at the same time a deep sense of guilt straight out from the bottom of my heart:
I am not a qualified mother!
In the child's impression, I don't even have a delicious and unforgettable dish!
Come to think of it, cooking in the kitchen is also a task. The oil, salt and chopped green onion are crispy and can basically fill the stomach when fried. You have never paid attention to what food you are in, and you have never paid attention to and studied "color, fragrance and taste", let alone what nutrition to match.
No wonder the child didn't remember when I asked him.
Looking at my son's thin back, I! Shame on you! I can't believe I keep my child like a pig.
Recognize your mistakes, correct them immediately, and put them into action immediately. This is a great advantage of President Meng! You should learn from me.
I think of my mother, and some of my favorite dishes cooked by her will immediately come to my mind.
I also want my children to have such an impression of me. Even if my cooking is delicious, he will miss my skills and my love for him, even if he goes to the ends of the earth. As soon as I mention my cooking, the child will drool and swallow while talking on the phone. How proud and satisfied I will be at that moment!
All right! Don't just dream, think about how to improve your cooking!
Every time I go home, I remember the feeling of home, and the unity of home is reflected in a reunion dinner. Whether it's a birthday or a holiday, my mother is busy as a leader in the kitchen, and we help clear the table. When a sumptuous meal is set, the whole family will sit together, and the strong feeling of excitement and warmth will always make people feel happy and happy.
I think this feeling of being surrounded by affection comes from the delicious food cooked by my mother and her attitude of cooking. Even if it is chopped green onion, my mother is careful, slow, gentle and considerate, and devoted to the cutting of feelings. She cooks, which is a kind of enjoyment, enjoying the process of washing and cooking. Instead of being a task like me, sometimes even with emotions.
I seem to have found the answer:
Only by condensing maternal love can we make delicious meals and condense the feelings of family members.
Taking cooking as the task, in a hurry, even the husband and wife compare with each other who didn't cook, or directly take a "scissors and hammer", whoever loses will do it and take cooking as a punishment. How can the rice cooked with such mentality and emotions be delicious? Does it taste good？ ! I always believe that everything is spiritual, including food.
You can't create a good family atmosphere if you can't cook.
There was a single mother who loved her son very much, worked very hard and made money desperately to send her to school, but neglected to give her a warm family. When my son is 25 years old, he will leave home to study abroad. Before he left, he made a request to her, saying, Mom, I want to eat your jiaozi. You never gave me jiaozi. But my mother said, I won't do it. I am so busy all day that I have no time to learn cooking and jiaozi.
She went to the supermarket to buy quick-frozen dumplings and cooked them for the children at home.
My son ate frozen jiaozi silently, only a few mouthfuls, and then stopped eating. On the day I left, at the airport, my son suddenly said, Mom, I know you love me very much, but you always let me down. Growing up, I envied my classmates to eat my mother's cooking, but you never cooked it for me. Why did dad leave you? I've always wanted to study far away, just because our family doesn't feel at home.
What her son said made her mother very sad. It never occurred to her that not being able to cook would have such serious consequences.
The single mother studies cooking hard. When her son came back from a holiday abroad for the first time, she brought her son jiaozi, which she packed herself. My son was moved to tears and said to his mother, this is the feeling of home I want. The mother-child relationship has become closer.
A simple meal has such a function, making home more like home, making mother more like mother, and giving maternal love a concrete form that can be expressed.
What happens in the kitchen not only affects children, but also affects every adult living in the family.
One of my colleagues came back from a business trip and was in a blue mood.
I asked him what happened. He said he left a steamed bun in the pot before he left. He came back from a business trip for half a month and opened it. He is still there intact, with a thick layer of green hair. The stove in the kitchen is covered with dust. When I came home tired and saw the cold stove in the ice pot at home, my heart became cold. Although his wife is very kind to him, every time he goes home, he feels cold, unhappy and warm at home. After a long time, he had the idea of not wanting to go home.
It turns out that his wife can't cook, and the kitchen utensils at home are furnishings.
No matter adults or children, the warm atmosphere of fireworks is irreplaceable when they come home from a hard day and eat at home around a table of hot meals.
Family happiness is inseparable from the kitchen. If a woman doesn't know how to use the kitchen and can't show her talent and charm in the kitchen, her happiness index will drop and family happiness will be difficult to guarantee.
Can make a delicious meal, not only contains a deep affection, but also reflects the good cultivation of China women, and reflects her love for life and care for her family.
The kitchen can narrow the distance between women and their families, and also make women feel that they are needed, dependent on happiness and satisfied with physical and mental stability.
The kitchen is a bond to maintain a family's feelings, or a position to protect a family's health. When family members eat well and eat healthily under our care, our sense of happiness will also increase and our life will become better and better.
Women should make good use of the small world of the kitchen, maintain the health of their families, maintain their feelings, and let their role at home be reflected.
When a woman skillfully uses food knowledge in the kitchen to process various ingredients into dishes with different tastes, it is an art that can benefit her family and herself.
When women master the art of cooking, they inherit our profound traditional culture and exude a charming cohesion, which makes it easy for people around them to experience affection and friendship from a meal, and the relationship between people becomes closer. It's a pity that those women who can't cook invisibly weaken their appeal.
Even in Gu Long's martial arts novels, it is said that to grasp a man's heart, we must first grasp his stomach.
So are children. No matter how far apart, he can feel his mother's love from a dish that is memorable and makes people swallow their saliva.
A woman who can cook is often more likely to get family happiness, more popular, and makes people feel kind and warm than a woman who can't cook. Being able to cook can also show a woman's accomplishment and enhance her charm.
A woman who loves life will try her best to make her family eat happily and healthily in the kitchen and let her happiness overflow from the kitchen to the whole family.
The kitchen is another world where women realize themselves outside the workplace. Here, smart women can show their creativity, their talents and give full play to their personal abilities.
Besides, cooking is a very hard job. Mom needs the love and encouragement of the whole family, especially dad, and then turn this love into motivation and pour it into cooking to make delicious meals. In this way, a virtuous circle of family is formed, which is warm and romantic.
My mother is not busy cooking, but sets chopsticks and greets everyone to eat. The family just walked slowly to the table like grandfathers, saying that this dish was salty and that dish was weak.
How can a disgruntled mother make her cooking better and cook a delicious meal? !
As long as the whole family uses snacks and feelings a little, we can all achieve the desired scene.
If you want to be a good wife and mother, start from the kitchen and transform yourself!
Stop it and study the recipe!
On TV, Tu Tu's mother Xiaoli showed off in an ostentatious manner again: "I am the kitchen of our family. I am good at writing and martial arts. I am the first beauty in Wulin." ...