As the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been complicated since ancient times. Because two unrelated women love a man at the same time, there is an unspeakable relationship. This relationship is handled well, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law love each other, and the mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law because of her son, and the daughter-in-law cherishes her mother-in-law because of her love for her husband, and the relationship will be harmonious; But if it is not handled well, there will be cracks between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is difficult to make up.
The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also manifested in the contradiction and even infighting in the management and control of family affairs; Even because of different life backgrounds and habits, they are not adapted to each other and do not accept each other. Is there any way to adjust it?
1, mutual respect and understanding.
Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should recognize each other's independent personality and economic status, and the relationship between the two sides is equal, not that one side must rely on the domination and domination of the other.
Respect each other, ask both sides to discuss things with the whole family, such as economic expenses and things involving the whole family, and cultivate a democratic family style; It is a personal matter and should not interfere with each other.
As a daughter-in-law, you should respect your mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law is old and has rich domestic experience, so she should listen to her advice. A mother-in-law should not always put on airs in front of her daughter-in-law, but should see her strengths and respect her opinions.
2. Don't quarrel.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along for many years, and it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen. At this time, both sides need to understand each other and put themselves in each other's shoes. When there are differences and contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both sides must deal with them calmly and never make a big deal out of it.
Quarrel can't solve any problems, but it will also bring bad negative emotional influence to people, which will not only damage their health, but also worsen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband often bears a very important responsibility.
Husband is the link between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so if the husband has a high emotional intelligence, it will definitely play an important role in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband should not only be treated fairly, but also be affectionate and righteous.
You know, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is hopeless.
For a family with a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are often many problems in the family itself. This kind of family is not calm, but it has added a powerful and more disturbing one. The son of this family is naturally not much better, either a loser, a freak, a mother-in-law or a character defect. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a bowl of water is flat and a kiss is sparse; In dealing with things, it is not embellished, or it is irrelevant and hangs high; When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fight, it is more worry-free to sit and watch the tigers fight.
In this family relationship, there is a hopeless contradiction, which is not caused by the arrival of the daughter-in-law, but the existence of the family itself, which has been deeply rooted for decades. So, when you enter this house, you must either die or stop as soon as possible, cut the meat and leave, and stop playing with them. Life is too short to hang from a tree.