1, the trace you once left is like a tattoo. If you want to erase it, you must bear great pain.
2, people-oriented, management can be easy and effective. Han Feizi grasped people's fear of power for profit and summed up the method of "punishing what they used". Under normal circumstances, managers are willing to implement incentives to show goodwill and prestige, motivate employees' morale and win their loyalty. But blindly rewarding is not the way. Some people may not regard rewards as the driving force for their progress, so they should be punished. Reward them with what they deserve and punish them with what they deserve; On the other hand, the same person, the reward will be rewarded, the severity will be severe, and the punishment will be punished and cannot be tolerated. Only by combining leniency with severity and distinguishing rewards and punishments can we manage our subordinates better.
3. Beauty seduces men; Talented women attract men; Kind women encourage men; Smart women make men. Women don't have to be beautiful, as long as someone loves them deeply; Women don't have to be too rich, just be happy; Women don't have to be too strong, just live a noble life!
4. To achieve the goal, first, focus, and second, repeat.
Set a goal, and the following things will become simple and easy.
6. You should firmly believe that it is not the alarm clock that wakes you up every day, but the dream in your heart. When a new day begins, the only person you should try to surpass is yourself yesterday.
7. In every period, you must have an imaginary enemy in your heart. This attitude is not to let you beat others in everything, but to have a goal and the perseverance to break through. When you grow and progress, you will have a more comprehensive understanding of those imaginary enemies, rather than a single hatred and jealousy, and go beyond it to reach a better self. Only in this way will your life have a span and a sense of mission. This is a play you added to yourself.
8. Life is colorful, but the road of life is also difficult and tortuous. Maybe everyone doesn't have such a legendary experience as aunt, but such an experience can really enrich life experience, make people feel more from it, make people stronger and love life more. Looking at my optimistic, confident and strong aunt, I am sure of this. At the same time, we also wish menstruation, after many twists and turns, the road of life must be smooth sailing and good luck.
9. There is such a village, located in the depths of the mountains, with an average elevation of more than 700 meters. Because of the inconvenient transportation, there is not much contact with the outside world. It is said that this village is very old, and the ancestors of the villagers are down-and-out officials who have read many poems and songs. They have come to flee. He brought his family, relatives and family, as well as Confucian culture. After several generations, many things have been forgotten and lost, but the essence of traditional culture has remained.
10, Buddhism is common, but the way the world demands it is very strange, so it is often not Buddhism. Therefore, Japan's "normal mind is the Tao." -"The Complete Works of Bai Zi Zun Zi"
1 1, if people are narrow-minded, it is always difficult to calm their hearts; Learn to be generous and forgive others' shortcomings and mistakes. You have to forgive others, forgive others and let people pass. Generous people are open-minded, do not haggle over every ounce, do not hold grudges, and are naturally happy.
12, life is like this, it's not up to you.
13, pragmatic, if you can afford it, you must really take it: Wukong, if you can put it down, you must put it all down.
14, the height of the vine is never higher than that of the tree, because it has no own backbone.
15, only the truth that is not stained, the goodness that is not sought, and the beauty that is dust-free will last forever.
16, the most painful thing is not that we can't meet, but that we can't be together for a long time after meeting.
17, those of us who live for life will get used to our comfortable life, so we will lose a lot of ideas, but on the other hand, when we have ideas, we will feel that life will have another way. You will go forward bravely, you will do it regardless, and you will think that you must realize your dream.
18, from one failure to another without losing enthusiasm, this is the process of success.
19, there is no one who does not make mistakes. Don't waste time regretting. Punishing yourself with past mistakes is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake.
20, coffee suffers from sweetness, not how to stir, but whether to put sugar; The pain is not so hard to forget, but whether you have the courage to start over.
2 1, don't underestimate any moment, every minute and second may be a turning point in life. On the road of life, everyone crosses the river by feeling the stones. The mystery of fate lies in its complexity. In your life, you will meet countless people. You can't predict who your life belongs to and which is the master of your life. Fortunately, the causal cycle, good ends well, evil is rewarded with evil. Cherish good karma and have a kind heart, and your fate will not be bad. Fate is ultimately made by oneself.
22. In fact, nothing in this world belongs to us. On the earth, we are just a passing soul ... perhaps the only thing that belongs to us is the happiness and sadness of that moment in life and the soul that we think for ourselves.
23. Only by persisting in the hard life you don't want can you live the happy life you want in the future.
Life is such a process. Sadly, it cannot be repeated. Fortunately, this need not be repeated. We always think we have time? There are many more, but not. ...
25. Life is like a play, and the past is like smoke. Don't embarrass others and humiliate yourself for your persistence.
26, life, without eternal love, no ending feelings, will always end; People who can't get it will always forget it. Slowly, you won't cry anymore; Slowly, everything has passed ... Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life. People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live too sober are prone to anxiety. Sober people look too real, everything is too serious, and troubles are everywhere. Good morning ~
27. Everyone is chasing their dreams.
28, happiness, there is never a shortcut, there is no perfection, different mentality, life will be different. In fact, there are many things in life that are not the best, as long as you think it is worth it. Success and failure, happiness and misfortune will not be defined in your mind.
29. Life can't be lived by mood, but by mentality. The strong in life will adjust their mentality in time and maintain a positive and sunny mood. People affected by mood are often confused, and people affected by mood are often very happy.
30. Sitting on the balcony, drinking a little wine, blowing a cool breeze, looking at the river view and thinking about life in the middle of the night. No place to live, just wandering around.
3 1, seeing others is not pleasing to the eye, but self-cultivation is not enough.
If you fail, you may be disappointed. If you don't try, you are doomed to fail. Tell yourself: Today is the best day. Every step, after learning, you should calm down and look at the running water, their humility, their tenacity, their liveliness and their calmness. Those troubled personnel look on coldly, let them drift with the flow, go their own way, look at their own scenery, and deal with everything with their heart, even sadness.
33. Life is like sailing against the current, only for the dream of the world of mortals.
34. How many people always feel naive, give up their true colors in fear, mature in many ways, and smile can't shine into their already dim hearts.
35. Trying may fail, but giving up will definitely not succeed.
36. Come to think of it, aren't we human beings? Ask yourself, how many people live entirely for themselves? Just like flowers and fruits, the brilliance of flowers is for the richness of fruits, and the richness of fruits is for the brilliant flowers of tomorrow. Cycle after cycle, life can be endless. If one day we are about to take a curtain call, can we blend into the earth as calmly and smartly as flowers?
37. Life is a play. Newcomers enter and old people leave. Life is a song. Stop here and pick it up there. Life is like an ocean, and there are many mysteries to explore.
38. I am who I think I am.
39. If you smile alone, you mean it.
40. Climbers who aim at the top will not be intoxicated by a certain footprint along the way. If you are afraid of the ups and downs of the rocks ahead, life will always be a stagnant pool.
4 1. Where does the cloud flow and disperse?
42. Evil can become absurd through excess; It shows that you can make evil absurd and that kind of harm worthless by greatly crushing the demands of evil.
43. A believer produces more power than an interested person.
Genius is not born for genius, but for human beings.
45. Genius looks for obstacles, and obstacles create genius.
46, the angel's henchmen broke off the world, which became our sorrow; Honesty is thrown away and scattered into the world, becoming Satan's wand.
47. Height is life. When you go to the highest place, leave room for the lower place; When you lower your posture, leave room for the high posture.
I just want to find someone who can bear my tears when I am frustrated and let me bite my shoulder when I am happy. I hope that in the days when I love you, you also love me, and I hope that such days will never pass; I hope to accompany you to the end of the world, the end of time.
49. In life, we'd better not take sorry as the trump card, but think twice before you act. Think about the consequences of what you have done with your conscience. Because people have a lot of hearts? Fragile, it can't stand the harm of others (especially the people you trust most). Hurting others is like inserting a knife into a person's body and then pulling it out. The wound will be difficult to heal. No matter how you apologize and make up for it, the scar will still stay there!
50. Love is accompanied by happiness. Love has different definitions, but there is a natural feeling that will accompany us all our lives. Some people say it is happiness, because there is love everywhere in the world, but it is not. Love is not an innate virtue, it needs to be learned and accompanied by us all our lives. A child who just learned to walk, he doesn't know happiness. From the moment he came to this world, he opened his eyes, and then slowly learned to be a toddler. People around him would give him infinite caring eyes and meticulous care. Accepting this kind of happy care is much more, and the seeds of happiness naturally fall in his bones.
5 1, what you gain will be lost: when you are born as a human being, you lose your daughter's status; When you are mature, you lose your innocence; I chose the hardships of one occupation, but I didn't realize the responsibility of another occupation; If you have a noisy town, you will lose a quiet mountain village; With a safe harbor, there is no wandering; If you want a clear stream, you can't see the magnificent sea. ...
52. For a cup of tea, Buddhists watch Zen, Taoists watch Qi, and Confucianism watches ceremony. Tea said: I am a glass of water, and what I give you is only your imagination. You are what you think. Now my cup of tea is as sweet as honey. This is happiness and beauty! Life doesn't need to be complicated, just simple!
53. Life is too short to stop what you want, and you can't keep what you want. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown and watered, how much you have gained is not the only criterion for success or failure. What matters is your painful and unforgettable experience hidden in the details.
54. There is no happiness or misfortune in this world, only a comparison between one situation and another. That's all. Only those who have experienced the greatest misfortune can feel the greatest happiness. You must think of the pain of death to understand the happiness of life.
55. The spark of wisdom ignites passion and creates a bright future through hard work.
56. I miss it all the time because I don't want to look back.
57. Struggle is life, and there is only progress in life.
58. Today is my birthday. Remember to go alone and try to be an emotionally stable adult.
59. Perhaps, people who have experienced resentment will know more clearly and understand the harm that resentment does to themselves. Stay away from resentment and go your own way, so that life can be healthy and happy. Holding a grudge is a bad feeling in life. Some people and things really don't have to suffer and hate the whole world. If you look down, everything becomes simple. Let go, just for a moment.
60. The road of life is composed of success and frustration, success and frustration, glory and gloom, flatness and twists and turns, connecting our tears and laughter and bearing our sadness and joy. No matter success, adversity or failure, it is just a process, and the road is still extending forward. I believe that no matter how long the rainy season is, it can't extinguish the heat of the sun; No matter how many difficulties and hardships there are, they can't stop our dream of soaring.
6 1, nothing is perfect in the world. Imperfection is actually a kind of beauty. Only by constantly striving for and enduring failures and setbacks can we be happy. That is to brew the sweet wine of life with the bitterness of life.
62. Don't take yourself too seriously. In the rush of life, you are just a passer-by. In the long river of human history, you can't even compare the weight of a grain of sand.
63. The world is always unreasonable and unreasonable. Look at the city, it's too noisy; Look at life too hard; Look at life is too long; Looking at the future, it's too confusing. I've always wanted to find my own world, not to stir up the world of mortals and stay out of the world.
64. Life is just a meeting and a parting.
65. I have been running in the sunset because I know that my life has no end.
66. In a cloud in the evening, what you really have is your mood. Why not let go and torture yourself?
67. Everyone's eyes are stored in a camera? Memories of others in life.
68. Life is getting calmer and calmer, and you are too lazy to think about so many things that bother you. You don't want to talk too much about feelings with others. You slowly settle down in your life, and you find it is also a very happy thing to read recipes online in your spare time. You tell yourself that from now on, you will be indifferent and move on.
69. When you meet people who misunderstand you, you should eliminate the misunderstanding.
70. Eddie mentioned the strength to support his survival: "In this life, you always have to give yourself some goals to look forward to."
7 1, life is short and impermanent, you should live well and bloom vigorously, just like fireworks, even if it is short, it is full of light and heat!
72. Everyone thought that his father was not simple when he was a child, then he felt that he was not simple, and now he feels that his children are not simple.
73. Before, I felt that the society was unfair, the world was too dark, and there were all kinds of helplessness. It turned out that I was wrong, a strange mistake, so don't blame this and that. You can only blame yourself. Your incompetence has caused you injustice. Yes, it's your incompetence, not the fault of society.
74. Happiness is a lollipop in a little girl's hand, a warm sunshine in winter, a love when a lover comes home late, and a pair of kind eyes ... Happiness seems out of reach, but in fact it is within reach.
75. Be considerate in everything so that we can meet later.
76. The most encouraging fact is that human beings can really make active efforts to enhance the value of life.
77. The world is big and happiness is good. The family is neat, healthy and happy. -is the ideal life.
78. Don't say that other people's dreams are impossible. It will be an embarrassing thing when they prove you wrong with success.
79. When we can't find happiness, we look for pain to fill ourselves. When we are in pain, at least we won't feel bored. Therefore, we would rather be with pain than endure boredom, because boredom is more like death.