Campus love during college is very beautiful, so many students compare it to a task.
After going to college, students are basically adults, schools and teachers will not interfere too much in students' lives, and parents will be much more relaxed in their discipline.
Especially in love, before going to college, many parents forbade their children to fall in love, but after going to college, they are eager for their children to take their other half home one day, and their attitude can be said to have changed 180 degrees.
Just after the seven-day National Day holiday, many college students also take this opportunity to take their partners home and formally introduce them to their parents, and at the same time let their parents know more about their family environment.
However, not all parents are satisfied with their children's objects, and some parents may even have conflicts with their children because of this matter.
My son took his girlfriend home during the university holiday. The girl was obedient and sensible, but her mother said that she could not accept that Xiao Wang was a sophomore in a university this year. He is usually excellent in academic performance and other aspects, and rarely worries his parents. Parents are also happy to have a son like him.
On the eve of the National Day holiday this year, Xiao Wang also told his parents that he would take his girlfriend home during the holiday and formally introduce her to his parents.
Xiao Wang's parents are naturally very happy to hear this. In order to leave a good impression on the girls, they began to decorate their homes and prepare recipes a few days in advance.
In a blink of an eye, the holiday arrived, and Xiao Wang took his girlfriend home as promised. The girl is very beautiful and cultured in everything she says and does. She had a good talk with Xiao Wang's parents. After dinner, the girl took the initiative to help Xiao Wang's mother clear the table, which made Xiao Wang's mother feel better.
However, seeing that it was getting late and it was completely dark outside, the girl still didn't want to go. Xiao Wang's mother couldn't sit still and began to hint that Xiao Wang would send the girl home.
Unexpectedly, the girl said that she would stay at Xiao Wang's house tonight and not go home. Then she asked Xiao Wang's mother for a set of bedding and lived in Xiao Wang's room.
That night, the more Xiao Wang's mother thought about it, the more wrong she was. She was satisfied with everything about the girl, but the behavior of not going home to share a room with Xiao Wang at night made her feel uncomfortable instantly.
The next day, after Xiao Wang sent his girlfriend away, his mother told Xiao Wang to let her break up with the girl, saying that the girl naturally shared a room with Xiao Wang the first time she went home with Xiao Wang.
This practice is too casual, and even began to suspect that there is something wrong with the girl's style, thinking that an honest child like Xiao Wang was cheated by the girl.
Xiao Wang naturally couldn't understand his mother's thoughts and had a quarrel with her. She felt that her mother was too conservative and said that she would never break up with her girlfriend, which made her very depressed.
The public also has different views on this matter. In fact, things like this are not uncommon, and netizens have different views on this. One is that parents should respect their children's wishes, and how children choose is their business, and parents should not interfere too much.
Moreover, some netizens think that the man's parents are suspected of "selling cheaply", because in any case, girls suffer a lot, and since the girls have not said anything, the man's parents still have nothing to entangle.
However, some other netizens think that this practice of young couples is really inappropriate. In any case, they are still students, so as parents, they should have the right to care and educate.
Resolutely not let them live together, which is also responsible for girls, and girls themselves should have the awareness of protecting themselves, even couples can not easily live together.
At the same time, many netizens and Xiao Wang's mother have the same idea that girls who share a room with boys easily are too "frivolous" to respect themselves. For the sake of boys' future, we should break up with girls.
Campus love should be measured, and parents should respect their children. In fact, college students do have the freedom to fall in love. After all, love and marriage are free. Campus love is also a good ending if it can be cultivated into a positive result.
However, before the future is uncertain, college students really need to remain rational and grasp the discretion of communication. After all, I am still a student, so I should focus on my studies. Campus love is beautiful, but the premise of everything is not to delay normal study.
Parents should also give their children full respect and understanding. If children say they want to bring their partners home, don't be biased against things without knowing the situation.
Parents are advised to communicate with their children in advance if they really can't accept their children's objects to avoid unnecessary troubles caused by temporary circumstances.
We should find a suitable opportunity to communicate with our children actively and peacefully, explain our parents' thoughts to them, listen to their thoughts and not make decisions for them.
Today's topic: Do you think college students can share a room at night when they bring their partners home for the first time?
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