In ancient times, families with power and wealth treated their girls as daughters and were called good girls by outsiders. His precious daughter lives a rich life with her rich family. Girls in ordinary families can only resign themselves to fate and listen to the words of matchmakers. When a woman marries a man's family, she will retreat behind the scenes and become a concubine who specializes in serving men, assisting men's lives and helping men succeed in their careers.
In modern times, with the changes of times and policies, having boys and girls is no longer the focus of discussion. Girls, like boys, can also make great achievements in their own living environment.
However, girls will eventually marry and live in other people's homes. Influenced by the traditional view of marriage, girls receive different family education after birth, and maintain the traditional vulgar view centered on men in the formation of social cognition. With the change of family growth environment and the interference and influence of parents on girls' marriage, it has become the wish of many parents for girls to marry a well-off family when they grow up.
Back to the question we need to discuss, why do girls have the dream of marrying into a rich family?
First of all, influenced by the traditional concept of marriage, girls will marry into boys' homes when they grow up and become good wives of others. In the new era and new environment, parents have expectations for their children's happiness and future, and hope that their daughters can marry into a family with good conditions and live a happy life. Girls will have to listen to their parents' arrangements and opinions because of their parents' interference and moral constraints on marriage.
Secondly, the quality of family conditions makes girls' cognition of society and life biased, thinking that girls will become other people's wives sooner or later. Some girls are immersed in the dream and illusory reality of marrying into a rich family because of their misunderstanding of outlook on life and marriage. For example, in order to satisfy their own interests, women who worship money in society love vanity and covet money and material enjoyment. The end of this money worship will only self-destruct the future and eat the consequences.
Finally, the pressure of work and life makes some girls' ideology decline, and they dream of marrying a rich man, a noble family, honoring their ancestors and winning glory for their parents for a long time. As a result, my life has fallen into a confused trough, my working ability has declined, and my spirit has been depressed. I dreamed of meeting my son one day, and I was successful and carefree from then on. This enterprising attitude towards life turns girls from positive to negative, dreaming of marrying into a rich family and fantasizing about living a happy life.
When a girl marries a so-called rich family, relying on the rich family environment of the man, she can certainly live a relaxed, free and rich life. However, China people generally pay attention to the right match, so it should be an opportunity and fate for a girl to marry into a rich family. Girls should focus on their emotional life, not on the enjoyment of money and material things, and dream of marrying into a rich family and rest easy.
With the progress of society and the improvement of people's living standards, the demand for marriage for boys and girls is constantly changing, and girls have surpassed boys in all aspects, even better than boys. Therefore, girls should seek truth from facts, keep a clear consciousness, improve their viability, and achieve their happy life and goals by their own efforts.