Hammer told me a funny joke two days ago, saying it was a novice mother, and her child was just full moon and inexperienced. She was afraid that there was something wrong with the child, so she took a magnifying glass and gave the child a general examination every day. When she found herself with little golden hair, she asked the doctor. When she opened her eyelids and saw a small piece of blood, she also asked the doctor. Later the doctor advised her to throw away the magnifying glass.

After listening to this, my heart was filled with joy, but on second thought, which novice mother hasn't experienced the stage of being so cautious, sensitive and even a little neurotic when her child is just born and can't express it?

I was a neurotic person before I had children. Since I had my bag and saw that little soft and even a little ugly baby for the first time, I have embarked on the road of blx. . .

He is so young that anything strange makes me nervous. He always eats his hands in the womb, and his fingers are scarred and never fall off. It became my heart at that time. I admit it's a small problem, but I also took him to the hospital. After the doctor saw it, he said it was okay. It will be fine. Then ask me, "Is this your first child?" . . .

It is said that the first child is raised by the book, that's right. They are all "novices" who are mothers for the first time. They don't know what to do on the way to raising children. They rely on the internet and books to ask and see, for fear that the children have any problems.

However, as the children grew up bit by bit, I didn't know where to start from the beginning and gradually adapted. From the beginning, I couldn't wait to move my family to the hospital before I felt at ease. Later, I asked him to climb high and low, knocking n times a week. . .

To put it bluntly, the root cause of a mother's anxiety is actually her instinct to protect her children as a mother beast.

When you have a second child and have the experience of raising a baby, this anxiety will be relieved a lot, and the process of raising a baby will be simpler and more natural, and there will be no more troubles and attention, and you will not be so nervous.

It is estimated that when every mother is still in the "novice period", she looks at her children all the way and walks nervously, right? Look at the experiences of these mothers around me, I guess there are also your original shadows ~

@ Lele Ma

How nervous it can be to be a mother for the first time, I feel that time is really not far from anxiety. I am very cautious when meeting my children, especially when he was young. He's crying, and I'm worried that he's not feeling well. He is very quiet, and I am worried that he is really "sick". He always treats my children with online symptoms and often scares himself to sleep in the middle of the night.

I ran to the hospital for three days, trying to find a doctor to know everything, but nothing happened, and I always came back with a pile of health products.

At that time, my mother told me that you always blindly diagnose what is wrong with your child, and there is nothing wrong with your child. I think you have a problem. . .

@ Ran Ran Ma

I have always been a careless character, and society has failed to make me anxious. Raising children really makes me anxious. . .

When my son is less than 9 months old, he can't climb neatly. Because I read that a nine-month-old child can climb two or three meters, I have been worried about what is wrong with his leg. Later, during the physical examination, the doctor said that he did not exercise very well. I immediately blushed and asked the doctor which part was not well raised.

Later, I went to see a kinematic doctor on purpose. The doctor said there was nothing wrong with the child's leg, and it would get better gradually. Don't always treat children according to their illness. . .

Now he is two years old, and he jumps every day. Think about it then.

@ Hum Ma

My son is one and a half years old and is going through. . . Often suspicious, blx to IQ offline. . .

Let's just say that one night the other day, I found a tiny black spot on my son's face, which I didn't wash off when I washed my face. I thought, it's over. Why did it suddenly grow a mole as soon as I was born? I quickly took out my mobile phone and began to search for "Why did the one-and-a-half-year-old baby suddenly grow a mole?" ; "What happens when a one-and-a-half-year-old baby suddenly grows a mole?" "One-and-a-half-year-old mole, will it get bigger with age?" . . .

Later, the more I checked, the more worried I became. The more I check, the more scared I am. I quickly called my husband who was watching TV in the living room to discuss whether to take the children to the hospital tomorrow. As a result, my husband didn't listen to my excitement when he came in. He calmly lowered his head, held out his hand, and gently brushed his nails on his son's sleeping face, and the mole fell off. . . . . .

Then he said to me silently, "Look at what this is. This is seaweed sticking to your face. . . . "

@ jingjing jingjing

My baby's mouth was a little crooked when he was born, which startled us. The doctor said and poked my stomach cheek with his little hand. It's no big deal, but our whole family is particularly worried. We are looking for experts everywhere, hoping to see it next month. Experts from major hospitals in Beijing took a look. Every expert said it was ok, so I didn't keep my feet on the ground, so I didn't do it well for the next month.

Chenchenma

Remembering that when the baby could not speak, I once fed him hairtail, and carefully cleaned up the thorns before eating. As a result, I cried just after eating two bites. I subconsciously thought that the fishbone was stuck, and my mother and I were sweating. I also gave him heimlich first aid, and the baby cried even more.

I quickly took a taxi with my mother to the hospital for emergency treatment. On the way to the hospital, I cried and called my father on a business trip, scaring his father into buying a plane ticket.

Later, when I got to the hospital, I stopped crying and making trouble. She saw a doctor and said it was just a small aphtha in her mouth. Fortunately, his father didn't arrive at the airport at that time. . .

Raising a baby for the first time is really a stage of anxiety and worry. I was worried about their growth and development when I was a child. When I was in kindergarten, I was worried about my personal safety. When I went to school, I began to worry about education. . .

There are too many things to face after having children, so take it easy on the road. Just like when I was pregnant, I suggest you don't always think of yourself as a glass man. When the child is born, you don't always think of the child as a glass man. A lot of things are actually scaring yourself. Sometimes I think about it, that's how I grew up ~

Having said that, do you have a similar experience? Let's talk in the comments section. Of course, if you have any solutions to "anxiety", you are welcome to talk about it ~

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