As the saying goes: "Words are the key to happiness." If you say happy things, your happiness will double; if you say unhappy things, your worries will be halved. Famous crosstalk actor Li Zengrui once shared his experience. If you have anything to say, talk to the best person until you don't want to talk. This way, everything can be resolved and you won't feel depressed.

While spending time with my mother, I found that "chatting" can make her more energetic. My mother is now in her 80s. Because her legs have been replaced and her knees have rheumatism, she cannot go out and does very little activity at home, mainly watching TV. Although he has limited mobility, his mind is clear and his memory is very good. He can recite more than ten mobile phone numbers. My mother is an open-minded person. She watches TV every day to relieve her boredom. She never gets tired of watching "Open the Door", "Start for Happiness" and "If You Are the One". In my mother’s words, after watching these programs, all my worries will disappear.

My parents had a deep love for each other throughout their lives. Because of my father’s departure, my mother was depressed for a time. My mother was in an inexplicable bad mood that day, and she ignored her words and just watched TV with a sullen face. I feel angry even when I talk to others on the phone. I don’t know who I am angry with. Monk Zhang Er is confused. Why did this originally "sunny" suddenly become "dark clouded"? In the afternoon, I made my mother's favorite croquettes, which calmed down a little bit. When I went to bed at night, I asked my mother why she was unhappy. She said, "Because today is Tuesday." I looked confused: "What happened to Tuesday?" My mother said, "Have you forgotten? Your dad passed away on Tuesday. ”

My heart suddenly became sad. How could I forget? I’m just busy in my daily routine without thinking about it deliberately. Tuesday was the saddest day for my mother because of her father's departure. In an instant, I realized that for my mother, who has been with her father for more than 50 years, her father's departure is an unforgettable memory and unspeakable pain for her. This cannot be passed in a day or two, nor can it be left unsaid. It means not sad.

Without chatting, I have no idea how lonely and suffering my seemingly calm mother is inside. That night my mother and I talked a lot, about my father, and about our common memories. My mother, who usually goes to bed at 9 o'clock, didn't go to bed until 12 o'clock that day, but she slept soundly and peacefully. From that day on, we chatted for a while before going to bed every night, and my mother's mood became more and more peaceful.

It is said that people become more like children as they get older, and this is absolutely true. The elderly and children are very similar. They both lack a sense of security, need the nourishment of love, and both find happiness easily. Now I find that I can accompany the elderly with the attitude of caring for children, chat with them attentively, and sincerely praise them, and they will smile and feel at peace.

Whenever my mother said that she was a burden to us as she got older, I would look into her eyes and tell her: "Mom, your presence is our greatest happiness. Seeing my mother sitting there When we are healthy, we feel at ease and have roots. When we are eighty years old, we are the embodiment of wisdom!”

We also usually talk about the latest news we heard from outside or the gossip about celebrities. Let me tell my mother why Dong Qing lost contact with her husband, and Qin Yi passed away at the age of 100 after experiencing ups and downs, and asked her to help me with advice on daily interpersonal relationships. That day the neighbor's aunt came to visit and chat with my mother. My mother talks endlessly and knows more than the aunt who goes out every day.

That day I searched "filial piety" on Baidu, and it was divided into several levels. Making people fed and clothed is the first level; making them feel at ease and happy is the second level; making them realize their own value is the third level. "Talk" makes my mother open her mind and become more and more energetic. It should be the second level.

Mom and I, a "post-80s" and a "post-70s", work together to reach the third level!