First of all, the boss plays the emotional card to close the relationship, not to raise money for him. You don't have to use it if you want. You don't want to raise money. Second, playing emotional cards may indicate that you have encountered any difficulties, thinking about borrowing money or other things. Anyway, you just attract people with your feelings and don't want to invest in other experiences. Third, not everyone can play emotional cards. If the boss can play at the door, their relationship is still good.